Friday, August 15, 2008

Free Fall Friday: Remix 4 U & Me 2.0

Is this month in a slip stream or what? If not it's slip slidin away with a quickness. 2008 has been a roller coaster ride so far, but it ain't over til it's over. Especially with the all the important Presidential elections looming just over the horizon, war still raging and rumors of war within earshot. I'm in the house, back in the big chair and ready to roll. So, if you're ready, let's get busy!

Lypsincka Me: Many thanks to those of you who sent me song suggestions for Saturday's benefit show at the DSRA( Diamond State Rodeo Association) Clubhouse. Each one was a good one and the winner is....Well you'll just have to come to the show to check it out. It's all going down at 9 p.m. on Hoffman Road (501.562.4466) I'll see ya there. Will you join us?


Cool Clubbing: The weather is cooling off and apparently so is it at Club Good Times where long awaited additional air conditioning is providing patrons with a cool spot to party, However, even though the place has gotten some air, there's still an air of violence and fighting that prevails according to sources who put their faces in the place. I just don't get this type of behavior or why it seems that when my brothers and sisters get together in a space this drama activity is par for the course. Did you mama not teach ya nothing? It's so unfortunate and frustrating to keep hearing these reports. Perhaps some of those who can't control themselves may need some anger management intervention. So here's my Keepin It Real tit for tat: Stop the madness people before someone gets seriously hurt or even worse, killed.


Tribute to the Mac Man: The tragedy of Bernie Mac's death juxtaposed to the departure of Issac Hayes is certainly a reality check. Ultimately, we come to this earth with an unknown destination as to our departure. Just like the rest of the world, I was deeply sadden but will always remember the shock comic wit of Mr. Mac and his groundbreaking TV show that kept me in stitches. He will be missed. Thanks Mac Man for the years of laughter and tears.

Doing the Springs: I promised you a little more about my R & R to the Springs earlier this week and here it is. When you really think about it, Hot Springs has some interesting little nooks of entertainment, features, eateries and tourist traps for you spending pleasure. JCM and I did breakfast at The Pancake House on Central. This retro restaurant has been in business since 1940 according to the historical brief on the menu. Stepping in the place you get a "hearty welcome" and promptly seated. Our waitress, Irene was moving and shaking her section with a routine pace that I later learned she's been doing for 28 years. Talk about longevity! We both had blueberry pancakes which were the size of hub cabs plus a side of bacon. Hot, tasty and filling was all I could say. You can get some menu items from a small shop next door or have them ship it to your door. Especially the ham products which sound like they could melt in your mouth. Next up: Mid America Science Museum's Our Body exhibit. I was so intrigued after reading about this exhibition coming to Arkansas, that I wanted to make sure that I got to see it. I love museum's and all that goes with them. This unusual spectacle offered me another self teachable moment as we toured the various displays of actual human bodies. Yes, you heard me right the first time, real human specimens revealing what lies beneath the skin and beyond. In it's promo material the show is billed as a "once in a lifetime opportunity" and I can assure you that walking and viewing each creatively displayed item was eye opening to say the least. If you're the queasy type then you might reconsider this one, but if you really want to know what you're made of, then it's on the money. I was particularly fascinated with the embryo section which had actual cells in a progressive display developing into a fetus. With a supporting 9 month time line, I realized that everyone takes the same path to get here and then life decides the rest. Also I was amazed at, an entire body that had been "sliced" length wise to show the various layers of the human body. One display that struck home was the skelletal display which included our important joints. A while back and I blogged from my hospital bed about those new metal parts I received, filling in for what creation had delivered some 40 years ago. How'd they do that you ask? Here's the answer, the over 200 bodies, specimens and organs included in the exhibit have been preserved using a process known as polymer impregnation. Who Knew? I'm a reader, so I love reading the place cards but their is a live action take along tape program for those who need someone else to describe what you are seeing. It's a limited engagement, so click it to their website, http://www.midamericamuseum.org/ for more details. Did it end there, no it didn't and the best is yet to come, so come on back to find out....

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Diversion Wednesday


I can't seem to stay off the road, despite those pesky gas prices or travel cost. Where in the world is COP 24:7 this time you ask? Thanks for asking. I decided I needed a little mid-week "R&R" with an overnight/ day trip to Hot Springs, Arkansas. I lived in this city briefly a few years back and have always enjoyed trekking back every now and then for look over. In case you didn't know, Hot Springs' gets the distinction as one of America's first national parks. Not to mention a host of other notable Didn't I say that we cover all points in Arkansas and beyond? Well, O.K. then. In this post I'll be highlighting (don't hate... from pool side) this mini jaunt as well as our unique mash up of what's really going on. Fasten you seat belt and let's go get em....


Political Dollars A-Go-Go: It's all about the "Benjamin's," as they say when it comes to playing the political game. Money talks and...you know the rest. Therefore I wanted to alert you readers of this chance to hobnob with Rick Fleetwood, along with Linda Dixon, Jimmie Lou Fisher, Becky and Bruce McMath, Nancy Tesmer, and Rep. Kathy Webb, as invited guest to a fundraising reception in honor of Congressman Vic Snyder. Mr. Snyder has been an ardent supporter of the GLBTQ community and beyond. Lately was apart of the DADT ( Don't Ask-Don't Tell) hearings which is seriously being mulled over. State side he was among the first to attempt to derail that senseless Sodomy Statue that existed in this state without a lot of vocal support from the GLBTQ community. A few years back as I barn stormed my way across Washington D. C., he met with me personally during a Capitol Hill Lobby Day, as I expressed my concerns over then AIDS funding. Now you say, little old blogger me trying to make sense in the nation's Capitol? Yes, my people, you've got to speak to power every damn chance to you get. It's not as hard as you may think. With that said, even if you don't get to the fundraiser itself, consider a donation to his campaign as well as a letter, e-mail, phone call or in person visit on a myriad of pressing issues that impact us all.
The event will be held from 5:30 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Thursday, August 21, at the home of Rick Fleetwood, 1821 Beechwood in Little Rock. For additional information, please contact Chris Kell at (501) 804-3714 or mailto:gckell@hotmail.com . Do it today and tell em that I sent ya!


Rainbow Represented: A few of you may remember that I made a run to be a delegate to the 2008 Democratic convention but didn't get the nod. But I considered it a "teachable moment" with hopes of being better prepared next time along with any other hopefuls. However, all is not lost. Arkansas' GLBTQ community will be represented out front by Rep. kathy Webb in Denver along with a few others who are still peeking from the closet. And you thought the closet doors had flew open wide. Well obviously not in all quarters of the state. If the GLBTQ community wants to wheel and deal to the powers that be. It's imperative that the greater power structure gets to see our faces, know our names and sense our united passion. Hiding in plain sight, although may have it's advantages, yet in my opinion is some what flawed. But stepping to the plate up front and in person demonstrates that we are all about some business.
R & R in the Springs: Every time I come to the Springs, I'm never sure what to expect or what new adventure await me. Without failure and despite the off kilter charm of it all, the spa city never let's me down. First up, the arrival. Since it was going to be a short jump, I wanted to maximize the dollar to cover a lot of bases. I did an online search for accommodations was horrified at some of the reviews left online by previous guest. Oh Hot Springs, I certainly hope that someone at the CVB ( Conventions & Visitors Bureau) is doing some random trolling. Past guest are dissing local hotels and motels with a fury. I was truly amused at one posting that stated," ...run as fast as you can away from this hotel." You know me, keeping it real, the hotel in questions, The Austin. Also, keeping it real, I contacted a source which confirmed to me that I should consider other options. If you know what I mean. I did, but the All Seasons Lodge did it's best to accommodate me, although not in the true "COP" fashion. The desk clerk and staff all were extremely chatty and get this folks, tried to make it a nice stay anyway. Next up: Club Jester's. In past post I've criticized this joint for hosting SQL ( Shirley Q. Liquor) but my Tuesday night blow through was as welcoming as you can get. Even though their was no crowd per se, everyone around the bar was quite friendly and pleasant to the new faces in town. The bartender even served up a birthday drink: a tall, potent Long Island Ice tea concoction, which in turn made my companion oh so ready for bed. Also they offered us birthday cake, made sure we comfortable with the temp, music and if there was anything else they could get for us. What else can you ask for, except a little something to take home. Kudos to Tuesday' night staff for making our brief stop in, one that will make me want to return real soon. Even though we may not always agree with your entertainment choices, Jesters can be be a nice place to party. Look for their link on our sidebar shortly! Need more? Yes, there's more but you'll have to come on back for our next posting. See ya then...

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

A Cyber Twista Tuesday

"It's Obama Time..." remember those famed words from all things media mogul, Oprah Winfrey who stomped for then candidate Obama, whom now is poised to accept the democractic nomination for the presidency. Whew, what a ride it's been and yet, still to go. It's almost just to much for me. Yet, I will survive no matter the outcome. I've somewhat strayed from the political scene, but it's never that far from my radar. And how, since it's gotten even more interesting in the past few days...

Oh! John Boy: Well here we go again...another Mea Culpa from a mere man who stated that his rise from a poor boy from the Carolina's to a possible contender to lead the free world caused him to fall into the legs of another women. Enter John Edwards's plea for understanding as his courageous wife, Elizabeth continues to stand by her man through it all. They are latest public couple dealing with "men who creep then get caught." Of course there's that song that say' s "it ain't cheating till you get caught!" It's a Pity that Mr. E had to out himself after much media snooping and trolling, even though he claims to have told his wife all about it. But failed to disclose it in his White House pursuits because maybe he thought it would just go away. Now really J.E.! Does this type of behavior hurt? Certainly. Is it really any of our business? Probably not. Especially, since we all know a creeper, have creeped or known some cheating heart somewhere in our romantic lifeline. Is his political career toast? In America every things possible with time. Let's not forget, John Mc Cain was down for the count early in is campaign, but somehow ended up the Republican nominee. I'm sure that there's more to come, but let's move on to the real dilemma's facing this nation. Gosh Dern, if his wasn't so handsome with good hair, ambition and some what full of himself, he wouldn't have had this problem. Let's face it, "lover lips," you've been busted. Shame on you Mr. Edwards.


Obama to EARTH: The high preist of the Online Campaign is at it again. The Bouncing O campaign will annoucing his VP by E-mail or TEXT to the personal digital device of your choice. Talk about Change? It seems to me that everything about this entire experience has become digitally based and it's seems to be working. I'm so glad that I got on board the digital mainframe some time ago. It's the way to the future and I'm trying to position myself right smack in the middle of the grid. However, with all this techo wizardy going on, I tried to open the Arkansas slot on his website to get info, only to discover an " fatal error" message that stated "no such filed exist." Never mind, you can still get ringtones, so you will know when "Obama- Line one" is leaving you a message. In case you need the hook, check out the website for all the details at http://www.barackobama.com/ The event of the century is only two week away, therefore if you will be attending, lucky you! Yet in true Obama fashion, the Boucing O will be breaking the mold of traditional political Conventions. Senator Obama will accept the Democratic nomination for president at INVESCO Field at Mile High, August 28, 2008. This is Denver's iconic football stadium which can accommodate an audience of more than 75,000. I saw this venue while in Denver and it's an awesome site. But if it's not in the cards to see it in person, this historic Convention will be easy to follow even if you lived on Mars. Besides the network coverage, you can catch all of the action live online at http://www.demconvention.com/.



Out over the Rainbow: This forum continues to twist and turn in how I can offer real info to the GLBTQ community and beyond. As you've noticed I often post from various locations near and far which put me in travel mode. In case you did'nt know and I know you didn't, perhaps you may want to check out American Airlines Rainbow TeAAm. American Airlines has the only GLBT dedicated sales team - The Rainbow TeAAm - in the airline industry. According to their website, "we want to be your airline for life so we've created a one-stop shop to fulfill all of your travel needs." In full disclosure, I am a AA Advantage member and was pleasantly surprised at the exactly how many GLBTQ events in which AA is the official carrier. Also, on the website they have a complete listing of upcoming events that you can earn frequent flier points. However, I found it interesting that the upcoming Miss Gay America Pageant being held in St. Louis wasn't listed. But all is not lost, Southern Decadence 37 (8.27-9.1.08) in New Orleans, LA and Atlanta Black Pride (8.1.08- 9.1.08) were prominently featured but not coded at post time. As a member I also earn travel points for hotel stays, most recently my STL jaunt and other business connections also earn credits. These travel experts, Betty Young and Geogre Carrancho are based at DFW but can assist you globally. It's an all access site at http://www.armgleam.com/ You know I'm always trying to demonstrate how to earn a dollar and then maximize it. If you've got travel in your future, consider it! Just imagine the points if I had of made it to Beijing!

Back to the Hustle and Flow...2.0


Reflections of Hot Buttered Soul:


The Issac Hayes Revolution


Although I was stunned at the recent death of soul icon, Issac Hayes. His passing allowed me to re-cross a bridge to my past and reflect on the impact of his music, visage and legacy within my own life. I've always loved muisc and at one time believed that perahaps I might have a career in the industry. Even though the music choices in my environment was somewhat limited, I was always intrigued with the various styling and creativity from gospel greats like the Mighty Clouds of Joy, those Sam and Dave records and my valued James Brown 45's that were only 99 cents. Yes my pretties they were vinyl disk then and I didn't realize that I was a budding audiophile then, because I'd never heard the term before. Yet, it was the the music of Issac Hayes that broadsided me with it's street smart, cutty edge beats that made me feel I was apart of the tough scene. Earlier James Brown had instilled the mantra, "I'm Black and I'm proud," but his "hot buttered" soul via Stax Records ushered in a new era of pride, ultra masculinity and fierceness that I couldn't resist. Just like other teens, I too had my favorite poster of the "Black Moses" prominently displayed over my bed, as his music often lulled me to sleep while playing from the radio. Not only the hard charging, theme from Shaft which he won acclaim, but other selections from Hayes' catalog which is varied as well as deep. Such memorable cuts as duo's with Millie Jackson, his long version "rap" selections, instrumentals and later his infectious disco romp, "Don't Let Go," that was mixed and remixed by then DJ Doug which played prominently in the early Discovery Club days on Asher. How surreal it is for me at this stage in my life, that his music still moves me and how many times it's intersected with significant moments in my life. So, long I-Man, God's speed, we'll continue the groove on the other side....

Help Wanted at AAF..Still?: Apparently, the Arkansas AIDS Foundation can't seem to find anyone qualified to lead the embattled organization. A few posts back, I mentioned my support of local activist B. Coffey as a contender for the ED (Executive Director's) post. I touched base with Mr. C, to check the status of that possiablity, only to learn that even though he applied, he's not even been interviewed! Say what? This makes me wonder exactly what are they waiting on and what's up with this lackluster approach to filling a key position. Especially with more recent stats about the impact of HIV/ AIDS within the African American community across the board. Not to mention the low attendance at the recent MATF ( Minority AIDS Task Force) event held at Philander Smith College. At this point, you're saying did you ask them? Well, of course not, because all you get from this outfit is the sounds of silence. I've sent countless E-mails and made some personal queries, all with no real outcomes. According to Bob, "they're still looking." The $64,000 question is looking for what or who. I'm encouraging all of you to keep asking, call them 501.376.6299, write them, 518 E. 9th Street, L.R. AR 72202 or blast them at their website, http://www.araidsfoundation.org/













Monday, August 11, 2008

Onpoint in a 360

Another 2008 week has rolled by as the weather kept most of us in search of a cool spot, but others on the prowl for the "hot spot," in Central city. Of course, I had to leave the big chair for a few hours to get into the mix of what was really going on and I'm ready to give it up in this addition of COP. Are you ready, if not, then get ready because here we go....


August B-Day: I want to thank the boys at Sidetracks for their August Birthday Salutes last Thursday. (8.07.08) James, my LTC and myself enjoyed the mini Bar-b- Que buffet complete with cake as well as the complimentary beverages citing our dual B-day's this month. We didn't celebrate alone as others made their way into the scene stating where their special day falls on the calender. As for us, his was Aug. 5 and I'll bring up the rear on August 20, respectively. For the record, I'm just this side of 40. Don't ask which side. Speaking of B-Day's, Don't forget, Jim's Birthday, Sunday, 8.24.08 at Sidetracks. I've been to this celebration and usually it's laid out extremely nicely. You never know what surprises these guys are going to pull out of the hat.

Bears in Undergear: Never say that I wont go the limit to cover events, even if I have to show up in my 2(isxt) briefs and boots. Yes, I took the plunge and joined the Bears for their Undergear Party, 8.09.08 at the the DSRA Clubhouse. I didn't really know what to expect, since I had never been to one of these functions, furthermore, I think some of them were surprise to see me as well. Obviously, this type of event meets certain needs, because at the height of the event it seemed that the house was full. A totally diverse crowd of aproximately 100 men from various parts of Central Arkansas and beyond were on full display. Ranging from J-straps, thongs and other means of undergear. The camaraderie, video, music, food and anything goes atmosphere put the party into full tilt. Including those "Peekers and Players " in the back room taking matters to the next level similar to the Big City girls. What can I say, voyeurism and "menergy" is still alive and well in Little Rock. To sum things up, I learned from one of my sources that the evening netted a pot of $1800.00 for organizers. If they are raising this kind of booty for their cause, you can bet that there will more of this to come. I'll keep you posted.
Lip Synchika Me: I've gotten a few suggestions for me in regards to the upcoming benefit show for Brian Cook. I appreciate it and keep them coming. I will consider them all. Then make a choice prior to show time. However, It won't matter if there's no audience. So, call your friends, tell the neighbors, alert the masses that I'll be joining the show cast, 8.16.08 at DSRA, 4525 Hoffman Street. This just may be the last time out for my alter ego. Join me, I dare ya!
















Thursday, August 07, 2008

COP: 24/7... Locked and Loaded

It's a number's game this posting making this outing number 313! Whew, who would have thought that I'd still be at it this long. Well, of course I would. There's too much happening not to be on the prowl for updates, links, commentary, news, and everything that relates to the Arkansas GLBTQ community and beyond. Yesiree, It's another COP:24/7 and I'm locked and loaded. Are you ready? Then, let's go get em.....


Youth on Fire: CAR's DYSC program will feature a youth Solidarity showcase, August 13, 7 p.m. at Easy Street Piano Bar, 307 W. 7th in downtown Little Rock. The show lineup has not been announced however, the group is actively seeking both the talented as well as inspired participants. If you are are ready to hit the boards, then contact, Feliz ( 813.713.0984) or e-mail: leoraising@gmail.com


People Helping People: Local entertainers and personalities are coming together in a fundraising effort for Brian Cook (a.k.a Cherity, pictured) in lieu of the recent death of his partner, James Anderson. DSRA will host the event, August 16, 9 p.m. If you can attend, I'd love to see each and everyone of you, if not, then consider offering a donation for the cause. I'll be apart of the night's cast and hope that I will see you face in the place. Got a song suggestion for me, then send it. For each song suggestion I'll match a buck toward the benefit. Hit me up in the comment section with your suggestion and feel free to share your thoughts as well. Do it today!


Got A Big Idea?: I'm a fan of Donny D's, The BIG Idea cable show which calls out the entrepreneur in yourself. It's one of my favorites empowerment shows that makes me think and then, think again about where I'm going, not to mention what I'm doing to affect my economic future. I'm thrilled to know that Arkansas will step to the plate to help those of us with "Big ideas" to get access to capital. According to Arkansas Business.com the Arkansas Association of Two-Year Colleges says eight of the state's two-year colleges will offer a business degree option and certificate in entrepreneurship this fall. That's a good thing.
"Economic development is more important than ever in today's economy, and this program will help to create jobs in Arkansas by enabling and empowering people to start their own businesses," said Ed Franklin, executive director of the association.
The Arkansas Venture Forum last week outlined the importance of entrepreneurship. Citing figures from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology's Entrepreneurship Center, it said 70 percent of a nation's economic growth is typically attributed to entrepreneurship.
The Arkansas Venture Forum issued a call for entrepreneurs seeking capital to submit executive summaries by Aug. 29 for the sixth annual Arkansas Venture Conference.
The finalists will make presentations at the conference, set for Nov. 18-19 in Little Rock, which in the past has drawn interest from surrounding states, including venture capital firms and angel investors representing more than $500 million in capital.
Companies wishing to submit an application will find the guidelines at http://www.arkansasventureforum.com/.
The schools in the consortium are Arkansas State University at Beebe, East Arkansas Community College, North Arkansas College, Northwest Arkansas Community College, Ouachita Technical College, South Arkansas Community College, Southern Arkansas University Tech and University of Arkansas Community College at Batesville. Pulaski Technical College and Southeast Arkansas College will join in October.
This is a learning opportunity that all the state schools should embrace.


Faith Presentation: I got this interesting e-blast and wanted to pass it along in our continuing mission to inform and empower. It was forwarded from Just Communities and they hope you anyone interested will be able to join us for this video. The complete series is available (through UAMS College of Public Health or the JCCA office) for others to show in their own venue.

According to Ruth Shepard, the videos were made available in June, and the discussion following was provocative and informative. This one, “Place Matters,” really makes one think about our city planning and policies and how that impacts the health of our residents.

Please let me know if you will attend so that we can be prepared with chairs and drinks. If you are unable to attend but want to learn more, please contact me or Kate Stewart [StewartMaryK@uams.edu]. Also feel free to pass this email along to others who might be interested.



Tuesday, August 05, 2008

Dog Days of August

Welcome to the Dog Days of August! It's those hot, sluggish, intense ozone filled days that we dread each and every year, especially the Arkansas humidity that's just almost unbearable. However, it's never to hot to get back into the "Big Chair" and produce another outing of COP:24/7. And here we go...


And there He is: The votes are in and the tally is final and the winner is... Stephanie Richards, Miss Gay Arkansas America 2008 representing the Miss Gay Hot Springs prelim. The court includes, Zia D'Yor Second Alternate - Sasha Harrison Third Alternate - Christina Saxton Fourth Alternate - Veronica Duvall. Congrats to all, because in my mind everyone who get's to participates is always a winner. Unfortunately I was a bit under the weather and could not attend the event, but I've worked with Richards on various occasions finding him always friendly, non-stop fun and not taking himself too seriously. The national competition will be held October 8-12 in the STL. (St. Louis, Missouri) at the Millennium Ball Room. I saw this lovely venue from atop the famed Gateway Arch in July during my convention jaunt. If you are going to the pageant, plan your travel now! Tickets go on sale August 15, 2008. It may be a sell out!

Friday, August 01, 2008

Free Fall Friday: Reloaded 4 U & Me

Here we are again, it's another TGIF and I'm in overdrive producing, writing, editing, surfing, as I do that "thing that I do." If this is your first outing with COP:24/7, then welcome, if it's not, then thanks for coming back for more of what you've been looking for in news, updates, links, commentary and just plain old stuff for Arkansas' GLBTQ community and beyond. We are the only lavender site with daily updates across three platforms. What can I say, it's all about CorneliusOnpoint where we believe in All Buzz and NO Bull! Are you ready, then let's roll!




Capitol Pride Elects: Outgoing President, Joe L. has e-blasted the slate of newly elected board of Directors of Little Rock Capital Pride. The new board for 2008-2009 consist of, Ari Chagoya, President David Tucker, Vice President Carrie Dudley, Secretary Craig Fredrickson, Parlementarian Rounding out the board are Amos Lassen, Chad McGriff, Devon Davasherand James Thweatt. Congrats to all of these indiviudals whom have stepped to the plate to lead the group for the next year. I plan to pursue interviews from the Mr. Chagoya in order to see how he vibes and what's his vision for the organization. As a final salute, a hat's off to outgoing President Joe L. for his enduring committment and relentless tanacity to making it happen. Good luck on your future endeavors!


Potlucking at Sidetracks: It's food on the grounds time again at Sidetracks, 8.3.08 from 6 p.m. until 10 p.m. As usual the management will be serving up hospitality for patrons and guest but you are encouraged to bring your favorite dish to share with the massess. It's all going down at 415 Main Street on the north shore. Look for special bar drinks and specials. Tell Hobba, I sent you!


Are you Registered?: CAR's Voter Registration Team is a group of Dynamic, Enthusiastic, and Engaging folks who are working for social change, and taking a stand for ALL FAMILIES in Arkansas. This team through voter registration, get out the vote events, and engaging our community fights for fairnerss and equality for all of Arkansas. If you wish to join this team, and take a stand for ALL ARKANSAS' FAMILIES contact CAR: 501.244.9690 or email Eric Reece @ Obrian_30@yahoo.com.The next VR training session will be July 31, 2008 @6:30pm, 1st Presbyterian Church 801 Scott St. (corner of 9th and Scott downtown LR), please contact CAR to register for this training. Are you Outside Little Rock? CAR will bring the training to you. Simply find 5 folks who are interested and contact CAR to arrange a date and time.

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Spinning the Big COP Wheel & More


What can I say! There's often so much more news than I can contain in a daily posting, however, as many of you know, I believe in keeping it fast and furious but always on point. Today's outing is no different and I'm ready to spin the big COP wheel & more...Let's go get em!



Under the Crown: The Annual Miss Gay Arkansas America pageant will be held Aug. 1-3 at the Discovery complex beginning at Midnight with Sunday finals at 9 p.m.. Alexis LaRue MGAA 2007 will relinquish the crown to qualified contestants representing various statewide preliminaries. I've attended this contest previously and the competition is some of the best around. If you've never had a chance to see this spectacle, then check it out. Special Guest will be Miss Gay America 2008, Maikaila Kay and many of the MGA Alumni. For more info click it to their web site: www. missgayarkansas.com


People Helpin People: In lieu of the recent tragic death of James Anderson, partner to Brian Cook aka "Cherity," there will be a fundraising effort August 16, 9 p.m. at DSRA to show our support. According to organizer Diamond Rose, those donating their talents are as follows: Diamond Rose, Mary-Kay Arden, Zia Dior, Dan Scott, Miranda Meridian, Cassaundra Manchester, Lana Reeves, Gigi Galore, Dusty West, Chuck, Diva, Champane, Tion, Charnay,and Marvela. I'm encouraging you to show your support for the cause as well as another chance to catch me in my alter ego persona.


Bears in Undergear: The Bear Underwear gathering is just around the corner, August 9 in Little Rock. the E-blast I got stated that, "everyone is encouraged to get with the theme of the gathering and strip down to your underwear at the door". Clothing bags are provided. All types of underwear are acceptable.. .(brief, boxers, jocks, leather). No dress code will be enforced. If you are not comfortable in just your undies, that's cool, just wear whatever is comfortable for you. Doors open at 9pm and close when the last Bear and Cub leave. This is a private gathering by the Diamond State Bears; all Bears, Cubs, Otters (and those who like them!) are welcome. For more info, go to our website www.diamondstatebea rs.com. Or contact Michael at http://us.mc578.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=LRmales%40yahoo.com I'm not sure If I'll be attending even though I've got some very cute undergear but if you do and want to share the who, what, or why of what you saw, then do so.


Pride in the City: I've gotten no word as yet as to the outcomes of the recent Capital Pride attempt to regroup with board elections, 7/26/08. Nor, was there a response to our challenge concerning a 50/50 participation. If you don't remember, I stated that if 50 people showed their support with a $50.00 cash donation during the meeting, this forum would throw a fundraiser at our expense. In full disclosure, I was out of town and couldn't attend. But so far, I've gotten, "crickets" which translates into "Silence." However, if you missed the meeting or my posting yet still have an interest try contacting: Joe@lrcpride.org We'll keep you posted.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Humpin Wednesday

It's the last hump day of this July 2008, as the Dog Days of an August summer peek over the horizon. Despite the heat, humdity and discomfort of an another Arkansas weather experience, I'm cooling out in the "big chair" meanwhile keeping you updated on what's really going on here, their and everywhere.


Capacity Building & You: I'm fresh from my recent week long refresher on race relations and diversity issues from the NABWMT, but you don't have to attend a convention in another city in order to get locked in and synergized, becuase there's a FREE opportunity waiting for you this weekend. It's entitled Another Community Conversation between African-Americans/ Latina on Building and Healing Community: Jump starting the Movement For African-Americans and Latina. A free one day workshop in Little Rock, Arkansas Saturday, August 2, 2008 9:30am-5:00pm Main Library 100 Rock Street 2nd Floor, Fribourgh Room (Tenative Schedule)

9:30AM -12PM Introduction Oppression TheoryRacism Definition Classism Oppression of Young People / Internalized Oppression /Healing and a Liberation Movement /African-Americans and Latina/ Panel discussion

1PM-5PM Emancipation of Mental Slavery: Creativity and Liberation / Hopelessness and Fear Leadership:Forming African American and Latino Support Groups

Being Allies for each other:Winning White Allies

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Brother Can you spare a Dime?: In economic times like these, I continue to offer excerpts and interesting items concerning making all my readers adept in "money speak," which impacts our lives on a daily basis. Yes, folks I've heard both directly and indirectly from many of you who are expericing money crunches from either an unexpected crisis, job loss, disability, forecloures and mismanagement. If you are at a breaking point, dont' forget that you may still have options. The following article is another from my new favorite site, Queercents which deals with money issues from a lavender viewpoint. Take a moment to absorb it, then make a move to put in practice.

Multiple Streams of Coins

In the twentieth century, people were raised to get a job with a good company and they were encouraged to work their way up the company ladder. Staying with one company showed a person’s loyalty and commitment in exchange for job security and benefits.
The twenty-first century has shown a different lifestyle than the century before it. Rarely do employees stay at the same corporation for extended periods of time and for several reasons: people get a five-year itch to change careers; or corporations get bought (or downsize) and employees get leave packages; or corporations just go bankrupt while stealing the employees’ hard earned savings (e.g., Enron in America).
With the onset of the Information Age—quick access to Internet data—people have had their time freed up, enabling them to work at home instead of at the office. This type of mobility and freedom has allowed—and motivated—people to seek secondary or multiple streams of income while simultaneously managing their day-to-day job.
For myself, I have several avenues to receiving money—book promoting, self-help workshops, and counseling—all of which represent what I love to do: advocating a healthy lifestyle. I feel very excited when the Universe validates my passion (of helping others be healthy) via checks that financially support me and WHAT I LOVE TO DO. This excitement is very rewarding as I get to experience self-satisfaction and self-empowerment.
While it may or may not take a while to set the foundation for your multiple streams of income, receiving money for what you enjoy doing is worth the wait. I hope by this point in my series you have at least given some thought to developing your own skill and talent by plugging your money into the upper chakras as previously discussed so as to financially polish your unique gift(s). Polishing your unique gift and getting it ready to market to the world puts abundance in your own hands. Trust me, there is a certain air of self-empowerment and self-satisfaction that comes with believing in yourself and in your talent and realizing it in the outer world. YOU NEED TO BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN MAKE YOUR DREAMS HAPPEN. YOU NEED TO TRUST THAT YOU WILL BE FINANCIALLY SUPPORTED WHILE YOU REALIZE YOUR DREAMS.
My goal for you is that you become self-sufficient in terms of generating your own streams of money. If you haven’t already, I want you to take time to now focus on your vocation or life purpose. I want you to define your true calling in regards to work.
WHAT IS YOUR VOCATION?Close your eyes. Sit still. Wait. Allow the answer to surface in your awareness. Give yourself permission to hear this inner calling as it arises from deep within your subconsciousness. The answer is certainly within you. It just needs to be heard by you. Whatever answer arises, don’t judge it. Listen to it. Feel it. . . . What is the answer?
After you have some idea as to your unique talent, I want you to take that special calling—whatever that is to you—and apply it to the following self-help exercise so that you can see how you can generate multiple streams of income from that particular vocation. This exercise is crucial for you to see the broader picture of your dream and where your dream can lead you.
Self-Help Exercise: Brainstorming Career Spin Offs
I want you to now take time to brainstorm multiple spin offs from your vocation. Isolate at least four avenues (spin offs) for multiple streams of income. See the example above (click on image to expand) that uses cooking as a person’s vocation/career choice.
After you’ve discovered your talent—your vocation—and ways to generate multiple streams of income from it, you need to “just do it.” YOU CAN DO IT! BELIEVE IN YOUR POWER.

Key Points to Remember From This Series
Four major points from this series are presented below.
1. Your deep seeded subconscious thoughts either block or create money abundance. When they act as a barrier to the accumulation of great wealth, you are likely a carrier of victim consciousness and need to heal your inner child’s faulty beliefs. All faulty beliefs, whether they are directly related to money or not, influence your overall level of abundance. A wealthy and prosperous you operates with positive, supporting thought-forms which in turn are mirrored in the environment, attracting an abundant lifestyle.
2. There are many values to ground your money decisions in. Always choose healthy values to govern how you handle money. For example, use your money to support worthy products that are tied into humanitarian driven companies.
3. Use the seven center chakra system as a map to chart your distribution of money so as to ensure that ALL ASPECTS OF YOU get financial attention. Following this systems helps to minimize financial self-neglect.
4. Set up multiple streams of coins that are spin offs from your vocation so as to extend yourself over a diversified wealth portfolio.
Remember: wealth is a mental game. Polish your cognitive faculties using the self-help exercises in this series and use your body to apply your mind’s intentions. You can CHOOSE to be wealthy and abundant and you can choose to ACT on being rich.
To learn more about the psychology of the mind, please visit my website: http://www.drlana.com/ and download my free e-book called: BLESS YOURSELF WITH GOOD HEALTH.
I wish you much abundance on this journey called Life.
—–For more information on Dr. Lana Marconi’s or to download her self-help books visit: http://www.drlana.com/.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Talking Out Loud in the Heat... Part Two

Holy Hot Cross Buns! It's hot out their and certainly in here! Summer is in full sizzle and I've always liked things "sizzilin hot!" I'm back in the big chair fresh from our daily coverage of the NABWMT convention in the STL last week. I hope that you enjoyed our postings and perhaps discovered a newly minted nugget of info or thought jarring fact that helped open you mind to new concepts and opportunities. All my efforts in this medium are rooted in our mission pillars of empower, educate and infotainment for the GLBTQ community and beyond. With all that said, let's go get em in the heat....


In Memorandum: I wanted to share an updated on the recent passing of James Anderson whom was an ardent supporter of the GLBTQ community and participated across the board. Today, his memorial services will be held at the Pulaski Heights United Methodist Church at 6 p.m. His partner,Brian Cook is encouraging lasting memorials to be sent to the Arkansas AIDS Foundation.(http://www.araidsfoundation.org/) Also, Brian announced a celebration home going to be held at his residence in honor of James.(to secure privacy- directions and details are available if you contact this forum.) There will also a fundraiser held on August 16 at the DSRA featuring area personalities donating all proceeds to offset expenses incurred by the family. I'll be taking another spin as my alter ego and I expect to see all of you there giving freely.

LRBP TAKE 2: Just before I departed last week, I started an overview of the Southern Comfort-Black Pride event held July 18-20. I spoke about the aggressive schedule and the ghost funding to support it. Not to mention some activities not taking place as announced such as the pool party.( I've learned that this has happened more than once with this outfit.) I was further chagrined at the levels of agitated individuals whom responded with violent threats at the Sunday Picnic. Allegedly some say that "shots may have been fired," however, I could'nt substantiate that account. Unfortunately, personally I did'nt sense a welcoming feeling when I arrived, which cause me to make an abrupt exit. Later, I wondered out loud to myself has it come down to this, where I'm so removed that being around my so called "own people" has barriers? I'm still mulling this one over. The only "vendor" I observed was a small snow cone truck which I found severely lacking in the face of the enthusiasm of the planning committee. A committee which I never heard from again after meeting with them. This is the second year in which I've attempted to make a connection with my brothers and sister's but got dissed. What's up with that you ask? You'll have to check my next outing for that answer. But, it seems that the organizers were please with the overall turnout for there activities, which I must agree, but I felt that the entire affair lacked substance, didn't appear to be in diversity mode although everyone was invited and I would suggest that they re-evaluate exactly what true "pride" is all about. Personally a show filled with mediocre strippers and such doesn't carry much weight for me. In closing, I love a good party, but I really love a good party with a empowering purpose. Think about it....you have at least 10 months to do so.


Sunday, July 27, 2008

COP 24/7: Road Tested & Battle Ready

Special Sunday Edition


It's all over but the shouting as the saying goes. But here in the STL, the National Association of Black and White Men's 28th convention folds it's big tent until July 29, 2009 in Philadelphia, PA. During last evenings Masquerade Ball, Men of All Colors Together ( MACT-Philadelphia) revealed their scion call to members and allies about, "A Blueprint for Change: Yes, we can, together!" As I reflect over the past week, I have mixed emotions that I'll be examining as I prepare for next years convention as well as my reasoning for being apart this organization with the radical namesake. On various occasions during this week I inquired with other members both short term and long standing as to the health of the group. I heard a variety of assessments tinged with colorful analogies, raw emotion, optimistic candor and of course, "dishy mish-mash," that comes with the package. I concluded that much has happened for better or worse over the years. This is my fourth convention since my first in Columbus, OH(1983) where I found this group of unique individuals claiming a mission statement that I too felt a need to embrace. That year members sang Happy Birthday to me plus awarded me a special Achievement Award( which is still proudly showcased in my home office) as I was trying to form a Little Rock chapter. In 1985, Los Angeles hosted and I wasn't prepared for the "loftiness" of it all. Often having a "fish out of water" feeling especially when some conventioneers characterized myself as some type of hillbilly or back wood wonk who had stumbled upon them. I remember hearing some remarking, "did you take a crop duster to get here?" Just for the record, Arkansas is not so remote that there's not the basic typical modes of transportation that will allow you to travel. Yes Virgina, we can even travel globally, thank you very much. Of course, I could've taken my marbles and left the scene of the crime, but I continued to plow into the organizations information and purpose. Later actually living with it's founder Emeritus, Michael Smith in San Francisco. Over the years my attendance wained but I always tried to stay current on the groups activities. But to my surprise my new found family never outreached or rarely contacted me to keep me motivated or inquiring why I had not attended a conference lately. Believe it or not, I did have to send a e-mail to key people to get acknowledged about this years events who did finally contact me personally to answer questions. I really appreciated it and want them to know that this a key(blue print) element to keeping folks engaged. Even though I had not sought a leadership position or demonstrated a DIVA charged persona, I still cared, always wanting the best for BWMT. All I needed from them was to ask me or seek my expertise which is another valuable(blue print) element of engagement. As I sign off from convention 08, I have high hopes for the newly elected leadership and MACT-Philly for next year. I'll be unfolding my thoughts in this forum that may help craft that blue print for change. I'm packed and Amtrack bound for Little Rock. Keep the light on.....

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Taking it on the Road

Saturday Special
This is a special Saturday Edition of our post as we cover the 28th National Association of Black and White Men Together convention in St. Louis, MO. Boys and Girls, it's been a jammed pack week thus far including workshops on HIV/ AIDS, Relationship Challenges and variety of guest speakers such as Dr. Preston Shumaker presenting on The Two Faces of Being on the DL, Bruce Menapace, PHD offering insights on interracial Relationships and Sheppard B. Kominars' Journaling for Health & Happiness, each of these powerful sessions offered tools as well as common sense approaches to creating a better quality of life. One of the interesting aspects of attending a BWMT conference is the fact that even though the week's schedule has many entertaining opportunites there are a host of teachable moments that are designed to assist one in a daily living scheme. I enjoy the brain trust and synergy of the conventioneers whom nuture plus demand that you keep it real about your self. I've enjoyed the hospitality displayed by the host hotel Holiday Inn Select Convention Center staff, other local GLBT groups and certainly the entertainment venues around town. Especially, Just John's Bar which hosted the Midland Reception last evening and later Magnolia's, a serious throw down urban bar that wanted to keep the party grooving til the wee hours of the morn. It's been awhile since I've pulled an all nighter but I did survive, O.K. Just for the record STL has a vibrant GLBTQ community with plenty of party stops to meet any of your pleasures, not to mention the bounty of tourist pursuits ranging from the famed Gateway Arch to area Casino's. I may need another visit when I not busy with a convention. It's all here baby and all you need are the Benjamin's to take part.
It's almost over and I plan to have a picture retrospective of it all next week.! Y'all stay tune, you hear...


In Memorandum: Brian Cooks LTC, James surrender his life on July 25, 2008 due to complications from a recent accident. Brian will shortly be announcing ceremonies as well as details concerning a "home going" celebration for James at his Oak Street home. Our most sincere condolences to Brian and James' extended family during this time of mourning. There will be a fundraising effort to help assist Brian, to be held in August at the DSRA. As usual, I will join the cast in helping raise money for this worth cause. Please look for future post, podcast and E-blast info.

Friday, July 25, 2008

On the Road Again with COP


Yes, I survived the Amtrack shuffle and went into full tilt convention mode after arriving to the 28 th National Association of Black and White Men Together annual event here in the Big Mo also known as the STL. That's St. Louis, Missouri for those of you not in the know. Whew, jumping in after a long day at the office, overnight train excursion, getting registered, and finding out where I was suppose to be was challenging but hey folks, I did it! In the meantime, the host hotel Holiday Inn Select was in upgrade mode (they are putting in new carpets, etc.) causing me to have to switch out rooms as I dashed from the Unity dinner to get ready for the No-Talent Talent show. Let me tell you that there was no shortage of talent for the show with each performer donating their time and gratuities to the NA. But in the meantime, talk about Holy Quick Change artist! Here I go again today with another jammed packed schedule which continues with more workshops, power meetings and sightseeing. Since many of you may have never heard of this group or perhaps had a piqued interest, I felt that it was important that I offer another teachable moment that's apart of my outreach mission. This organization was organized to address diversity in the GLBTQ community especially among those individuals whom share interracial relationships and the variety of obstacles that impact such unions. The Statement of Purpose clearly spells out why there's a need for this group as well as how it plans to directly affect it's membership and beyond. I'm posting it in hopes to outreach plus educate the readership or individuals who may be in need of a supportive entity. The statement is as follows:


The National Association of black and White Men Together is a gay, multiracial, multicultural organization committed to fostering supportive environments wherein racial and cultural barriers can be overcome and the goal of human equality realized. To these ends we engage in educational, political, cultural and social activities as a means of dealing with the racism, sexism, homophobia, HIV/AIDS discrimination and other inequities in our communities and in our lives.


For more info hit the web link: http://www.nabwmt.org/

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Movin and Groovin in COP land

It's fast and furious in my cyberspace this week and I hope all of you are ready for our COP express posts from the road and more. Here I go again into overdrive, so buckle up and brace yourselves!





And Were Off: It's a bird, it's a plane, no it's just COP 24/7 on the loose in
St.Louis at the 28th NABWMT( National Association of Black and White Men Together) conference. O.K., you've never heard of this organization and certainly never entertained the thought of attending a convention. Well here's the beginning of the who, what, when and where of my latest adventure. It all began with a serious delay in my transportion choice of Amtrack leaving 7/24/08. I had never been on a train trip, acting on the premise from a recely read travel account not mention my new "Bucket List," Futhermore would'nt this would add more color to my trip? Boy was I on target about that one. Let's just say that the "crown" wasn't amused at leaving Central City at 2:45 AM even though the train was scheduled to leave at 11:30 p.m. Only later to learn from an ever so apologetic conductor that there would be another additional delay, due to Frieght traffic and Weather causing us to arrive in St. Louis around Noon but scheduled at 7:30 AM. Yet, even with all this tricky travel shigity, I must say that the ride was still pleasantly smooth as well as comfortable. I truly enjoyed the leg room, electircal outlets and comfy seat but wished there had been some Wi-fi or an easy cell signal. Of course, you can't have everything now can you. In that article, the writer stated that upon riding Amtrack you get to see America's backyards and then some. Yes, it's true and many of those backyards are filled with either the excesses of consumerism or it's wicked step sister, Trashy Stockpile. Why some folks collect crap that they use or never intend to use is simply mind boggling. Neverthless, as I gazed out my panoramic window I still marveled at the varying hues of the different landscapes either carved from hillsides or filling sweeping valleys. Ultimately, I wondered if people still waved at train riders similar to days gone by, and I'm happy to report that they still do. For the record, I truly enjoyed the pleasure of waving back.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Talking Out Loud: A Re-take



Talk about busy... yes my dear readers, I've once again been burning the candle at both ends during the last week. Yet somehow, I survived it all, while staying in the loop on what's really going on in Central city and beyond. Of course part of what propels me to the "big chair" for every session is many of your acknowledgements of this forums impact as well as "teachable moments" that I post. Thanks to reader "Allan" for your kind words and I look forward to hearing from more of you either through our comment section or in person. If you see me out and about, feel free to share. With all that said, here's Talking out Loud: A Re-take.




Prayerful Thoughts: I want to personally send my prayers to Brian Cook in his time of uncertainty as his partner James finds his recovery path back from a fall. James has been a long time activist and community supporter who "would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it," and Brian serves as the Development Chair for the Arkansas AIDS Foundation. At post time, he is scheduled to be Medi-vaced from a Dallas area hospital to his home here in Little Rock. If you have words of encouragement please feel free to post them here. As updates are available, I will post them.

Black Pride in the City: How many of you attended any of the scheduled events? Well, I confess that I missed out on some of them and discovered that others didn't even take place? Overall, most of those who participated considered it a success, however, I was rather bemused by the whole affair. Post congrats go to Diamond Kelly and Miss Courtney as the "Taste the Rainbow" pageant winners despite the minimal participation. As I surveyed, there were visitors from around the state, but apparently not enough whom wanted to fork over the cost of a room, therefore this outing actually didn't warrant a host hotel. This type of poor showing will circulate among hoteliers and most likely they will encounter future resistance with hefty financial commitments. I was invited to attend a planning meeting with promise, even though I chided the organizers about this ambitious project which I felt was being planned in a ghostly manner. That means, lots of possibilities without much bona fide substance. Meanwhile, I never found out who the out of town "headliners" were going to be, however, due to the lateness of the show( this 2 am business is a bit much for me) I refrained from attending. But supposedly there were to be "strippers and such." If you ask me, did they consider this a pillar of pride? Another faux pax was the alleged Pool Party, that never happened. As I understand this is not the first year for this little mishap where events such as this are hyped only not to materialize. This hark ens back to my quip about "big talk" and lack of planning resources. Yes, there's more...including alleged gun shots, fisticuffs, boosting and so much more! But you'll have to catch up in our next post...you don't want to miss out!

Monday, July 21, 2008

Living Out Loud and in Living Color

Living life to the fullest is one my personal hallmark that I pursue on a daily basis, as well as encourage those I meet along the way to do so also. Today, take a minute to reflect on your life and you ponder your next move, relationship, career track or life alternating decision. It's important that we "keep our heads to the sky" and believe as I often share, the glass is not half empty but really it's half full. Think about it!.... In the meantime I wanted to share this message that I got from Rhonda Byrne of The Secret phenom that swept through last year. Even though some of her ideas may be concepts of old, many of them still resonate with me today. I implore each of you to take stock of who you are, where you are and dream big as you plan where you are going.


How can you make a big dream come true?


You need to have one secret element, and when you have that secret element, nothing will get in your way. That element is an intense desire! You must desire something with all of your heart to manifest it. Often the difference between those who manifest something and those who do not, is the element of desire. When you have a burning desire for something you ignite a fire within you that attracts with an incredible force. The law of attraction is magnetically drawn to that intense fire element in you, and it responds by gathering all universal forces to make your dream come true.
Very often we ask for things because we think our life will be better with those things, but inside of us we do not have an immense desire for those things. When you don't feel that immense desire within you, you are receiving guidance telling you that this is not something you really want. That is why it is so important to get clear on what it is that you really want with all of your heart, because what you really want with all of your heart is the very desire that you can manifest quickly.
When your heart is on fire with desire you will attract the right things to do, you will find visualizing so easy, and you will find it is effortless to think positive thoughts of your desire. You will attract all the qualities you need, such as strength, courage, belief, persistence, faith, and a powerful will. An intense desire lights up your being, producing a magnetic force that enables the law of attraction to cut through every physical obstacle for you and make your dream come true.
Go for your dreams! Don't cheat yourself in your life with petty desires because you don't think you can live your dream. THE DREAM inside you is the one thing that you have the greatest power to create, because you have an immense desire for it. Find the dream inside you - and make it come true!

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Wide Angle Wednesday

Does 2008 seem to be passing by like there's no tomorrow? I don't about you but I'm wondering just how all these months have bounced this forum into the 3rd Quarter of the year which will meander into the Dog Days of a August haze. Yet, I still here in the big chair churning out news, commentary, updates, links and anything else I can muster. All in the name of outreaching to the GLBTQ community statewide as well as allies in the struggle for human rights. Ladies and Gentlemen you've entered a wide angle Wednesday courtsey of Arkansas' only daily GLBTQ online source, COP: 24/7!


Hairy Boxers: Bears, Cubs and underwear, Oh My! Yes, it's true my pretties, there are men preparing to S & M ( stand and model) in there underwear come this August 9th at a local Central City venue. The invite states that "all types of underwear is acceptable... but if you are not comfortable in your undies..." Well if you are going to flop at this type of throwdown, then you shouldn't be the shy type, if you ask me. If you need further info, it's labeled a private affair even though it's being broadcast over the net? (go figure?) Click it to http://www.diamondstatebears.com/ Let me know who's doing boxers or birthday suits.


It's A Gas Affair: What about them gas prices? Are you just plain ole sick about it and need some jump starting ideas of just how save a few bucks? The we've got your back with our top ten frm a little ditty called 29 Ways to save money on Gas. If you've got ideas then feel free to share them, but until then, here we go..






People used to believe the tipping point was $3.00 a gallon. Well, obviously 3 bucks didn’t do the trick. What is or was the tipping point for you?
If it’s already happened for you then you can find the complete list at 29 Ways to Save Money on Gas. I’ve highlighted ten below but click over to the guy’s complete list for the expanded explanation:

1. Brake the Right Way: the less you have to break, the less you have to accelerate. A car consumes more gas as it accelerates


2. Shifting Manual: a manual transmission is supposed to be more fuel efficient.
3. Reduce Weight: keep the trunk empty.

4. Turn Your Car Off: an idling car burns fuel… more fuel than it takes to restart it again.


5. Drive Slower: driving fast increases the drag and therefore increases fuel consumption.


6. Close Your Windows: opening your windows increases the drag as well and uses more fuel.


7. Fill Up at Arco: it pays to drive by Chevron and Shell and find an Arco station.
8. Pick a Better Route: avoid heavy traffic and the route with a lot of traffic lights


9. Ride the Slipstream: don’t tailgate, but on long trips drive your car into another cars slipstream and you will use less fuel.

10. Carpool and Combine Trips: do the math.
Bonus: Buy a More Fuel Efficient Car: eventually we all need a new car… make a better choice the next time around.


Summer Reading: He's back and just in time for Black Pride...E.Lynn Harris has penned another steamy novel for when you're consuming that next cool frothy beverage. Entitled "Just to good to be True," Harris serves up a treat that will capture and enchant audiences everywhere-a big, bold, and irresistible novel about football, family, and secrets. Brady Bledsoe and his mother, Carmyn, have a strong relationship. A single mother, faithful churchgoer, and the owner of several successful Atlanta beauty salons, Carmyn has devoted herself to her son and his dream of becoming a professional football player. Brady has always followed her lead, including becoming a member of the church's "Celibacy Circle." Now in his senior year at college, the smart, and very handsome, Brady is a lead contender for the Heisman Trophy and a spot in the NFL. As sports agents hover around Brady, Barrett, a beautiful and charming cheerleader, sets her mind on tempting the celibate Brady and getting a piece of his multimillion-dollar future-but is that all she wants from him, and is she acting alone? Carmyn is determined to protect her son. She's also determined to protect the secret she's kept from Brady his whole life. As things heat up on campus and Carmyn and Brady's idyllic relationship starts to crumble, mother and son begin to wonder about the other-are you just too good to be true? A sweeping novel about mothers and sons, football and beauty shops, secrets and lies, JUST TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE has all the ingredients that have made E. Lynn Harris a bestselling author: family, friendship, faith, and love.


E. LYNN HARRIS is a nine-time New York Times bestselling author. His work includes the memoir, What Becomes of the Brokenhearted, and the novels I Say a Little Prayer, A Love of My Own, Just as I Am, Any Way the Wind Blows, If This World Were Mine, and the classic Invisible Life. Harris divides his time between Atlanta, Georgia, and Fayetteville, Arkansas, home of his beloved college football team The Razorbacks.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

As the World Turns and thensome



Is it hot enough for you? Well, if it's not then just you wait because I'm all about either turning up some heat or taking heat. It doesn't matter, just let me at the action in whatever form it comes to me. This week it's about the pride, Black Pride that is, as we prepare for this weekend Little Rock, Southern Comfort, Black Pride events being held throughout the city. But in the meantime, I'm leaving anything off the table as we keep it funky fresh with updates, commentary, links, and maybe even the kitchen sink in this edition of COP:24/7...are you ready, then get set, let's go get em...


Capital Pride Alert: Since we're talking about pride, Little Rock Capital Pride President is circulating an e-blast concerning the state of the group and it's upcoming board elections. According to Joe Lafountaine, he is responding to "many people" who have expressed their disappointment with the lack of a pride festival similar to last years River Market throw down. Furthermore he states, "as previously announced, we were unable to recruit enough volunteers to serve on our board to produce the event". Therefore, Little Rock Capital Pride will hold board elections on Saturday, July 26th at 2 pm at Central Arkansas Library Main Branch in the Friborough Room. Lafountaine reiterates, "If we are to bring Pride back to Little Rock, it is crucial that we have folks willing to serve. If you are interested in serving on the board, please email mailto:joe@lrcpride.org" O.K. the rallying cry, smoke signal, cyberblast has been sent, I'm interested in just how many of those concerned "folks" will have their face in the place. So, let's make this more interesting. Usually I'm not a betting man, but here's my challenge. If 50 people show up with $50.00 checks( real checks only not bouncers) or cash, this forum will commit to hosting a fundraising event for the group at our expense. It's on, you do the math....we'll keep the light on.

All Buzz...No Bull?: What's that you say? Well, it's coming from over the horizon and soon. So you will need to stay locked in to this forum as I start telling you about the "Buzz" that's starting to sound off on the north shore's Sidetracks. Of course those crazy guys won't stop there, just when I thought I had heard it all , then I got wind that there's going be some "suckin and blowin," going on as well. Now, if I've got your curiosity up, then you will really have to stay tuned because we will have all the news first! Who knows you might be a winner if you do....!



Black Pride in the City...What it's all about you ask?


Throughout the week, we will be examining as well as exploring BSGL issues from various aspects. Today, we sharing the concept of "Black Pride," and it's origins. If you have comments, thoughts, opinions or challenges, then we implore you to share in this open space with your voices. The IFBP is a national sponsor of LRBP 2008 and this commentary has been sourced from their website.









By REV. IRENE MONROE
Black Pride plays an important role in the larger gay rights movement.
WHAT STARTED OUT in Washington, D.C., as the only Black Gay Pride event in the country in 1990 has grown to more than 35 gatherings nationwide
Starting in April and going through October of each year, more than 300,000 LGBTQ people of African descent rev up for a weekend of social and cultural events. Just last year, more than 350,000 attended Black Gay Pride events‚ throughout the U.S., with the largest events held in Washington, D.C., Los Angeles and Atlanta, and smaller Black Pride events like the one in Boston providing an equally important sense of identity and‚cultural heritage.
Sunday gospel brunches, Saturday night poetry slams, Friday fashion shows, bid whist tournaments, house parties, soul food, Caribbean cuisine and beautiful displays of African art and clothing are just some of the cultural markers that make Black Pride distinct.
But cultural exclusion was just one of a few things gay revelers of African descent experienced in Pride events. Racism is the other. And so after decades of Pride events where many gays of African descent tried to be included and were rejected, Black Gay Pride was born.
'' We are not seeing ourselves culturally represented at Pride. We want to show not only ourselves, but the larger LGBT community we are out here and taking control of our lives. Black Gay Pride New England speaks to who we are, and it represents the substance that pertains to our lives,'' Philip Robinson, a teacher and community activist told me in June 2001.
Seven years later that sentiment remains. And subsequently, we all rev up each year for Pride so, too, unfortunately, do the fault lines of race and class.
The growing gulf between whites and blacks, rich and poor can be seen in the HIV/AIDS epidemic that was once an entire LGBTQ community problem and is now predominately a black one.
Another example of our division can be seen in the white gay ghettos that have developed and thrived safely in neighborhoods throughout the country. However‚with homophobia in black communities, where most of us reside, we cannot carve out a black queer ghetto within our existing neighborhoods and expect to realistically be safe.
OUR THEMES FOR Black Pride events are different from the larger Pride events. Black Pride focuses on issues not solely pertaining to gays, but rather on social, economic and health issues impacting the entire black community. For example, where the primary focus and themes in white Prides have been on marriage equality, gay people of African descent have used Pride events to focus on HIV/AIDS, other health issues, gang violence ‚ and‚youth homelessness, to name only a few.
By 1999, Black Pride events had grown into the International Federation of Black Prides, Inc. (IFBP). The IFBP is a coalition of 29 Black Pride organizations across the country. It formed to promote an African multicultural and multinational network of LGBTQ/Same Gender Loving Pride events and community based organizations dedicated to building solidarity, health and wellness and promoting''unity throughout our communities.
In recognizing the need to network and build coalitions beyond its immediate communities, IFBP announced in April the formation of the Black/Brown Coalition.
'' The purpose of the National Black and Brown Summit is to identify areas for potential collaboration between African-American and Latino LGBT communities, leaders, organizations and grassroots movements,'' said Earl Fowlkes, president of the IFBP.
BLACK PRIDE IS an invitation for the community to connect its political activism with its celebratory acts of song and dance in the fight for LGBTQ justice.
The Bible is replete with examples of oppressed groups parading in the streets while struggling for their freedom. For example, ''the Song of Mariam,'' in Exodus 15:19 21 celebrates the Israelites crossing the Red Sea while they still journeyed in the wilderness toward the Promised Land.
The Promised Land for all LGBTQ citizens is full acceptance into society and Black Pride plays an important role in fulfilling that promise.
Black Pride contributes to the multicultural aspect of joy and celebration that symbolizes not only our uniqueness as individuals and communities, but also affirms our varied expressions of LGBTQ life in America.
Happy Pride!