Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Two Day Double Take

Can you say busy? Some days it's all I can do to get this forum produced and still run my mini-empire. However to paraphrase the prosperous, "to much that is given, much is expected." Everyday I do my best to give it my all on every front and then some. I'm staying committed to my pledge a few years ago to explore, expand and empower not only myself ,but pass on the blessings that I've encountered thus far. With all that said, this outing is "twofer," as I compress two days worth of coverage into one fast take. So, here we go!....

McCouple Strikes Back: It's a bird, it's a plane, not it's McCouple better known as the maverick duo, John McCain & Sarah Palin. Yes, it seems that Mr. M is sorta using every body's playbook on the campaign trail. His choice of Mrs. P, seems so similar to that other ubber power couple named Clinton. Remember when Former President Clinton seem to infer that if he was elected you get "2 for 1?" Also, the Maverick team has swathed their efforts in "change" clothing all the while sorta towing the Republican mantra of less government and taxes. Oh Joy, has Team Obama began wondering what the hell is going on here? According to recent polls, this whole race to the White House is getting too close for comfort is you ask me. Apparently the Obama folks are not conceding Arkansas to the McCain "win" column after all, by opening their official campaign office Saturday, September 13. Arkansas's Obama for America headquarters will hold its grand opening and everyone is invited. The event begins at 12 noon at 112 W. 7th St., North Little Rock. Unfortunately, in GLBTQ circles I can't detect exactly what's really gong on. I've seen some ugly e-mails being circulated as well as heard a few rainbow folks diss Senator Obama and his historic candidacy. Meanwhile, the count down is on, the race is now a gallop and it's less than 60 days to Election Day. Well, it seems that I've got some more work to do.


The Haters Cometh: As the political world goes into gotcha overdrive, so does those "Christians," from Westboro Baptist church led by Rev. Fred Phelps of Topeka Kansas. They're coming to Little Rock, 9.19.08 & 9.20.08 to locally exercise their constitutional right to assemble. Despite it's distasteful nature and toxicity wrapped in the name of Jesus. According to the website, Westboroiscoming.com these rhetoric spewing Americans are responsible for protest at the funerals of Matthew Shepard, Tony Snow, Congresswoman Stephanie Tubbs Jones, PBS's TV famed Mr. Fred Rogers, and the funeral’s of those killed in Iraq. Let's not forget that these are the same folks that believe that 9.1.01 was God mandated. They say God hates America because of its tolerance and support of–in their words–”fags”. All I can say is, "only in America" people. To offset these dastardly peaceful protest, the UALR Gay/ Straight Alliance has announced a Pledge-A-Thon based on the minutes that these proselytizers spend on the stump. For more info or to offer a pledge, click it to: http://www.westboroiscoming.com/ Even though this is a novel idea, I pondered why this organization didn't coalesce with other "local" community groups that may need a cash infusion. After all such groups as CAR or ASD surely could use more donations for the work that they pursue on a local level. Hmmmm, something to think about, don't ya think?

Noah's Arc Lands: Cyberspace is buzzing with anticipation about the proposed October release date of Noah's Arc: Jumpin the Broom movie. It's the wrap up of the wildly and affectionately embraced TV show of the same name on LOGO. The show was canceled but it lives on in various DVD collections. I got a chance to see the actual show on LOGO before it's demise and later revisited it courtesy of Netflix's on DVD. In case you've been living in Queer As Folk land and not hip to this show, it's about the life and love's of Noah, as portrayed by Daryl Stephens. As an L.A. screenwriter and his colorful cast of friends and circumstances. As far as the movie, there's much "spin" out there and various sites are listing tentative release dates. Yet I can't determine who will be distributing this product and I assume that only the major makets will be choosen first. I discovered that there's suppose to be a "soundtrack" that's been cut, which is also being release simultaneously to the movie. Now for the $64,000 questions. Will it play in Little Rock? Well, only if there's a market demand and a theatre willing to take the plunge. If this happens, maybe, just maybe the Market Cinema might be the taker. What do we do to get some momentum for this product? You can start here, by letting us know that Central Arkansas has a firm fan base for Noah's Arc. O.K. I've spoken, and I'm waiting on your voices to make the next move. I'm ready, are you? Make it known in the comment section TODAY!

Monday, September 08, 2008

Manic Monday

It'another "manic monday" here at COP 24/7 and we are back in the saddle bringing you more of what you've been looking for in updates, commentary,updates, links and just plain ole stuff. Are you ready to get this post started? Well, let's go get em....

White Trash in the City: I stopped in for the White Trash Party at Sidetracks, 9.6.08 to check out exactly what trash was blowing through. And they didn't let me down either. The crowd was varied as well as dressed in a assortement of "white trash" attire ranging from overalls to other bizzare outfits that were suppose to nod to the occassion. Club event coordinator, J.D. once again put out a great buffet while serving as the official host. The guys at Sidetracks just keep on bringing it to it's patrons in all forms and fashion. If you missed it then you should'nt have. But never fear, there's always something going on, so check their website, http://www.sidetracksnlr.com/ for more info.

OH Harry!: Speaking of faces in the place, I was pleasantly surprise to see local weatherman, Harry Bounds out and about at Sidetracks for the White Trash Party. I had already gotten heads up about Mr. B, while I was in St.Louis in july from a delegate from the Seattle area who gave me the 411 about the dapper weather guy. Unfortunately, I did'nt get a chance to make my way over to greet him due to being distracted by other well wishers in the crowd, but hopefully we will get up close and personal soon. So, from the COP 24/7, welcome to the community!

Shows for U: I trekked over to Backstreet on Sunday for the Raven St. James show and for a moment, thought that it would be a command performance for me and my partner, JCM. The reason being was that there were only two other faces in the place at the time. That time being 10 p.m.! This was way past my bed time, but I thought that I would venture out to see what was kicking and was kicking it on a Sunday night. However, what I found was that not many were kicking it, except the folks whom I'd seen on the north shore earlier in the evening. Ultimately, ther were about 30 people, yes I counted them, in the place at the height of the show. What's up with that? Your guess is good as mine, but it's so sad that the performers put all they have into this for only a few audience members. Kudos's for their hutzpa and desire to perform for who ever may be in the place.

Friday, September 05, 2008

Oh say can you see Friday!!

TGIF! Thank God it's Friday and it's stop raining for God's sake! Here we are soaked to the bone, but with power thank you and we're getting ready for another weekend. Whew, is it all too much or what? I hope that everyone stayed dry or at least drying out from the deluge of Gustav's fury. Today is a two monitor day for me. A two monitor day you ask? Yes, that's when COP: 24/7 is in overdrive with both desk top and laptop blazing with updates and around 100 E-blast to catch up on. While the power was doing it's thing, I kept trying to do that thing that I do, but often had to shut down to recharge. It's was challenging to say the least, and damn it, just like McCain said last evening, "Americans just don't give up..." Yeah buddy, and I'm in that mindset with no doubts. Are you with me..I certainly hope so. Because we are Arkansas' only daily online blog for Arkansas GLBTQ community and beyond!


Krogering in the Theatre: I recently got an e-blurb concerning the current show Southern Baptist Sisses, currently playing at the Weekend Theater. I've heard that it's great and I hope to catch it before it's last performance, 9.6.08. But just in case you miss it, the groups website has several ways you can still support the organization. I found this interesting due to the fact that I'm always talking about "doing things outside of the box." Especially the local GLBTQ groups that are in need of fresh ideas to fund their future projects and such. Therefore, If you are so inclined, you can help The Weekend Theater year round by purchasing a Kroger Gift Card and then using it when you purchase your groceries at Kroger. Of course, I'm always using their in-house Kroger Card for purchases that yield points to get a gas discount. Here's how it works. 1. Purchase a $5.00 Kroger Gift Card from The Weekend Theater for $5.00. There is already $5.00 preloaded on the card to spend so the card costs you nothing! Each gift card is specifically coded for The Weekend Theater. 2. Visit the Customer Service desk to reload your card prior to shopping. 3. Use your card every time you shop at Kroger to pay for groceries, prescriptions, and at Kroger gas stations by using your card like a credit/debit card. Your receipt at checkout will show you the balance on your card.4. For every dollar loaded onto your card, The Weekend Theater receives 5% from Kroger! You may purchase the card the next time you're at the theater (ask at the intermission bar) or by sending $5.00 check or money order made out to 'The Weekend Theater' to: The Weekend Theater PO Box 251130 Little Rock, AR 72225 Include your name and mailing address and we will send your card to start using. Thanks for supporting The Weekend Theater!


Zia Bear Cash Dash: The Diamond State Bear's will be hosting a fundraiser, September 20 for Zia D'Yor in his quest to represent Arkansas at the Miss Gay America contest in St.Louis next month. The DSRA clubhouse is the venue for the evening featuring a variety of entertainers including live performances and "male"performers. ( what this means, I'm not sure.) If you need more, you can catch Zia at the Spa cities Jesters, 9.13.08 for another outing of entertainment. As I've mentioned before, being an spotlight entertainer is not cheap. But I do wonder if Camp Zia did a fundraiser while in attendance at this years' Southern Decadence in New Orleans. Seems like to me that would've been a perfect place to gather some Benjamin's for this crown pursuit while enjoying the usual debauchery and everything goes atmosphere. Afterall, I guess you've got to get this all under your belt, before anyone starts questioning your integrity or moral fiber. For more info on this or upcoming activites, click it to: http://www.diamondstatebears.com/

Thursday, September 04, 2008

Twisting and Turning in the Big Chair

And They're Off: The Grand Old Party shifted gears last evening, doing a Texas two step as Gustav continued to swirled inland dumping sheets of rain and wind on the mid-south and beyond. Earlier in the week President Bush didn't let party go on without the Commander in Chief, checking in via satellite with his Mc Cain salvo of praise and confidence. I thought to myself, ain't American political grandstanding something to be hold. During the heat of battle, you can Swift boat, character crash, Dumpster dive, or just plain old misrepresent what the other guy represents to win, then claim that it's just part of the game. In other words, "I didn't really mean all those things I said about you, but I was just trying to win this damn thing." Gosh dern, what a country! I realize that both conventions are "party productions" with most of it pre-scripted and pre-packaged, and at times pre-determined. But I survived it! Including the droning on of former presidential candidate Fred Thompson which was better than any sleeping pill. Why were these folks so excited about his possibility of being their nominee. Yet the main attractions under this big tent lapapalooza in the twin cities, was John McCain walking in the spotlight to deliver his "change" is coming speech. Excuse me, Mr. Maverick did you say "Change." I thought that was the mantra of that other team. Meanwhile it's all said and done in a balloon drop. If you've been watching this weeks coverage, what your take on this mash up? Let us know in the comment section!

Obama on the Brain: Here's a fist bump to Democratic nominee Obama for staying above the fray as well as keepin his attack team back off of Gov. Palin's internal family drama. Let's not forget that he's always felt that wives and children should be left in the afterglow and out of the hot white light of big time politics. Like Nelly says' "it's getting hot in here...," and how! Since the announcement of Gov. Palin as the VP on the McCain ticket, I've heard everything being said about this women, from "is this a Harriet Myers debacle in the making, Mrs. Bush, Laura not Barbara, throwing out the sexism card to other bloodhounds parsing and trolling Mrs. P on any and every levels that's possible. She may have been a barracuda basket ball player, beauty pageant contestant, sports journalist or other incarnations but taking this step in to the blood sport of national politics will require a Viking breast plate and your best horn helmet. I imagine that Team Obama is wondering how's all this family drama is going to play in Peoria. Not to mention the those upcoming VP debates with it's gun slinging and possible loose cannon VP, Sen. Joe Biden waiting in the wings. Well now, are we ready for the games to begin. You betcha, because things are about to get real interesting. Ladies and Gentlemen it's 60 days and counting. Are you ready to vote!

In Survivor Mode: The lights finally came back on late Thursday evening. Do we ever wonder how did those home on the range survived without their local power company. Kudos and much love to all those power crews who were out their in the elements trying to make sure that we returned to the comfort zones that we've all become accustomed too. Yet, while I was powerless to the kilowatt god, I found time to thank the supreme being for my health, life, as well as, the many daily blessings surrounding me daily. Also, I reflected upon the plight of many in the world who are not or sometimes have never been as fortunate as myself. I'm pledging to do a random act of kindness and I encourage all of you to take stock of your circumstances and act accordingly.

Wednesday, September 03, 2008

Stormy Weather COP:24/7


Water, Water! Water every where. Yes, my readers hurricane Gustva blew ashore in the gulf and swept upward to the Natural State. When I mentioned that this month was a month for preparing for disasters, I didn't know that I would get a trial run so soon. But, in true survivor mode, I did it, yet still realizing that my readiness still needs some tweaking. Meanwhile the rains came and then the power went bye-bye. With all this going on, I'm back in the big chair with my sites on making up lost ground in fast breaking fashion. Let's go....

Dyanmic RNC Duo: Are you wondering did I still check in on the Republican National Convention while I was in the dark? You betcha. I got out my trusty pocket radio and tuned into one of my radio favs, NPR ( National Public Radio) which offered clear and uninterrupted coverage of the event. While the wind and rain poured, I sat in my vehicle listening, all the while charging my lab top with my portable AC charge pack. Talk about determination to keep this forum going! Could I make it on Survivor? I'm not sure, but I know that I can rise to the occasion in awkward circumstances. In the meantime, I did catch that much touted Gov. Palin speech in which she step into the national spotlight as the Mc Cain VP choice. Well, Well, some body got a pretty good speech writer for the Hockey Mom who states that the difference between a pit bull and a HM is "lipstick." Alrighty then, Mrs. P. Is she ready to be the VP, or is this another "I'm going to Washington with plain straight talk," storyline that Americans so love. Her speech was certainly filled that rhetoric "red meat" that many of the delegates desired, especially when they thought that the mash-up was going to be a Gustva wash out. Sarah Palin has broken from the pack, featured on magazine covers, popping up on radars worldwide and people wondering "who's that girl!" I heard lots of bullet points during the speech on how she faced down Alaska party bigwigs, others with big pockets and sold off the in house jet on E-bay. Yet as she spouted off this laundry list of accomplished task, there are still many questions that need fact checking vs. the spin miesters behind the TelePrompter. On the surface, Barracuda Palin seems just what the doctor ordered to energize the GOP but the white hot light of the media, public opinion, talking heads, soothsayers and the swift boaters to come, will enlighten us in the coming days. Good Speech, Sarah! Good Luck as I'll be watching from the stands of the bloodsport known as electing an American President. Let the games begin! ( The logo above was designed by Ethan Demme of "My McCain Blog" it was re posted here with presumed permission of the Draft Sarah Plain for VP Blog site.)

Tuesday, September 02, 2008

Speaking Volumes, Again & Outloud...

120 days or so until the fat lady sings us into 2009 . Oh joy! Certainly by that time we will have a newly elected leader of the free world and hopefully, rocking and rolling our way into the 21st century with a glimmer of hope. Ya damn skippy, because I'm "in it to win it," no matter who cometh or challenge me as the online destination for commentary, updates, links, and just plain old stuff for the GLBTQ community and beyond! Now let's get this shigity started...

Palin, Pregnecy, Oh MY: What's that you say? Presumptive VP nominee Gov. Sarah Palin has a pregnant daughter that's not married? OMG! Wait a minute what's this all about it and why is there so much coverage of it. Ah, the outrage, the condemnation, what a skelleton, bombshell? and what silliness this amount too. This whole dilemma has been happening since I was in Junior High, and boy was that a while ago. I thought then that it was something to see a young lady in the "family way." Because, back then before the flood, my father didn't allow us to say the word "pregnant," nor was the situation discussed. I remember those ill fated attempts to inform me about sex by telling me I should talk to the local pharmacist. Why you ask? I don't have the foggiest. Let's just say that his morality playbook was certainly skewed to say the least. But little did he know that I would shred that playbook into tiny pieces. Furthermore, I persevered to update that kind of thinking into the persona I am today, where even though I believe that teen pregnancy is problematic, it's not the scourge of the earth. God rest my father. I loved him and believe it or not, despite some of his antics, he was my hero. Consequently through it all, he became one of my biggest supporters. I wish everyone could have had the support that he later demonstrated, as I found my way to maturity while living my life out loud. Meanwhile, according to statistics from the National Center for Health Statistics, "out of wedlock" births have been on the rise since the 1990's resulting in 4 out of 10 babies being born to unwed mothers. Most glaring of a recently published report was U.S. teen births are among the highest of all industrialized countries. Cmon people, this is a reality check-in on life. After all, I don't think the sky fell when Dick's Daughter, Mary Cheny and partner decided to have a child or Halle Berry, or the young lady and her at least 17 year old boyfriend that I saw yesterday in the checkout line trying to figure out how to use their WIC coupons. It's a sign of the times. Now let's get on with the real issues, leave the kids out of the mix and elect a President.


Can you hear me now: Hey! I know you are out their as well as reading my daily post of what's really going on Central City and the mid-south. However, I would like to hear from any of you! This is an interactive medium and your pariticaption is very welcomed. I'm searching for editorial comments from activist, feedback from scholars, or gab from personalities with a perspective. Got something to say, then say it here first! Are you ready to state your opinion on matters, then get those fingers tapping their way to COP:24/7! Cat got your tongues? I don't think so. Click the comment link and share what's on you mind. What you waitin for, Do it today! Below is a repost from our sister site on Myspace, posted by local activist and Executive Director of CAR ( Center for Artistic Revolution).



The Real Family Values Story
I am a lesbian raising my 16 year old granddaughter. My daughter has a chronic illness that has meant that I have raised her child for most of her life. Nowhere in the Constitution is sexual orientation cited as cause for the denial of the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of personal happiness.

Nowhere on my tax forms is there a box for me to check for a reduced tax rate based on the lack of access to full rights and responsibilities. And despite being a taxpayer, I am consistently denied the full rights and responsibilities that are my birthright as an American citizen. I contribute financially to the state of Arkansas through my work. I generate funds from outside the state through grant writing that are then expended in the state.

I love my child and her child with all of my heart. This means that I've spent my fair share of time holding sweaty heads while they were sick, cleaning up dirty diapers and throw up, struggling through homework, having enough to pay the bills, will the car start every morning, will the checkbook balance, going to their school plays, worrying about financial access to college, plastering my refrigerator with their artwork, encouraging them to grow and learn even when they felt defeat, buying a new coat for one of them while mine was long past the time to be replaced, holding them while they cried when they were hurt or disappointed, loving them enough to keep working to resolve our differences and challenges no matter how hard they may be, teaching them ethics, respect and care for all living things, etc. In other words, all of the things that "straight people" are supposedly doing for their kids.

But wait, aren't the vast majority of the children in foster care, the juvenile justice system, and mental health facilities the product of heterosexual families? If this is really about the welfare of children then perhaps the initiated act should be about restricting heterosexual people from reproducing willy-nilly just because they can. Perhaps instead of vilifying LGBTQ families and homes there would be an investment in support for ALL of Arkansas' families that include; family counseling during difficult times, living wage jobs, access to equitable education, affordable healthcare, childcare, housing, food, fuel, etc.

This initiated act not only would ban unmarried LGBTQ and heterosexual couples from adopting or providing foster care it will also help these rightwing, Christian conservatives to further define by their religious beliefs regarding just WHO CAN BE A FAMILY in Arkansas. This means ALL Arkansans regardless of their sexual orientation.

Despite being my granddaughter's blood relative, this act would ban me from adopting her in the event (a real possibility) that my daughter was to pass away and I was in a cohabitating, sexual relationship with a partner. So, I am forced to choose between residing with a partner in a loving relationship or living alone with my granddaughter so that I can adopt her if that becomes the need. My daughter, granddaughter and me want me to adopt her if the unthinkable were to happen. So, for now I continue to live without a partner.

And why is it again that in Arkansas I'm a viable and valued parent as long as I don't cohabitate with a partner, but just let me set up a two parent same-sex household and now I'm not good enough? This act does in fact permit single lesbians, gays or heterosexuals to adopt and provide foster care.

NO Arkansas family should be told that they cannot leave their children to the guardians of their choice be they a lesbian, gay or straight, unmarried cohabitating couple. And just who determines if we cohabitate and have a sexual relationship? Who is going to be the bedroom police and how will these charges be applied? There will almost certainly be sexual orientation and marriage status profiling.

There simply are not enough homes for the children of Arkansas who require a safe and loving home. Why is it that the Family Council has not been able to generate enough homes through their church networks? If every family that signed that petition to put this act on the ballot had taken on a child or group of siblings, there'd be a surplus of homes. But they didn't and they won't. Many of the children in need of homes have been so damaged by their heterosexual parents that they require an exceptional amount of patience, fortitude, love and heartbreak to care for them.

This summer four children died while in foster care and two of the deaths have allegations of abuse cited. Outside the foster care system DHS has investigated the deaths of 11 children in Arkansas, all of who died from abuse. Again, the parents were ostensibly straight.

A safe, secure and loving home is not dictated by the sexual orientation or gender identity of its parent(s). Strong families and good homes are based in love. Love dictates the investment, responsibility and the commitment to keep a child safe, healthy, educated and above all, loved, loved, loved!

All of Arkansas' families are better served by supporting ALL families and ending the witch hunts against families who don't fit one group's religious perspective of what constitutes a family. Investigate all homes and potential parents who present themselves regardless of marital status or sexual orientation and if the home and parents are suitable, place the child or children. Continue with the appropriate prescribed monitoring of the homes. And above all, don't deny any child a safe and loving home based on religious bigotry.

If we are really about the children of Arkansas we will not allow a blanket ban that will exclude a significant pool of loving and competent couples from providing foster care or adopting.

Vote NO this fall against organized bigotry disguised as concern for children. Jerry Cox has said it himself, they are doing this to thawart that "gay agenda". And yes, we do have an agenda! My gay agenda is all about equality and making sure that my family is protected and that all children who need good, safe and loving homes have access to them!

Feel free to repost this, talk to your friends, family, and coworkers about this issue and urge them to vote NO!

Randi M. Romo
August 29, 2008

Monday, September 01, 2008

The Sounds of Summer

Say it ain't so. Another Labor Day weekend that signifies the end of the summer season. For heaven sakes, it's time to adjust our daily lifestyles in preparation for fall frockling and such. Even though I love warm weather days, I welcome those cool evenings as well as those winter nights to gather by the fireplace. Despite it all, Mother Nature continues to remind us who's the boss, whether we like it or not, especially as hurricane Gustva churns in the Gulf of Mexico. It's another one of those, "you've gotta be kidding me" doubletakes, as almost destroyed New Orleans is once again in the sights of another massive storm. I can't imagine the anxiety and surrealness of it all for those indivuals. But, as I send out prayers for the entire gulf coast area, I'll still be right here in the Big Chair, posting updates, breaking news, commentary, links, video and your comments about what's really going on in the GLBTQ community and beyond. O.K., let's get busy!...

The MAC is Back: John "Maverick" Mc Cain has done a "in your face" move by nominating Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin as his VP choice. Did someone order some change? After all, the talking heads and pundits said that, Mr. M will run the campaign his way and he's not letting them down by any means. As for me, in my post last week I predicted that JM would play the gender card. This makes me two for two sorta on cyber quarterbacking/handicapping the VP race of the titans. I don't need to give Mrs.Palin's resume because most likely it's going to play and replay so much that we are all going to be sick of hearing it. So far we know that she's a newby to the bloody arena of big time national politics and that "experience" catchall phrase is already in play. But I believe that this self anointed "Hockey Mom," may not be a Hillary Ball buster, but she ain't no push over either. In the meantime, it's time for the GOP to put their big tent in Minneapolis/ St. Paul, in an effort to sell that" in their own words," tainted Republican brand to anyone who might think they've been better off in the last 8 years. However, it's being reported by other news sources that if Gustav barrels into gulf area with devastating blow, the convention may be delayed or slightly postponed. At post time President Bush The Republicans don't want to be reminded of the keystone Cop routine of Team Bush. Will I be watching, I wouldn't miss it. I'm an equal opportunity convention watcher and believe that we always need to know who's saying what just over the fence. Hey Mr. McCain, I'll give it too ya, you've got hutzpa it's all about, "no guts, no glory." Your choice of Mrs. Palin is a game changer if you ask me. What say you Arkansas Log Cabin Repubicans?




Disaster Preparedness Month: Not since those Irwin Allen disaster flicks of long ago, have we be bombarded with GYST ( get your shit together) messages in the face of possibly going into disaster mode. Now, enter hurricane season 2008, Arthur Bertha Cristobal Dolly Edouard Fay and now a monster at sea name Gustav has at least a million people seeking higher ground. Let me be clear, this is no joking matter and I'm taking it very seriously even though I don't live in the storm zone. I'm still gather a disaster kit as suggested and boning up on survival tactics if something ominous comes lurking from no where. Here's just a snapshot of some of my GYST plan. I've gathered bottle water, assorted medical supplies, flashlights, walkie talkies, and plans for what my household should do if necessary. Why you ask? I watched that hurricane response 3 years ago in awe and shock. Realizing that waiting on "them" to help may not be in my best interest but instead being proactive for myself. Are you ready for a disaster? Think about it.. Take a moment to check it at: http://www.ready.gov/ or www.littlerock.org What's in your disaster kit? Tell us all about it in our comments section.



Arkansas Firms are "SO" compliant: Since it's Labor Day, there's got to be a labor day post don't you think? As I was watching my e-box, I discovered a press release that I found not only interesting but encouraging from Equality Forum. As a GLBTQ organization, Equality Forum is a national and international GLBT civil rights organization with an educational focus. Equality Forum coordinates GLBT History Month, produces documentary films, undertakes high impact initiatives and presents the largest annual international GLBT civil rights forum yearly. Their report illuminated that 471 (94.2%) of the 2008 FORTUNE 500 companies voluntarily include sexual orientation in their employment nondiscrimination policies. The good news was that of those companies reporting, Arkansas' listed F5 firms were all compliant in listing sexual orientation as a recognized caveat in their employment nondiscrimination policies. Those with Arkansas ties are Alltell, Dillards, Murphy Oil, Tyson Foods and Wal Mart stores respectively. Are you aware of your companies nondiscrimination policy? Although the firm that I work for is "union phobic," sexual orientation is addressed by policy and for the most part is adhered too as well. This is an important factor as Arkansas is a "right to work" state where employment is considered at will. If you are not clear about what all this means, I encourage you to get in the know and stay in the know on labor laws.

This year marks the fifth anniversary of Equality Forum's FORTUNE 500 project, which is a collaboration with Professor Louis Thomas, Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, and Ian Ayres, William K. Townsend Professor, Yale Law School. "The FORTUNE 500 have overwhelmingly decided that including sexual orientation is in the best corporate interest and helps communicate corporate values to the estimated $660 billion annual domestic GLBT consumer market," stated Malcolm Lazin, Executive Director, Equality Forum. According to Gallup's May 2008 Values and Beliefs Poll, 89% of U.S. citizens believe gays and lesbians should have equal rights in job opportunities. There is currently no federal workplace protection based on sexual orientation. Twenty states include sexual orientation nondiscrimination in their workplace statutes. Senator Obama favors and Senator McCain opposes including sexual orientation in the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA). In 2007, the House of Representatives voted 235 to 184 to amend ENDA to add sexual orientation. Thirty-five Republicans voted for the amendment.

Labor Day 08: Seven unions and six million workers united in Change to Win to build a new movement of working people equipped to meet the challenges of the global economy and restore the American Dream in the 21st century: a paycheck that can support a family, affordable health care, a secure retirement and dignity on the job. The seven partner unions are: International Brotherhood of Teamsters, Laborers' International Union of North America, Service Employees International Union, UNITE HERE, United Brotherhood of Carpenters and Joiners of America, United Farm Workers of America, and United Food and Commercial Workers International Union. For more information click it to: http://www.changetowin.org/

Friday, August 29, 2008

Friday Frontline

Thank God the weekend is upon us! Whoa Nelly, it's been a barn burner, no holes barred, don't stop week here at COP:24/7! I hope that you have been along for the ride and that your seat beat is still connected. Because we're winding up to give you more of what you've been looking for in news, updates, commentary, links, and just damn good coverage of what's really going on in from the four corners of Arkansas and beyond. I'm in the big chair, still locked and loaded, so let's go get em...

Obama Lapalooza: It's done, for now at least. History has been made by Barack Obama as the first African American to be nominated by a American political party as it's candidate for president of these United States. As I listened to his acceptance speech, so much ran through my body and soul. First, I was so envious that my face wasn't in the place but that aside, my sense of pride soared watching this man issuing a clarion call for "we" the people to demand change. As I listened, I realized that the themes and bullet points that Mr. O was outlined were not that new or radical. Affordable health care, educational opportunities for all, infrastructure repairs, responsibly ending the war and immigration issues can no longer be "winked and noded" by our Representatives or the future President. O.K. America, it's done. The Obama Biden ticket is in place, the stakes are high, the issues are front and center, and the ball is in play. What you gonna do?

McCain in Waiting: Believe it or not, I don't want you think that I've forgotten about Mr. John McCain the Republican presumptive nominee. How could I? I've actually read some of his position papers, listened to his take on matters and given him a fair shot at explaining himself. There's no doubt that JM has a distinguished career in Congress, his military service is beyond reproach and his love of country is distinctively obvious, however, I believe that he's not the tour-de- force needed to refresh the country. I expect that Mr. McCain will pull a pre-convention surprise with the naming of his VP. Unfortunately, I can't call it because the choices are so varied, but I'm lending that his will play a gender card in this political poker showdown. The twin cities will be painted red next week as the Republicans roll into town with deep pockets and lots of rhetoric, rebuttals and replays. Will I tune in, you betcha. Let's not forget those hanging chads and other shigity that went on in the last two election cycles. These folks are no joke when it comes to being "in it to win it."
GAYin the Rock Cometh: Are you wondering how does he do it? Staying on point and keeping it funky fresh from all angles. Well, somebody got to do it, don't they? So I went to the launch party for the Gayintherock website held last eve at Sidetracks. I'm not sure if those in attendance actually understood what was this was all about, except that fact that they were giving away free t-shirts and free food. Where were the complimentary beverages? What about those prizes? Where's the party people? If they wanted to the evening to be all about them, some one should have turned off the TV sets or better yet they should have had something that tied into their site on them. I didn't sense any real buzz about it nor did two women who were almost in a orgasmic mash up at the end of the bar. It's was almost one of those, "get a room moments." Meanwhile the promoters, one of which is bartender, "Keith" and a gentlemen who never introduced himself sorta perched themselves at front of the room without much fanfare. Furthermore the unnamed guy was not even wearing a promo t-shirt or engaging with member prospects? What's going on here? Alright every one's not extroverted like myself whom likes to tell you "who I am and why I"m glad that you came to this event." Anyway, the site is allegedly a social networking and possibly a portal for other stuff. At this time the site is in development and you will have to be the judge as to where it's going. Take a look at it and let me know what you think. It can be found at, www.gayintherock.com Perhaps maybe they'll be a working association at some junction, I'm always looking for partners. In the meantime, stay locked in to COP:24/7, Arkansas' only daily based online site for the GLBTQ community and beyond.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Still Speaking Volumes 1.0

Do you ever wonder just how we keep COP:24/7 updated with the breaking news, commentary, updates, links and the kitchen sink? It's called commitment and drive to stay ahead of the curve along with the latest in techo mash up's that assist me in keeping it all together. This week is no different as I've pre-produced the weeks posting meanwhile editing just before their scheduled posting which is automated through the blogger system. This new gadget is better than sliced bread when it comes to helping me with my hectic lifestyle and pace. So now you know some of the magic behind the wizards curtain in bringing Arkansas' GLBTQ only daily online destination for what's really going on and then some! There are 125 days left in the year and I'm locked and loaded, so brace yourselves my pretties...

Vegas Galm in the Rock: If you recall, last week I started posting about the The Complex "glam squad" that decried the scrolls from the Drag Gods on how to whip the weekend performances into showroom shape. So far, the vibe that I'm getting is that even though this mandate has been thrown down, there's actually little that local personalities can do or will do anything about it. So what's new about that? I've heard a few talk about some type of "revolt" and only performing at UBU or other venues if possible. Well I guess that could be a possibility but will probably not solve much. Some have mentioned that they perhaps will "retire" or limit there activities to fundraisers, contest or Halloween. Oh Really now. Then, there are the die hearts who will bow to the edict, meanwhile attempting to rise to the occasion by trying to meet those imposed standards. With all that said, how many of you know exactly how many Benjamin's does it take to be a entertainer? Let's run some numbers. If you're not a beginner, then the cost varies especially depending you how often you perform. On average you'll need a full compliment of cosmetics including brushes, eyelashes, etc, Cost: $200-350.00. At least one wig, but let's keep it real, because most every dragon has at least two. Cost: $45 to $200.00 for human hair or fancy updo's. How about some costuming? As I understand, one of those now outlawed "stretch material" gowns with a fishtail probably would run you about, Cost: $75.00. If you are a glam gal, like myself, those beaded outfits can run you a tab from $100.00 for sequin pants, Heavy Beaded Jackets, $185.00, Tuxedo Pants suits, $125.00 or stage gown, anywhere from $300 to $5,000 smackers! Are you counting yet? All of this doesn't include your jewelry( oh how we love to sparkle in those rhinestones)Cost:$50.00 -$1,500, other incidentals like under gear, shoes (I paid $125.00 for a custom fit), music mixes, entourages (do you think those make-up people work for free?) and everything else that goes into being an ace in the spotlight. Did I mention pageant entry fees? Nope, because that's an extra expense depending on what you are making of this little fantasy trip. How can I forget my Miss NLR 02 trip which tabbed out at a modest, $2.000.00 even though I didn't even get to compete in the state pageant. Can we Talk? Trust me, it doesn't stop there people. If you need a touch of more "realness" how about a "nip & tuck" about the nose, chin, cheeks or whitening that smile with a few bucks. These little touches can be in the thousands! My philosophy, if that's what it takes to blow up your skirt, then by all means go for it!
Got your calculators out yet? Can you imagine all these expenses juxtaposed to a $50.00 performance fee for non-title holders plus those all important tips. Which may happen or may not, depending on how well you work it. Let's not mention if you don't meet the standard and are "sent home." Yes my friends, dismissed because you didn't make the glamour cut!!

Are you ready to be a performer now? If so, good! It's all about choices and what you want to do when making them. In the meantime, I wish them all well and hope that they find some solid solutions to their dilemma. Sounds like to me, it's either step up or flame out sistas!

Pride in the City: Even though there was not a prominent pride event matching 2007. There seems to be movement within the community construct toward a PRIDE 09. I've gotten wind that Little Rock Capitol Pride is tentatively scheduling pride for June 7, 2009 in the River market Pavilion. They've elected board members, pursuing strategies and need input. O.K. here's my two cents. Begin with a clear and realistic business plan to achieve a maximum affect for the event. Also keep those board members feet to the fire, they've either got to pony up or get lost!


Psst, Bears in Togas, Oh My!: They're at it again! The Diamond State Bears have announced there latest gathering being held soon in Central City. Do I have the date, of course I do, but I'll be revealing it by Podcast. If you want to know where all the Caesar-Bears will be holding court, then E-mail me and I'll pass it on to you. If you missed the last get together, then you can't afford to miss out on my Podcast. I'll be waiting for your e-mails. Let's make it more interesting? Want to be my special guest? I've got a special question that you'll need to answer. Feel free to reach and touch me through our comments sections or our sister site, www.myspace.com/corneliusonpoint , I'll be waiting, if you dare!

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Speaking Volumes & more 1.0

As the DNC 08 convention continues to wind up to it's crescendo this Thursday with the acceptance speech for presumptive nominee Obama. There's other news of importance that I want to keep front and center to my readers and supporters. Each of the candidates are quoted in this item concerning the HIV dilemma in this nation, however, each of "us" must do our part to stay steadfast in our missions to keep our elected officials, local CBO's and activist engaged.


Cougars, PUMAS, & Hillary, Oh My!: It had to happen, according to all the hand wringing and worry warts who pondered if former Presidential contender, Hillary Clinton was going to help unite the democratic party. Mrs. Clinton approached to podium, after a tremendous salute with fervor and confidence while delivering the rallying cry that set the hall in motion for unity. Her pronouncement of "No Way No How, No Mc Cain!," is probably already being produced into a campaign button somewhere! Thusly the pundits, talking heads and wonks are in hot analysis mode trying to figure out whether her speech will bring those 18 Million supporters into the fold for Team Obama. However, it seems that reports are still circulating that those "cougars," supposedly women over 40 are still mulling it over and then there are those, "PUMAS," (Party Unity My Ass!) folks who are miffed that Mrs. C. didn't get the nomination nor the VP nominee nod. Whew, it's high politics going in the mile high city and It's just to damn bad that I'm not in the house for all the heat. Next up, It's OBAMA Time, Thursday night's mega event in Invesco Stadium where a reported 76,000 people will be waiting with baited breathe for the presumptive nominee to seal the deal and bring it home.



CDC Releases Updated Estimates on HIV Infections


The new analysis found there were about 56,300 new HIV infections in 2006, the most recent year for which data are available, about 40% higher than CDC's long-standing estimate of 40,000 for each of the last several years (Washington Post, 8/3). According to CDC, the number of new infections likely was never as low as the previous estimate of 40,000 and has been relatively stable overall since the late 1990s (CDC release, 8/3). According to the Post, the estimate is based on data from a new advanced testing method, which enabled researchers to detect recent HIV infections (Washington Post, 8/3). The study did not calculate the total number of U.S. residents living with HIV/AIDS, although such estimates are expected soon. Earlier projections estimated that about 1.2 million people in the U.S. are HIV-positive, and CDC is updating that number, the Boston Globe reports (Smith, Boston Globe, 8/3).Among sub-groups, the report found that:




Men who have sex with men accounted for 53% of all new infections;
Non-Hispanic blacks accounted for 45% of new infections (Sternberg, USA Today, 8/2);
People in their 30s had the highest number of new HIV infections, while people younger than age 30 accounted for 34% of all new infections;
73% of new infections were recorded among men (Washington Post, 8/3);
Injection drug users accounted for 12% of infections; and
Heterosexuals made up 31% of new infections.


Although the report indicates general stability in new infections nationally, as well as reductions in new infections among both IDUs and heterosexuals over time, it also shows increases among MSM (CDC release, 8/3).HIV incidence in 2006 among blacks was 83.7 infections per 100,000 people, seven times as high as the rate of 11.5 per 100,000 among whites and three times as high as the 29.3 infections per 100,000 people among Hispanics (Altman, New York Times, 8/3). According to the data, although new infections among blacks are higher than among any other racial or ethnic group, the number has been relatively stable since the early 1990s (CDC release, 8/3).
Historical Analysis According to the analysis, new HIV infections peaked at about 130,000 annually in the mid-1980s and decreased to a low of about 50,000 annually in the early 1990s. The number of new infections increased in the late 1990s and has been relatively stable since then, with estimates of between 55,000 and 58,500 new infections annually in the three most recent time periods that were analyzed, according to the study (New York Times, 8/3).
Prevention, Funding According to the Post, CDC spends about $750 million each year on prevention efforts. About half of CDC's HIV prevention budget targets blacks, Kevin Fenton -- director of CDC's National Center for HIV/AIDS, Viral Hepatitis, STD and TB Prevention -- said. However, he added that the increasing incidence in MSM -- particularly in young black MSM -- is evidence that prevention campaigns have "not reached all those who need it" (Washington Post, 8/3). According to Fenton, the recent relative stability in incidence is somewhat good news because the overall number of people living with HIV who could potentially pass the virus on to others is increasing as HIV-positive people are able to live longer due to antiretroviral drugs. That suggests those people are taking steps to prevent spreading the virus, the San Francisco Chronicle reports (Stannard, San Francisco Chronicle, 8/3). "Over 95% of people living with HIV are not transmitting to someone else in a given year," David Holtgrave of the Bloomberg School of Public Health at Johns Hopkins University said, adding, "What that says is the transmission rate has been kept very low by prevention efforts" (Washington Post, 8/3). An analysis last year by Holtgrave and Jennifer Kates, a Kaiser Family Foundation vice president and director of HIV policy at the foundation, showed a correlation between the amount of funds spent on prevention and HIV incidence. "You get what you pay for," Holtgrave said, adding, "I think the new statistics are the most important AIDS story in the U.S. since the advent of the new treatments" (USA Today, 8/3).

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Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Cyberland Me & U



Wow, is summer winding down already? Yesiree, therefore I'm in editoral overdrive with this weeks posting, before the long Labor Day weekend. I'm wasting no time putting it all out there in our special brand of commentary, links, updates, video and so much more. Enough already, let's get this started...




Lady O Speaks: The verdict is in, perhaps the Democrats are nominating the wrong Obama according to some reviewers of Mrs. O's speech last evening. Michele Obama step to the podium, beamed her gorgeous smile and told the delegates her heartfelt story. It was good TV and she made a impassioned plea to let the electorate know that she's a wife, devoted mother, and women for all seasons. In my mind I kept thinking is she having a Sally Field moment, "they like me, they really like me.!" Her scripted moment in the spotlight had to be a proud moment for her mother sitting in the balcony. The expression on her face was priceless as she watched her daughter reveal their struggles as a middle class family dealing with everyday issues. I believe that most likely those scenarios resonated with many in the Pepsi Center as well as the extended audience watching. You go girl, I just hope that you're ready to be in the fish bowl of being First Lady of the nation. I believe that you've got the moxie and that "sista substance" that it will take in the glare of the White House spotlight. Bravo, Mrs. O !


Dreamin in Colors: This week there's just history being made on all fronts including the 88Th Anniversary of the Women's rights's to vote, Barack Obama's Thursday night acceptance speech in Denver and then there's also the MLK "I Have a Dream" Commemoration. You can join in commemorating the 45Th anniversary of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s, "I Have a Dream" speech with a day of film screenings and other entertainment at the Clinton Presidential Center. King delivered the famous speech on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial during the 1963 March on Washington. Festivities include a "Tribute to the March on Washington: An Entertainment Celebration," featuring special guests Gracie Carter of Little Rock who participated in the 1963 march and Joshua and Andrew Withers, sons of the late Ernest Withers of Memphis, a noted civil rights photographer whose photographs and prints will be on display during the commemoration. The commemoration is hosted by the Clinton School, the William J. Clinton Foundation and The College of Aspiring Artists. I've been to the Clinton Center for a variety of activities that result in valuable "teachable moments" and just plain old fun. Reservations required by emailing publicprograms@clintonschool.uasys.edu or calling 501-683-5239.


GayRock Cometh: What can I say, competition is good in the big tent of the Internet. With that said, enter, Gayintherock.com a new social networking website that is winding up and has plans for a send off this Thursday( 8.28.08) at Sidetracks, 9 p.m.. I plan on attending at some point, but don't they know the rest of the world will be in Obama Land? O.K. Now let's cut to the chase, I have no quibble with this venture, meanwhile feeling hey, the more the merrier! Maybe they think they can do that thing that I do, much better. Well, let me tell you that this thing that I do, takes more than just a few pictures, bullshit content and armchair visitors looking for a love connection of some sort. The web is littered with plenty of this type of diversion for those so inclined. Believe it or not, there are many other Arkansas alleged networking websites, portals and web pages that start then flame out. I know this because I belong to several that have no activity or in my opinion have a limited purpose. I've made overtures for partnerships and cross promotions, but have basically gotten the cold shoulder. On the other hand I've dealt with those other city "big talkers" who are all talk and no balls. Yet I'm appreciative of the OnTrack publishers who have been gracious with acknowledgements on the pages of their bar mag. It's unfortunate that this spirit of mutual cooperation is so elusive among the gay collective. Why the hate, you ask? Because COP: 24/7 is all about "keeping it real" as a independent shot caller in Central City. I say "bring it on!" For the record, this forum is 4 years in the making and counting!! Let me remind you that we are Arkansas' only daily based online destination for both local and national "real" news, updates, first in pod casting, video, and links, for the GLBTQ community and beyond. Hey, G-Rock staff, considered yourselves welcomed to the thunder dome! Hit em up at www.gayintherock.com

Monday, August 25, 2008

Manic Monday & Me

Whew! Another weekend in the hip pocket and I'm staying ahead of the curve this week by posting a variety of items that have filled my e-box. Not to mention updates, links, flashes, mash-up's and everything that goes into our special brand of coverage in the GLBTQ community and beyond. Gosh dern it, are you ready again? Yeah I thought so...Let's go get em!!

The Body Politic: It's finally here, convention season 08 with the Democrats kicking it in the mile high city, Denver, Colorado this week and the Republicans taking it the land of 10,000 lakes in Minnesota in September. Yet, with all this carrying on, there are other matters that need to be recognized. First up those folks at the Family Council have submitted the necessary signatures to get that dastardly initiative on the November ballot. Awareness and action is going to paramount in an effort to defeat this measure. This forum will continue to highlight, as well as, spotlight the latest moving and shaking surrounding this ballot fight. I implore you to take a stand and get involve somehow. Don't think that some one else will always be there to take on the fight. Do it Today!

From Beijing to London 2012: I don't know about you but I was simply in awe of the People's Republic of China's world Olympic party. From the opening ceremonies which had me speechless to the stunning closing array of ingenuity and creativity that makes me just damn giddy. Even though all this display of national pride was one of the best, the issues of human rights, info blackouts and government limitations spiked with restrictions were looming in the background. Nevertheless, the games still persevered bringing the world together to showcase the multi-levels of athletic prowess from all corners of the globe. Congratulations to Team USA whom made me proud as they continued the excellence we always expect from our Representatives. Who knows may be I'll make it to London in 2012! (picture & logo courtsey of the B08 website)




Who's that Candidate: It's only hours before the doors swing open and the delegates pour into the Pepsi Center starting the mash-up known as O8 DNC/ the national Democratic Convention 2008 in Denver, Colorado. I'm not amused that I'm not in the house, but nevertheless I'll be "onpoint" all this week with my own talking head coverage of the event. Tonight, it's Mrs. O, Michelle Obama who will make the case and tell all of America, "who's that Candidate name Barack." Seems like to me how could we not know by now, after all there's the books, audio books, website bio's, documentary and a ton of video messages and clips telling us just who Senator Obama really suppose to be. Gosh dern. Do I want to have a beer with the Bouncing O? Perhaps. Would I like to have Michelle and the girls over for a garden party? I could I do it with no problem. What about a dinner party with the Obama's? Why certainly, because I can do a great din-din spread. O.K. I'll be watching to see if there's anything new that I don't already know about presumptive nominee O. If you miss tonights warm up, you can get more at www.barackobama.com

Friday, August 22, 2008

From the Front lines to the Fringe Wire


Can you stand it? It's another friday taking us into a highly charged weekend. The week for myself has teeming with energy, expectations and excitement. However, this forum goes on despite it all. With that said, are you sitting down? Alright, then let's roll out...!

Waiting for Obama: You would have to be in a time warp not to be aware of the fact that presumptive nominee, B. Obama is playing possum with the world as we await his VP announcement this weekend or whenever. As I've watched the coverage, read accounts and listened to the talking heads among us, The Bouncing O seems be in sheer delight taunting the electorate, especially those media folks, as he prepares to pull the cat out of the hat. I've already weighed in with my earlier prediction that the TEXT will have the name, Sen. Joe Biden, (D) Delaware. Now, of course Team Obama has been known for going left when we thought they were going right. Of course, that's how Mr. O has reached this political pinnacle, on his way to accepting the nomination in Invesco Field next Thursday. Am I hooked into the text, you're damn right and I'm waiting for Obama to phone home. When I get the word, along with the rest of the world, I'll be on the horn with my two cents.

Drag Galm in the Rock: While I'm on hold for Obama, I've been thoroughly entertained elsewhere by the latest edicts handed down from the inner sanctum of the Drag Elite directly from the Drag Oracle. Now, you say what the hell is this all about? Well hold on let's try to figure all this out together, if we can or if we really care. Most of you unsuspecting audience members who witness the local entertainment and /or pageants are probably not aware of the machinery that lies beneath those wigs, eyelashes and crowns. Not to mention the Alumni figureheads or the surrogates whom unfurl the holy instruction drag scrolls sent via the Norman Palace,( not the one in Palermo, Italy mind you) or either the Athena showroom located locally, not in Greece. Apparently show producers have decided and let me be the first to say they have the right to do so, because it's their sand box, that the shows need an an overhaul. Meanwwhile, they have laid down some ground rules across the board. What rules you say? Are you ready? O.K. The surrogates, Dominique D. & Raven St. J. have been given the authority to whip things into shape.


First of all, entertainers of a certain size. You know those Plus Size girls who need to cover up and stop showing all that "meat and no potatoes" flesh in costuming that's unflattering or simply not cute. Not to hate, but this comes just in time, since current MGAA, Stephanie Richards certainly has tipped out in the this type of costuming in the past. Girl you got in under the wire! Also, according to sources close to this "project runway," the shows need more Vegas glam. Participants have been instructed that they are to gather more "beads, bangles, feathers, headdresses and more," if they are to be seen on the boards at the A-showroom. Furthermore, no more stretch material gowns! Now, I must say that I have no problem with this one, since there seemed to be a tidal wave of cookie cutter stretch gowns that paraded out constantly. Don't ask me why, when there's so much more available now via the Internet. I should know since this is where I found much of my then, fashionable wardrobe in my size and at reasonable prices to boot. I don't know who was making these little outfits but they must have made a fortune! Speaking of the net, would you believe that little old me was tagged as a favorite reviewer on E-bay by individuals who purchased some my gowns and costuming. Who knew? Need more, yes I've got it and you've got to check it out next week, because you just won't believe it...see you then!



Wednesday, August 20, 2008

HORIZONS & RAINBOWS

Another day has dawned, another soul has left the earth in route to the hear after, and the universe has welcomed a new birth to perpetuate the cycle. It's 8.20.08, I'm in the Big Chair, resolute, reticence and boldly basking in the blessings thus far. It's COP:24/7 tossing and turning until I can bring you what's really going on in the GLBTQ community and beyond. Can you stand the heat, then let's get this shigity started....


Birthday Boys: Thanks to the webmasters at the Sidetracks Yahoo site for pointing out that 8.20.08 is the day I was born into this world. Thanks for remembering. It's a nice feeling to have others think of you. I'm kinda funny about the B-day thing, since I don't really make a much-a-do about it. Usually, I celebrate it rather quietly and without much fanfare. Staying humbly retrospective can be quite the equalizer when death has been on the prowl. Despite the many dilemmas that I've faced over the last few years, I've always stood steadfast, knowing that this too shall pass. If your birthday was this month and your celebration was lacking, just remember that many others are most likely more unfortunate than yourself. If you were considering a gift for me,( and I know you were, right?) I appreciate it very much. But, I'd like to encourage those so inclined, to put your efforts where they count the most. Stand up and be counted. Get registered to vote, spend Two Dollar bills or the new Dolllar Coins in our local establishments on my behalf, or donate to your favorite charity. I started some time ago "living the life," and proudly continues until this day. So, trust me, Lord willing and the creek don't rise, I'm not done now or anytime soon. I'll be around until the "fat lady sings." You can count on that without a doubt! In the meantime, "what have you done today to be proud?"

A Veeping we Go: What's with all the secrecy about who will run with the Bouncing O. Can a brother not just choose some one and roll into the White House. Obviously not. Everyone is a pundit, choosing the pro's and con's of what Senator O has done in his choice or whatever he's decided as the world looks on. I said it should be Joe Biden, however, I was somewhat broadsided by an e-blast from film maker Michael Moore, promoting and damn near calling the lady out, Caroline Kennedy as the perfect Obama choice. Say what? Talk about change and how in the world is that suppose to play in Peroia? Perhaps very well, since Mr.O is all about change, then let's have some revolutionary change at the core. Moore makes the argument that Mrs. K is not apart of the establishment and futhermore, should do what current VP Chenney did as a key figure in selecting a future VP. Sorta nominate yourself. Why not, it's just politics anyway. Boy, It's gonna get extremely interesting, so stay tune, I just know it's gonna be a doozie...I can feel it in my bones. Do you have a VP pick? And why not, it's the hottest game going and you shouldn't want to be left out. Send me your nominee, today!!!


Curtain UP: The Weekend Theater presents "Southern Baptist Sissies" By Del Shores, August 22, 23, 29, 30 September 5, 6 A roller coaster of a play that takes audiences from heights of hilarity through outrageous anger, and into caves of depression and out again, this political and religious commentary is the story of four gay men in a Southern Baptist Church in Texas and the various ways they cope when they discover urges within themselves that go against the teachings of their church. The damage of religion that preaches intolerance and foments self-hatred and the repercussions of this brand of religion are seen throughout the boys' trek from pre-adolescence to adulthood: the pain, the doubt, the self-loathing, the confusion. The script weaves together the characters' stories inserting Bible passages that support, contradict and call into question the fundamentalists' teachings about homosexuality. The production is being directed by Ralph Hyman. On Fridays and Saturdays, curtain times are at 7:30 p.m. I may have to make the rounds and check this out. If I get it on my schedule, you know that I'll have a full review here.


Tuesday, August 19, 2008

COP: Checking IN and OUT

In case you haven't noticed, 2008 is headed for the home stretch, as we prepare for the various other shoes to drop before the ball does on 2009. So far, we've had primaries, a continuing war, a housing bust, saber rattling, weird weather and shortly, the election of the next leader of the free world. Yeah, it keeps coming at us on a daily basis. But never fear, so do I from the Big Chair in search of commentary, links, news, updates and those classic "whatever" maneuvers in the GLBTQ community and beyond. Here we go again...

Lypsincka Me: It was another good time for a worthy cause last Saturday night at the DSRA clubhouse. As usual, I was welcomed back and felt right at home with the assembled cast as well as house royalty. Brian's (a.ka. Cherity) posted message reflected his heartfelt "thanks" and gratitude for the outpouring of support. As my alter ego, Cassaundra Manchester, I was once again proud to lend my talents to spreading goodwill as I've always done in the name of true excellence. Thank you staff, management, house royalty, fellow cast members and a special shout out to my girl, Mary K. Arden whom always keeps it really real, O.K. Until next time...



Waiting for Obama: Are you breathlessly waiting for the VP announcement? Well, maybe not, but it's coming some time this week or weekend. Just in time for the Denver mash-up next week. Unfortunately, I will not a chance to see it live as I had hoped, but there will be wall to wall coverage. Not only from the majors, but here too. I've got the Bouncing O hook-up with e-mail and TEXT, so just as soon as "O" phone's home. I'll be on the line to you. Want to know who I think will be the VP choice? After close consideration and consternation, my pick for the ticket (and should be Mr. O's) is...Senator Joe Biden (D) Delaware. Let's see how the chips fall. Do you have a choice, then share it with us.

Birthday Boys in the Rock: When I say that I offer community coverage, ya damn skippy I do! I was in the house of Easy Street on a Monday night to help celebrate the birthdays to two readers who requested my attendance. To my surprise, both Eric R. and Vernon S. have birthdays in the same month as me and my LTP. I always knew that August was a great month to be born into. Meanwhile, it was vintage ES, with Michael Henderson tending bar complete with hugs and kisses for everyone and a ever present bar back/waiter who kept the beer and wine coming. After making a somewhat late arrival, the evening was still enjoyable on the patio with stimulating conversation and a little shooting from hip Q talk on all manner of issues. I did inquire to sources to the fate of the piano bar and the various going's on that have been bandied about. What I heard was, "when it's all over, I'll be telling you first, all the details about what really was going on..." I guess we will have to wait for the real story on the back story. For now, the management and it's benefactors will trudge on or at least to the lease expires. I'll be waiting in the wings for the whole truth and nothing but...



Doing the Springs: Here's my final install of my R & R in Hot Springs last week. I complete the trip with a visit to Oaklawn's new "Gaming Room." As I closed my eyes and listened to the surroundings, took in the smells and envisioned where I could be, I thought Vegas? Tunica?, Buloxi? NO, I'm in Hot Springs, Arkansas! Yes, the sights and sounds of all those places seem so similar to the new gaming experience at Oaklawn. I was treated to bonus points with my new membership, since August is my birthday month and more points from a brochure I picked up at the hotel. Which resulted in my having some fast cash to take my chance at the "games of skill." If you don't what you are doing, the room comes complete with tutors to assist you with loosing your money, oh I mean taking a chance at winning points, redeemable for prizes from the games of skill. Wink. Wink. No matter what you call it, and according to some folk this ain't gambling. I had a smart time with those .99 Frozen Rita's, snappy music that kept my toes tapping, encouragement from the tutors & staff, all while dropping that hard earned currency to delight of owners. I also journeyed out to see the rest of Oaklawn, now in it's off season of live racing, but it's all a buzz with simulcasting from around the nation. I was somewhat surprised the crowd of people who were actually betting, and betting and still betting after my tasty Bloody Mary. It was not time for lunch in the Carousel Room, which was available all to myself and JCM's. The waitress was accommodating, friendly, informative and certainly made me want to come back. Especially for the game room member specials, such as a $1.99 Catfish Buffet or Fillet dinners, with pricing being based on your games of skill play. I lived in Hot Springs and never went to Oaklawn. Boy, what was I thinking. I can't wait til the next years season's for that live stuff, in meantime, maybe I'll save a few big head hundreds to take my chances at those games of skill.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Cornelius Unlimited Express

Ladies and Gentlemen welcome to another full throated posting of the In's and outs of the GLBTQ community and beyond. I'm in a "Living my life like it's Golden" attitude as the year continues to wing it's way to 2009. I'm ready, if you're ready. So let's go em and how!....

In memorandum: The recent tragic death of Bill Gwatney, local business man and State Democratic Chair, is one of those incidents that remind us that life can be fleeting in the midst of senseless crime. My condolences go out to his family, business associates and staff. I briefly met Mr. Gwatney at a ASD meeting after he addressed the group about caucus politics. He seemed approachable and filled with information about how to affect change through the system. While I was pursuing a chance to be a delegate to this year's Democratic convention I noticed that he was always making sure that process was moving as dictated by the national rules and regulations. According to his obituary, "Arkansas lost one of its greatest cheerleaders with the passing of, William A. Gwatney, 48 of Little Rock, a treasured favorite son whose respect for and appreciation of the everyday citizens of his home state was proven daily through his unending contributions to community and public service.
Bill distinguished himself in the Arkansas state Senate, first elected in 1992 and serving until 2003. He championed many causes most notably the Patient Protection Act, allowing patients the right to choose their doctor from willing providers. In addition, he was extremely instrumental in the legislation leading to ethics reform in Arkansas politics. I know he will be desperately missed by those on both a personal and professional level. May he go with God's speed.



Presumptive Platform: This week is the pre-cursor to next weeks blow out Democratic Convention in Denver, CO. Talk about a Rubik's cube of political wrangling that's worthy of the cat call, "welcome to the Greatest Show on Earth!" To add to this spectacle of political high jinx's, I recently received a e-blast from an intrepid reader sharing a link to some thought provoking words from Senator B. Obama, concerning his commitment to and respect for LGBT families. Mr. O stated," We have to do more to support and strengthen LGBT families. Because equality in relationship, family, and adoption rights is not some abstract principle; it's about whether millions of LGBT Americans can finally live lives marked by dignity and freedom. That’s why we have to repeal laws like the Defense of Marriage Act. That’s why we have to eliminate discrimination against LGBT families. And that’s why we have to extend equal treatment in our family and adoption laws. I’ll be a president that stands up for American families – all of them." Boy does this guy have a perfect answer for everything, except that recent strange answer during the Presidential Forum at Saddleback Church. When asked by Pastor Rick Warren about conception, he said "that he couldn't answer because it was above his pay grade." Say what? Then let's not forget the word Monte that the Democratic Platform committee is playing with deleting references to "gay families, transgendered, or lesbian." Even though the current version is suppose to be inclusive and a working foundation for the GLBTQ community overall. It's obvious that some of the committee members do have a problem with the "G" word. So what's new about that in 21st Century?


Politics & Wine :The Stonewall Democratic Caucus will host a WINE-TASTING EVENT at the
Historic F. O. Rogers House
400 West 18th St.
Little Rock, AR

September 25, 2008
at 6pm

A "Friend of the Community" Award will be presented to Robbie Thomas-Knight
for more info contact : http://www.stonewallarkansas.com/
Viva Vegas Via Little Rock: Do you want some Vegas Style entertaining in your local Drag spot? Then you've got to stay tune as we continue to gather the details about the latest incarnation of what constitutes doing drag in Central City. Just when I thought I had heard it all...well I haven't. It's coming this week...