Rainbow Viral, You & Me

Can you feel it? It's slowly emerging and we all are waiting with baited breathe. What is it you ask? The summer season of festivals, prides and the great American outdoor activities that we love. At this posting, it seems that the weather has finally decided to move ahead and allow us to start planning those steamy hot days of summer fun and frolic. But, before you start that get away search, I still have more news,updates, commentary, video and even some travel tips to boot. Keep it locked in and we continue to load these pages with more of what you've been looking for!

Hate Crime Legislation Debated

In a previous post, I mused about staying safe in the city, while avoiding being a target for possible hate crime. Keeping this important issues on the frontburner is necessary as across the country numerous incidents have been reported concering SGL indiviudals and businesses. The Mid-South has not been immuned to the impact of these incidents including unsloved murders. On Capitol Hill, the House Judiciary Committee will consider hate crimes legislation tomorrow has reignited a debate on Capitol Hill as to whether or not granting sexual orientation the same legal status as race and religion is a step toward equality or one in the wrong direction.The bill, known as the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act, would amend present hate crimes law to include violence motivated by a victim’s sexual orientation, gender identity, gender or disability.The bill will be introduced by the committee chairman, U.S. Rep. John Conyers, D-Mich., and is the same legislation that passed the House in 2007 by a 237-180 vote.If enacted, it would provide federal assistance to state and local law enforcement to prosecute hate crimes. It would also authorize the federal government to investigate crimes where the victim was targeted because he or she belongs to one of the protected groups.
The necessity of legislation to enhance criminal penalties for crimes committed against gays and lesbians based on whether or not they were motivated by hate is at the center of the debate. Gay-rights groups argue they are only asking for the same federal protections already enjoyed by people of faith, while conservative Christian organizations claim the legislation will infringe on their religious liberties.“Hate crime laws that include sexual orientation are a bad idea, because they elevate homosexuality to the same status as race and do nothing to prevent violent crimes,” said Mat Staver, founder of Liberty Counsel. “All crimes are motivated by hate. Hate crimes laws will not be used to punish the perpetrators but will be used to silence people of faith, religious groups, clergy and those who support traditional moral values.”Many Christian activists are concerned the hate crimes bill would penalize speech — specifically speech from the pulpit condemning homosexual behavior. This has led many conservatives to conclude the bill is a backdoor attempt to infringe upon the First Amendment rights of Christians who oppose gay rights.“The idea of being prosecuted for reading Scripture may seem delirious, but it is just as crazy to think it couldn’t happen,” said Catholic League President Bill Donohue. “The problem in general with hate crimes legislation is that it invites the government to probe way beyond motive. And in instances like this, it trespasses on free speech and religious liberty. This is a road no defender of liberty should ever want to go down.”Gay-rights advocates, however, say conservatives are using fear tactics to deny equal protections to a class of people that has historically been targeted by hate groups. They also argue Christian conservatives are being hypocritical because they publicly oppose hate crimes legislation, but presently benefit from a national hate crimes law that protects religion.A 1969 civil rights law “prohibits willful injury, intimidation, or interference or attempt to do so, by force or threat of force of any person because of race, color, religion or national origin” because that person is engaged in activities that include, but are not limited to, admission to public schools, application for employment or receiving any government benefits.U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., dismisses claims the bill would be used to silence Christians and argues the bill respects the First Amendment while, at the same time, protecting gays and lesbians.“The law already increases penalties for crimes motivated by hatred in several categories, so the absence of protection for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people is particularly egregious,” Mr. Frank said. “This bill remedies that gap in a responsible way, fully respectful of constitutional rights and I look forward to it being passed and signed by a president who is committed to ending discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.”The bill also contains language supporters say would prevent it from being construed to infringe upon First Amendment liberties. “Nothing in this act, or the amendments made by this act, shall be construed to prohibit any expressive conduct protected from legal prohibition by, or any activities protected by the free speech or free exercise clauses of, the First Amendment to the Constitution,” the bill reads.The 2007 bill ultimately failed, but with a supportive president in the White House and solid majorities in both Houses of Congress, supporters are optimistic the bill will become law.

Eartth Day 2009: The Going Green Edition

Certainly by now you've heard at least one "eco" buzz word. Do you say, NOT? Well, COP:24/7 is always at your beckon call to offer a "light bulb," that's a compact flo light bulb moment for your daily consumption. It's Earth Day 2009 and this forum just couldn't be left out of the celebration. So, it's a jammed packed post as we Go Green for this outing. Are you ready, well come on, let's go!( graphic courtesy of http://www.earthday.net/ created by Jan Martin Will)

The Green Home Front: I can't tell any of you about being green, if I'm not mentioning what's going on green in my own backyard. So, here's a snapshot of how I've made a serious attempt to deal with my carbon footprint.

1. I had my home weatherized with a new fangled insulation that's really eco friendly because it's made from, Viola, many of those pesky plastic bags that you get from retailers. I was amazed as the firm that did the installation demonstrated to me how the process works. They filled my attic crawl space with the updated product which does not have fiber glass components, meanwhile stating it's effectiveness. After the machine was hooked up, it only took about 45 minutes total.

2. I installed a new Flex Thermostat to keep a constant temp flow as well as levelized billing from my energy providers.

3.Replaced all bulbs with compact fluorescent. They cost a bit more, but are suppose to last longer.

4. Replaced my toilets with low the low flow types to help save more water.

5. Installed some outdoor solar lighting and will explore more solar options for additional landscaping.

6. Purchased some energy efficient appliances that have been designed with the environment in mind.

So, as you can see, I've been busy although I've always valued the environment and be conscious of my impact on it. I took the Carbon Footprint Quiz on the site and discovered that I still have lots of work to do. Try it and see how many "earth's" it will take to sustain your lifestyle. Whether you believe it or not, all of us are responsible for the Earth. So, what are you doing to reduce your carbon footprint. Got ideas, stories, doubts, then share it with us...

GREEN Action for U: You can take some green action by contacting your Representatives about the American Clean Energy and Security Act will create millions of new clean energy jobs, save consumers hundreds of billions of dollars in energy costs, enhance America’s energy independence, and cut global warming pollution. To meet these goals, the legislation has four titles:
A clean energy title that promotes renewable sources of energy, carbon capture and sequestration technologies, low-carbon fuels, clean electric vehicles, and the smart grid and electricity transmission;
An energy efficiency title that increases energy efficiency across all sectors of the economy, including buildings, appliances, transportation, and industry;
A global warming title that places limits on emissions of heat-trapping pollutants; and
A transitioning title that protects U.S. consumers and industry and promotes green jobs during the transition to a clean energy economy.
The Energy and Commerce Committee will complete consideration of the legislation by Memorial Day.
Call your member of Congress through the Capitol switchboard 202-224-3121 on Earth Day and ask them to support the Markey - Waxman climate bill.

In a COP/ 360 State of Mind

What a wonderful world we live in. It's a daily battle to naviagate, ebb and flow as well as dodge all that life has to throw at you. It's those side step moves that you hope will get through the day and then, you realize that you may have stepped in a pile of it. It's another day, living you life out loud and then some. Yet, some how I keep focused and determined to follow through with bringing you the latest updates, links, commentary, and some times just stuff for your thought processes. It's all here for the taking, so go ahead and enjoy some...

Views from Under the Rainbow:

Playing Safe and Staying Safe in the City

This forum has taken on many topics and issues that are not only close to my own heart but certainly should grab at your own. The recent death of Jimmy William, aka, Alexis Fairchild, was not only a lost of one of our own, but rather reminded me of how fleeting life can be while trying to be your authentic self. During my lifetime, I've been witness to a variety of violence that has befallen individuals in the GLBTQ community and the lackluster notice that they receive. After all, Jimmy's homicide notice was cited as another death stat with minor TV coverage, ultimately ending up on the back page of the DemGaz "B" section bottom column. His life, legacy and luminescence's snuffed out. All across the country there have been numerous stories about the life's of GLBTQ people who have been impacted by violence and hate. Most of them were not high profiled such as the Matthew Shepard case which put a face on the issue that has gone on to give birth to legislation, yet the spike in such incidents can't go ignored. Locally tacking of hate crimes or stats are undetermined I suspect most likely don't exists. Unfortunately this community has not been able to maintain the resources or mind trust necessary for such monitoring. Our area groups are strapped with just trying to do the best they can with what meager revenue streams they can muster. However, playing safe and staying safe is your personal responsibility. I fully understand that some elements of the lavender life has it edgy challenges and gritty scenes that may excite, yet all of these maneuvers must be handled with extreme caution. Especially those of you exploring those "KKFs" or finding your jollys in public places such as walking trails and parks. It's a brave new world of danger and it's best that you watch your back while kicking your way through. Here's some tips on avoiding a Hate Crime from www.gaylife.about.com/od/hatecrimes/a/hate_crime.htm Print them out for safe keeping. It may mean your life....

Wrap it Up Monday

I've got to face at least one fact. It's getting more difficult for me to continue to Burn the candle at both ends and this weekends full schedule of proves it to the fullest. I wasn't sure if I was going to make the cut when I made it to the Big Chair for this edition. However, duty calls and I've gotten my second wind to bring it all home. Let's do it together, shall we....

Rodeo Rockin: Well, they did it again and pulled off Rodeo in the Rock 2009, which has become known on the circuit as, "the best little rodeo," of the IGRA. Lou Rushing, D. Scott and the entire DSRA Team rallied and brought the rodeo stage into the station with a weekend filled with great competition and loads of fun. I took in the opening hoedown at Sidetracks (4.17.09) which was almost at capacity with visitors and locals. Throughout the evening I met cowboys from Arizona, Illinois, Oklahoma and Tennessee respectively. I was pleasantly please to know that many had a favorable impression of Little Rock and acknowledged the DSRA as great stop on the rodeo circuit. Despite some rainy skies, the competition as well as other activities went as planned including another hootenanny Saturday night (4.18.09) which featured area performers and boot scooting music for the attendees. President Lou stated that beverage sales were extremely brisk and estimated that at least $2500 was grossed not including entrance cover. The DSRA had move to a biannual rodeo due to production cost and revenue streams. "Unfortunately, our rodeo doesn't have the sponsorship that other larger rodeos get."said Lou. "It takes all we've got to do this in the best possible way. My phone rang off the hook trying." she concluded. In this forum I've made every attempt to be objective in my observations about DSRA and posted views from those who have their perceptions of the organization. In full disclosure, I've made appearances at the clubhouse in fundraising efforts. I am not a member but have supported and been welcomed by the membership. As a past event organizer, I can firmly state that it's simply damn hard to please everyone all the time. Especially in the GLBTQ community where ego's are plentiful, attitudes in full supply and critics, cynics and curmudgeons galore. I've been around for some time and trying to find common ground based on the theme "working together" is a concept that still hasn't been fully realized. The success of the rodeo can be measured by the effort of those who stepped to the plate and did the work to make it so. Are there Shortcomings? Sure. Oversights? probably. Personality clashes? You betcha. Overall, there's no event that is picture perfect but with proper assessment, reflection and transparency everything can be improved. But those improvements come from creative positive people who get committed early and stay the course to the end. In other words, don't come with big ideas and then decide to take your marbles and leave the game. Congrats DSRA on being the best little rodeo on the circuit and showing some state pride to boot.

Waves from the Blue Zone

What can you say, you've made it to another TGIF safe place for some possible R & R. Well, perhaps you will be laid back, but I'll be out and about in search of what's hot or what's not this weekend. It's all about keeping it funky fresh and laser focused from Arkansas only online daily updating experience, COP:24/7! Let's Go get em.....

Cowboy Up: It's Rodeo in the Rock, saddling up for another ride in Central Arkansas, 4.17 -4.19.09 at the Fairgrounds. The kick off hootenanny will take place at Sidetracks, tonight with doors opening at 5 and the fun starts after dark. The website HomoRodeo reports that at least 60 plus registrants for the event and I would hope that locals would join in with full support. Although there has been some miscues and possible internal wrangling, the event is open to all whom wish to participate. If you are staying in the host hotel (La Quinta on Broadway) they are offering a FREE shuttle to the area bars. I'm traveling to Chicago in a few weeks for my BWMT board meeting and the shuttle is $50 buckaroo's! ( more on that next week...) Even though a gay rodeo may not be your cup of tea, it's all about stepping out of your comfort zone. For more info click it to http://www.dsra.org/ Tell them you heard about it here first! This event should fall into the "HOT" slot if all goes well. I'll let you know next week...

She's Hot!: The Legendary Rupaul is showing up all over the planet, especially with her Drag Race reality sashay on the LOGO network, sponsored by Absoult Vodka products. Unfortunately, I only had time to watch one episode but checked out some online snippets for the cause. The winner was Bebe Zahara Benet (pictured left) a 28 year old stunning dragon from Yaounde, Cameroon, Africa. (talk about globalization?) Benet brings it to you from the catwalk to the performance spotlight but was not the odds on favorite to win. However, the "Super Model of the World," Ru felt that she made the cut and for winning the title, Bebee won $20,000, photo shoot with famed photog Greg Gorman for an eye wear campaign and bragging rights that you beat out over 1000 other applicants! According to Ru, Bebe will be the latest Drag Superstar in the Dragosphere. Since the show BZB has been touring the country from coast to coast. I checked out her website and discovered this college educated former male model from France is quite the looker in photos. You can check it out at, http://www.bebezaharabenet.com/ According to his site there is music in the works and most likely showing up for the 2nd season of Ru's Drag Race airing in early 2010. Not to be out done, Ru has release her latest music, "Champion" staying in the race theme, she's still pumping out strong beats and sassy phrases that he wrote for the CD. I might not want to spend my entire evening watching a drag smack down, but I do enjoy me some Rupaul music when I need a toe tapping experience. Ms. Ru has developed quite an empire with music, radio, TV, movies and appearances. Is she available for a Little Rock stop over? All I can say is, "you go girl!" Everything Ru can be found at http://www.rupaul.com/ and you can get downloads at I-tunes. As a side note, This years Rodeo in the Rock is also being sponsored by LOGO in cahoots with the International Gay Rodeo Association.

HOT on Flim: The Little Rock Film Festival group will roll out the Third Annual Little Rock Film Festival with a announcing reception 4.21.09. The festival is expanding to five days, May 13-17, featuring more than 70 films and 150 screenings in addition to educational workshops, film panels and receptions. Perhaps organizers of the Gay Film Fest should take some pointers from this fest if they are planning on putting anything together this year. I've attended GFF screenings in past years and let's just say there's much room for upgrades and improvements to say the least. Meanwhile the LRFF will showcase filmmakers from 15 countries around the world who will attend the festival to compete for prizes, including the first annual Golden Rocks, given to the best narrative and documentary films screened at the festival. Festival passes, which grant priority access to all screenings, will be on sale for $30 and can also be purchased online at www.littlerockfilmfestival.org
When: Tuesday, April 21, 2009 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. – Reception *$20 donation suggested at the door to benefit LRFF
Where: Clinton School of Public Service Sturgis Hall *Reserve your seats by emailing publicprograms@clintonschool.uasys.edu or calling 501.683.5239.

From the Not list: The 3rd Annual Queer Conference scheduled for this weekend is a no go as announced by e-blast from Jann Soriano of UCA's PRISM. Organizers cited " a lack of resources and time," in their decision to cancel. However, they have hopes for the conference later this year. Due to scheduling conflicts, I've not attended one these conferences but have supported them through announcements on this site. Yet, for the record, although never acknowledged or basically "thanked," I've never seen any results for all the effort put into it to make it happen. I've inquired in the past with no response. Therefore, as far as I'm concerned and most likely many of you, are thinking what's the purpose of this event. Furthermore what measurable outcomes does it achieve in producing it and if there's such a need why are there a lack of resources from year to year? Gosh dern it, there I go again, asking those hard questions from the sidelines. Oh well, I guess some body's got to do it and it might as well be me. Look for updates as they are announced.

Speaking Volumes in a YouthQuake

Just for the record, I do read your e-blast. Any and all of them that come my way and the comments, insights, rants, or dismissive attitudes that are cast my way in person as well. Each day that I produce this forum, as Executive Producer and shot caller, I demand of myself the best results possible in choosing updates, commentary, links, video or topical items that should stimulate your thoughts or passions.One such reader, "Ken" stated that he had "the utmost respect for me and what I do." Thanks, and understand that this platform is all about people like yourself and others. Recently, another reader cited myself as a "gatekeeper" of info for GLBTQ Arkansas. I paused on that description but in a afterthought realized that was a novel observation which also requires this forum to continue to asking the hard questions, seeking transparency where there is none, stepping to the issues that make us uncomfortable and of course, staying On Point! Dear readers, I know you are out there, reading us on your PC's, desktops, and laptops. Please share our site with your e-lists and make us your RSS feed or favorite. Your support is so important to our total success. Show some pride by visiting our online partners or gadgets and stay locked in to COP:24/7 Don't forget that the floor is always open and the lights too!!

COP:24/7 Special Edition

Speaking Volumes in a YouthQuake

Living your out loud can be exhilarating and for some disheartening or depressive. Fortunately, for myself, I didn't actually realize that I was suppose to be one way or another. I was being authentic, before being authentic was the latest self-help catch phrase. Simply, I was a young person striving to make my parents proud, meanwhile discovering the God given talents that I wanted to share with the world. Even though I suffered some teasing, bad mouthing and a bit of bullying, I was determined to keep it real no matter what. I knew early that I was different and as my "inner voice" quietly spoke volumes I did the best I could with external pressures. All the while embracing later amplified messages that it was O.K. to be just me. However, this is often not the case for many gay youth who find themselves isolated, ostracized, deprived and bullyed. This phenom is not new and has been raging on in school yards, neighborhoods and in households across the nation. I was again struck by the reporting of 11 year old CJ Walker-Hoover (pictured right) who hanged himself due to bullying from classmates who taunted him about possibly being gay. Gay youth who believe that suicide is the only relief for their desperation is simply heartbreaking and occurs at an alarming rate. According to GLSEN ( Gay,Lesbian, Straight, Education Network) two of the top three reasons students said their peers were most often bullied at school were actual or perceived sexual orientation and gender expression, as reported From Teasing to Torment: School Climate in America, a 2005 report by GLSEN and Harris Interactive. The top reason was physical appearance.
"As was the case with Carl, you do not have to identify as gay to be attacked with anti-LGBT language," Byard said. "From their earliest years on the school playground, students learn to use anti-LGBT language as the ultimate weapon to degrade their peers. In many cases, schools and teachers either ignore the behavior or don't know how to intervene."
Nearly 9 out of 10 LGBT youth (86.2%) reported being verbally harassed at school in the past year because of their sexual orientation, nearly half (44.1%) reported being physically harassed and about a quarter (22.1%) reported being physically assaulted, according to GLSEN�s 2007 National School Climate Survey of more than 6,000 LGBT students.
In most cases, the harassment is unreported. Nearly two-thirds of LGBT students (60.8%) who experience harassment or assault never reported the incident to the school. The most common reason given was that they did not believe anything would be done to address the situation. Of those who did report the incident, nearly a third (31.1%) said the school staff did nothing in response. While LGBT youth face extreme victimization, bullying in general is also a widespread problem. More than a third of middle and high school students (37%) said that bullying, name-calling or harassment is a somewhat or very serious problem at their school, according to From Teasing to Torment. Bullying is even more severe in middle school. Two-thirds of middle school students (65%) reported being assaulted or harassed in the previous year and only 41% said they felt very safe at school.
Carl's suicide comes about a year after eighth-grader Lawrence King was shot and killed by a fellow student in a California classroom, allegedly because he was gay.

Even as marriage equality has taken the spotlight, I'm concerned that gay youth issues are not receiving the max attention it deserves. As I sit among the young set in the area watering holds, I wonder how many are dealing with emotional baggage or displacement that will continue to manifest itself as they make their way to relationships and maturity. I've always been about dealing with the wholeness of a person. It's a fact that good health is all about body, soul and mind. Unfortunately there is no GLSEN chapter in Arkansas, but the Center for Artistic Revolution has a youth outreach effort to assist with the void. Also, there is a NPO start up called Central Arkansas Youth Center helmed by Micheal Lanning, Mr. Gay Arkansas USof A at Large.(www.myspace.com/central_arkansas_youth ) If you are a gay youth in need of assistance or your know of one such individual share this site and let them know that there's relief for the asking. Got stories, we would love to hear them and share them in our comments section.

Welcome to Thunderdome Wednesday

Ahy Matie, there's pirates on land and sea this Tax Day 2009 as a gathering storm is brewing just over the horizon. It's all so surreal. Pirates in 2009? Yes, it seems that this is the reality on the high seas as well as on Capital Hill where their are some well connected pirates who are raking in the earmark booty for those special projects for their part of world. And the taxpayers are seething about it all as they are wanting to know what the hell is going on. President Obama in my opinion has made every attempt to "keep it real." He's stated that even with those "glimmers of hope," he tempered the news with the keen fact that there are still hurdles to be crossed. With all that said, I'm still a bit cynical about it all. Especially when I opened a recent credit card bill from Home Depot where my interest rate was raised despite my basically on time record and notices from other companies( Bank of America, AMX) of increases due to "credit risk environment indicators." If you ask me, those pirates on the Somalia coast are not the only pirates in the game.

Tax Tea Party: If you want to express your outrage this Tax Day you can do so around 3:45 t0 6 p.m. on the Capital steps in Little Rock via the local version of the Tax Day Tea Parties that are happening around the nation today. According to the Tax Day website there are sessions planned all over the state. In case you've been out of the loop, the premise of these demonstrations are to call out lawmakers about the ballooning deficit and budget busting spending. Much of the ballyhoo surrounds the recent Obama Stimulus package as well as those bank bailouts that have temperatures rising including my own. There was some tax relief which resulted in me getting an additional $12. Well, it's not much but it's twelve more than I had, which I can now pay toward those other increases. Where's does it end? So if you are mad as hell and don't want to take it anymore? Here's your chance to let it all out for FREE.

When I need a break from the soap box, I opt to use content from one of my favorite sites, QueerCents. They have some really great insightful articles and items that I love sharing with you. Here's another timely item for your consumption after your finish your taxes.

COP:24/7 Special

Marriage Penalty: Same Sex Couples Still Ahead by Helen Maynard

There are many good reasons for us gay folks to fight for the right to marry — to be able to visit your loved one in a hospital, to collect Social Security if your partner dies, and just because we want to (gosh darnit!). But if the Federal government ever gets around to recognizing our relationships, gay couples with two solid incomes will end up paying a lot for the privilege.
Like much of the American way of life, the tax code was set up assuming that a family = two adults + 1.5 children + a house in the suburbs with a white picket fence. It further assumes that one of those adults stays home while the other goes out to bring home the bacon.
Fast forward 150 years, and only about half of Americans fit this scenario. Today, a couple of professionals each with $120,000 in taxable income would pay a total of $55,158 if they file as two singles. The same couple would owe $57,989 if they file as a married couple — a “marriage penalty” of $2831. It also bumps them into the next tax bracket, changing their marginal rate from 28% to 33%.
Let’s say the couple has a newborn infant. If they invest the tax difference, $2831, every year for 18 years at 5%, they will have $79,642 — a tidy sum to help pay for college expenses.
So, if you live in a state where you can’t file as a couple, and you fall into this scenario, enjoy your “gay savings.” Isn’t it nice that Uncle Sam charges us less in tax? You might consider donating some of this hidden windfall to HRC or Lambda Legal as a thank you for all the work they do on our behalf.
Of course, not all of us fall into the “two professional incomes” category. For families where one spouse stays home to care for kin and hearth or where one spouse has a particularly low income, they would benefit by being able to count their spouse as a dependent.
Tax rates can be found on p. 80 of the IRS 1040 instructions.

The Thought of the Day:

You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich. You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift. You cannot lift the wage earner up by pulling the wage payer down. You cannot further brotherhood of man by inciting class hatred. You cannot build character and courage by taking away men’s initiative and independence. You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.- Abraham Lincoln

A Tuesday Windup and Pitch

The Tax man cometh and I'm not scared about it. I've met him on this turf before and it's a stare down that I've become accustomed too every year before April 15. Each year GLBTQ groups launch their tax equity campaign citing all the inequities that face lavender citizens across the board. I fully understand where they are coming from. Not to mention an ever growing tax burdern that is engulfing us all as we dig, bail or root this nation back into some form of prosperity . Yet, I deal with it, with some gruff, but it's a necessary task that must be done not only the yearly tax reporting but the daily sales taxes, hamburger taxes, city taxes, or any other numerous tax grabs that can't be sidestepped. As they say, it's Taxes and dying that we must all do and there's no way around it. O.K. if you haven't filed then get her done. I'm completing it and checking it twice.

A COP:24/7 Special

Equal Taxes, Equal Rights:

Here's a 411 look at the Price of being Gay

Living in the land of the free and the brave can be costly and for many GLBTQ individuals and families the playing field isn't always level or equitable. Each year everyone does the 1040 Drill to get those taxes files either on time or the 4868 Tax extension shuffle. Just in case you didn't know SGL organizations have been promoting campaigns connecting the dots on how gays are taxed as citizens but treated like a "red headed step child," otherwise when other rights are concerned. Even my money guru hero, Suze Orman has commented on the fact that her amassed wealth maybe in question concerning her long term partner. It's truly something to think about when doing your estate planning involving your life mate and the impact of your decisions. As I scurry to complete my yearly task, I wanted share with you some interesting fast facts courtesy of the Human Rights Campaign and http://www.taxday2009.com/ for your consideration. On Tuesday, April 14 join HRC for a webchat at 2:00 p.m. EDT to answer questions on a wide range of financial issues affecting LGBT individuals and couples with tax experts and attorneys. You can submit your question prior to the online chat to webchat@hrc.org.

Federal Taxes: Married same-sex couples are not eligible to file federal taxes jointly. This becomes especially significant when the two partners’ incomes differ dramatically, such as in the case of a stay-at-home parent. See Melba Abreu's story at http://www.glad.org/doma/plaintiffs/

Social Security: LGBT people pay the same Social Security taxes, but do not have access to the spousal protections Social Security provides to heterosexual people, including the lump sum survivor benefit generally used for funeral expenses and access to a deceased spouse’s higher monthly benefit. I experience this first hand with the death of my LTC. I was not entitled to his death benefit for use in his burial nor any of his social security which he didn't have a chance to collect despite his lifetime payments into the system. For more info see Herb Burtis' story at http://www.glad.org/doma/plaintiffs/

Inheritance Rights: Current tax law allows a spouse to inherit an unlimited amount without incurring an estate tax. Same-sex couples are denied this right, as well as Tenancy by the Entirety, which ensures that debt inherited cannot be enforced against the couple’s jointly owned property. Do you and your partner have investment property or a business?

Family Health Care: Some employers extend health insurance benefits to same-sex couples, but this trend is undermined by the federal government’s refusal to recognize legal partners for Medicaid and other social services. Adding insult to injury, domestic partner benefits are taxed as additional compensation. See Mary & Dorene Bowe-Shulman's story at http://www.glad.org/doma/plaintiffs/

Employment Discrimination: In most states, you can be fired from a job simply for being gay, bi or trans. This is not just some abstract concept, it really happens. In these difficult economic times, LGBT people need a fair chance at keeping their employment. See http://www.unitedenda.org/ Don't forget that Arkansas is a Right to Work state, your employment can be considered at will. That's the "at will" of the employer.

Right to Travel: Most people in America can move and travel between states knowing that their legal rights will come with them. LGBT people cannot make that assumption. Is a better job worth losing family health insurance? If there's an accident during a family vacation will one partner be denied hospital visitation?

Immigration Equality: If a US citizen marries an opposite-sex person from a different country that person can sponsor their spouse for immigration purposes. That right is not available to same sex couples, where all too often LGBT people find themselves in heart wrenching dilemmas, forced to choose between their country and the person they love. See http://www.immigrationequality.org/

Open Military Service: The current Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy deprives LGBT Americans of their right to serve their country openly. A marine who has been loyal to her squadron for years can be dishonorably discharged after she is seen kissing her girlfriend goodbye. See http://www.sldn.org/

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Changing Channels

Just how many channels does it take to entertainment a person? I'm befuddled at the continuing outgrowth of cable channels devoted to almost anything and everything imaginable. Long before the economic mash up, I decided that all those mucho dineros that I was putting out for channels that I didn't either watch or have any interest was just too much. I mean really too much. So I called my local cable service, Comcast, asking to be released from the onslaught of one too many ESPN's, Horse racing Channel or other channels that were useless in my entertainment arsenal. Yet, after that move, I realized that even though I may have downsized, there were still more channels being developed for my consumption ONLINE! Oh Joy. Well, what can I say, we live in a digital world that's all about connecting to the masses and beyond. It's a tough business all around, nevertheless I'm in the game as well, attempting to make the connection to you dear reader on a daily basis. It's all about communicating info, updates, commentary, links and so much more as I do daily as Arkansas' only daily updating GLBTQ blog. So, if you tire of all those cable offerings, don't forget to keep COP:24/7 a click away in your favorites, use our RSS link or become a follower. We love having you aboard!!!

They Shoot Books Don't They?: I love books. Always have and most likely always will. Long before Oprah's book club or my knowledge of any so called Gay book club, I was the kid in the library in search of the latest read. All of this early reading unlocked the vault that held the holy grail of information that I so desperately wanted to understand. I've always voted for any millage that would build additional libraries or support them. I valued these book bastions because they not only comforted me but provided with access to worlds that have not only enriched me, but raised my level of consciousness. The public library was the first place where I got Internet access and the hunger to pursue it in my home. That's why I was so bemused by Amazon's quirky move to de-list any books of "adult" content from their rankings. Yet, even more surprising was much of this material dealt with "gay" content including titles such as Giovanni's Room from legendary literary giant James Baldwin or "Ruby Fruit Jungle" by Rita Mae Brown. Are you kidding me Amazon? For the record, I've purchased items from Amazon, including books and I'm not amused at this censorship tactic wrapped in marketing policy. The Internet has been buzzing with comments galore as end users are lashing out at the Internet behemoth. There's much talk about doing an economic embargo resulting in not spending those allegedly disposable greenbacks with them. At this post, it seems that Amazon's ill fated attempt to put such "adult" content on the back shelf will not happen. The company has announced that their was some sort of "glitch" in their system that caused the de-listing. Maybe it was the conficker worm that caused the hiccup but I believe that those bean counters decided that the flow of those rainbow dollars trumped the policy. I'll be watching these guys closely, but I encourage you to patronize your local independent book stores or consider our online partner, http://www.blackgaybooks.com/ . No matter how you do it, books can take you their!

Pride 2009 Theme: Your Rights, Our Rights, Human Rights

We're about 50 days out from GPW 09 and so far I've heard next to nothing about the Little Rock festival except a business card that was left for me announcing Sunday June 7, 2009. 12 noon, Rivermarket. That's it. There were elections last year, some rounds of fundraisers and promises of info from their website (http://www.littlerockcapitalpride.org/) or Twitter. However to date, apparently there's nothing to report or confirmed plans outlined. Not even a mention of this years national theme: Pride 2009: Your Rights, Our Rights, Human Rights. It's not mandatory that it be used but, if you don't have anything at all, then it's a "insert theme" here move. Meanwhile, there is a slate of officers and assigned committees which are all the makings of an organization. Including a "diversity committee" as a fresh approach to previous ethnic insensitivity's of organizers. Yet names and lackluster action does nothing to produce anything. I checked their Official My Space page, (last login 2.12.09) which post that LRCP is preparing for the "biggest pride Little Rock has ever seen. Own It." Oh really and exactly what would that be? In the past I've been soundly and roundly criticized for saying what other folks think but dare to speak. It's still a free country people. Don't get up in arms with lawmakers and then don't call out your own for their mediocrity or bullshit. I was labeled a "hater, dream killer, airing the community's dirty laundry and naysayer, all without any real proof or substantial illustrations. I had at least one reader demand that they be removed from my mailing list in protest of my views on asking the hard questions and seeking transparency. Well, here we are again and from where I stand, it's business as usual. Of course, there will be the question, "O.K. COP 24:7 what have you done to help the situation?" The answer: nothing because no one asked. It's just that simple. However, as I scanned the net on surrounding cities such as Memphis, Tulsa or Kansas City, MO, I noticed that they have their activities in play and advertised complete with updated websites filled with information. As for Central City the jury is out. I'll keeping searching for answers( the link to contact LRCP officers was Missing In Action) and when I find some, you'll be the first to know! If you find out, then share it with the rest of us...

Is this Thing ON..A Friday Edition

As I make my daily way in producing this forum, I've some times struck with the amount of time and commitment I've invested. Personally I'm extremely productive in the AM, while the rest of the world slumbers, I'm in the Big Chair tapping out whatever makes the cut for each edition. I've stated in the past, some individuals call it "that thing that you do," which is more than just a thing that I do as far as I'm concerned. CorneliusOnpoint has evolved over the years, while filling a niche that simply is missing in action within the GLBTQ community. I know that many of you are reading us, although to quietly for my taste, I know you are out their taking it all in with great interest. Unfortunately, tracking this info proves to be sketchy and incomplete as I try to assess with possible advertisers those important numbers that count. In the ad game, it's all about the "eyeballs" that could become potential end users which dictate who gets the ad dollars and who doesn't. This formula works not only in this instance, but should be considered with all outlets serving the SGL construct. I need every eyeball, earshot or "blinker" that I can muster to check with us daily and being Onpoint!! Now let the chips fall where they may....

Going to the Chapel: "Were going to the chapel and we're going to get married are lyrics that are most likely being hummed all across the land as this week those seeking "marriage equality" have seen new laws enacted in various state houses. Just this week Iowa, Vermont, and DC have taken the plunge, meanwhile, New York Governor Patterson is planning to re-introduce legislation, Colorado's Gov. Bill Ritter signs domestic partnership bill, Wisconsin has same-sex matters being discussed, and the debate rages on from coast to coast. All of this activity flying in the face of DOMA which passed in 1996 and the intense opposition that is going to get really ugly. Our own legislative showdown with Rep. King's DPR measure, seems to quelled at the moment, but I believe that his supporters are not done and will resurface in a more ardent manner. In this state, getting prepared and staying prepared has become the call of just a few and gathering massive outcry is like pulling teeth to say the least. Yet, it's always the next time that causes me pause plus makes me ponder, " have SGL people in Arkansas become so content and complacent that they would just rather go about their everyday existence without making a fuss? The floor is open and I'm ready to discuss it whenever you are...

Book Notes: I'm not sure the status of the local lavender book club, or if it still exist but I have a interesting title to suggest. It's "Sick N Tired of Waiting on Pharaoh! "an underground conversation about homosexuality in the bible" provides some simple answers to a perceived difficult topic for the LBGT/SGL community. The book provides tools for the reader enabling them to facilitate critical thinking discussions with their partner, friends and family even if they are not well-read in biblical studies.This book's focus is not about convincing heterosexuals to embrace, love, and support or change their position on homosexuality. This book is about homosexuals embracing, loving, supporting themselves and changing their negative perceptions of their sexuality. It is time we have these biblical conversations amongst ourselves where on earth we gather, in concert with the "down low" topics which has taken our community off message. It is unhealthy for us to villainies those who are still in the cave. It is healthy for us to never forget, many of us were in the cave at one time but Love guided us out to a healthy light. Love can draw you out of the cave;Knowledge can keep you from going back in. Get it from our online partner, www.blackgaybooksonline.com

Omnibus COP

Information is so vital in this ever changing world of the 24 hour news cycle. I spend lot's of time pursuing updates, verifications and digging deeper for understanding of numerous topics that I share with you dear reader. Why as you ask? Thanks for asking, because I want you to be enlightened, empowered and educated about issues that may impact you life. I don't "do this thing that I do," for a spin in Ego Tower, but rather as a service to the GLBTQ community and beyond. Ladies and Gentlemen, don't forget that "knowledge is power!" Now with all that said, let's go get some...

Info 101: JCCSI (Jefferson Comprehensive Care Systems) will be hosting a Benefits Education Training for consumers May 18, 1:30-4:30p.m., 2020 W.3rd street, 2nd floor conference room. This session is designed to educate consumers on the "basics" of accessing a variety of entitlement programs such as Social Security, Nutritional Assistance Programs and Workforce Assistance. The training is in response to the complexities that can become barriers to successfully obtaining these services. I have had personal experience with the Benefits game on behalf of several individuals that I have assisted. It can be a nightmare and wrought with redundancy as well as a massive paper trail. I was totally amused by a required Government document notifying claimants of the National Paperwork Reduction Act*, which touted the Gov.'s intention to reduce paper trails. Not so, I say. Because you will need all of that damn paper to make your case to those adjudicators ( a fancy word for paper pusher) who will ask you for these items perhaps more than once. I should know since an important case file was lost. Yes, my friends LOST, by a Government agency that had me file the information, get this, ONLINE! How do you lose a file submitted to your system was just mind boggling, not to mean frustrating to say the least. I demanded a Supervisor and quoted to them their own PRA which sorta sped up the process. Talk about navigating luck! Most likely in the JCCSI BET they will also address the numerous services that are now available Online. However, I was wondering just how many of those who may need this session are caught up in the Digital Divide without access to computers. I suggest that a session on accessing Prescription Assistance Programs would be extremely beneficial to the POZ community and anyone else trying to get meds. What a wicked web this benefits thingy can be. If you need more info call Dr. Smith at 870.535.3062 ext. 107 Deadline for registration is 5.08.09 Tell them you heard it here first!!

Channel Up: Arkansas Community Planning Group (ARCPG) is stepping into the 21st century with it's first test pilot of video conferencing for their April 10 meeting. According to an e-blast, the group's agenda will include assessments, agency reports and updates on HIV/AIDS related issues in the context of community planning. In their e-mail, organizers emphasize that this t medium is not new technology but don't explain why this approach hasn't been utilized previously. Especially, since I've watched so many presentations, meetings and believe it or not how my own orthopedic surgery would be done via web cast! O.K. I'm a blessed techy who has embraced new platforms, but hopefully this test will usher in a newer and greener era of folks meeting around the state. In the meantime, I hope that some of that stimulus cash will give Arkansas a boost in wiring this state with Broadband access. A few of you dear readers have expressed to me that some of our video/audio content can't be accessed because you reside in areas that are still dial-up landlocked or their are no DSL providers. Let's get this state wired for the future, now! Congrats and good luck! Need more info on the meeting, e-mail us for details!!!

UTR Fine Tunning: The Under the Rainbow radio show project is well underway with production meetings scheduled and time slot tentatively confirmed for Sunday nights at 9 p.m. The UTR group has decided to spotlight upcomming events, news, entertainment tidbits and music on KABF 88.3. To date, I have not heard a peep from any of you with ideas, concepts, show guest or anything. This show is all about community and the people whom populate it. Your voices and imput are sought and desired. So, what are you waiting for? Share it today. I'm waiting to hear from you before the show goes live later this month. Click it to our comment icon or www.kabf.org

Living Out Loud and in Living Color 2009

What can we say, " In Arkansas, always a bride's maid and never a damn bride!" Let the culture wars began, again. This week GLBTQ communities in Iowa, Vermont and District of Columbia have been embracing the realization that marriage equality is theirs for the taking. The news sources have been dissecting and pontificating all that comes with these new laws and recognitions. However, even though one talking head described this new access as a "sweep across the country..." Ah, I don't think so. There are still some 29 states that have constitutional bans on gay marriage, including the Natural State of Arkansas which instituted this restriction a few years ago. At this point, advocates and opponents are closing ranks most likely bracing for the next shoe to drop. Meanwhile, ears are pricked up as we await verbiage from President Obama who has much on the plate at this time. During all the chatter on this matter, I did hear one talking head that pondered the thought, " why haven't those individuals who are so oppose to gay marriage been proposing constitutional amendments to prohibit divorce among heterosexuals?" What a interesting thought, especially here in Arkansas, cited by the Total Divorce Blog as a state with one of the highest divorce rates. According to the Modesto Bee news publication, 27 percent of married couples living in the south or Midwest would most likely face divorce. Each of these regions tied for first place in the nation. How about them facts? Nevertheless, the beat goes on as well as the search for Mr.& Mrs. Right 4 Me continues for many of you. Happy hunting and let us know if you find success!

Eating Cornelius: I'm a foodie and that's no bull or should I say beets. As I've matured, not aged, I have aggressively moved to more healthy choices. Yet, when I dine out, that's when it gets tricky and I do mean quite tricky. With that in mind I make serious efforts to keep updated on the latest food trends and trying new recipes in my kitchen. I will be offering some recipes to the newly formatted BWMT newsletter and plan on posting many of them here. My taste run the gamut, and I do go off the radar sometimes, but basically I hover around more vegetables, grains, fruits and such. However, I was intrigued by a recent Men's Health article that talk about The 20 Unhealthiest Vegetarian Meals in America. This I had to read and boy am I glad that I did. Such places as Quiznos, IHOP and P.F. Changs made the cut and I've dined at all of them. What I found in the article was great info on how to eat at this eateries by swapping or substituting entrees for more low calorie focused meals. Also, if you are not in to the food scene deeply, it's those fancy names such as "fromaggio" which is another moniker for "LOTS of Cheese" can throw you off you diet game. After consuming such items, bread sticks, beverage and that dreaded dessert can simply by a waist buster before you know it. So, the next time you are dining out, feel free to ask your friendly waiter or look for those calorie counts that may be available that can be of assistance before you put it through the lips which may end up on the hip! Here's the link for your info and Happy Passover!http://www.menshealth.com/eatthis/20_Unhealthiest_Vegetarian_Meals_in_America/Olive_Garden_for_the_Vegetarian.php

Can We Talk: COP 24/7

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Let's Talk about SEX

As April reveals itself, everything starts blooming, buzzing and human hormones began rushing about, it's always a good time to mention that subject that no one, but everyone really want to talk about, SEX. What not a better time during, National STD Month! Yes, in case you didn't know and of course I feel privileged to share with you all the campaigns designed for the sexually inclined. Is that you? Why certainly. The above video clip is from the It's Your Sex Life campaign in cooperation with Kaiser Family Foundation, MTV and Planned Parenthood. I reviewed the mash up, finding it quite informative as well as frank about STD's in the era of HIV/AIDS. Believe it or not, many cases of STD's have also included diagnosis of HIV. Each of these are sexually transmitted diseases involving blood, "cum" and bodily fluids. I have not been tested in years, bascially because I've been in a committed relationship for a length of time, but this does not preclude STD's from being the "other partner" if you're significant other can't resist the itch to tip. So, if you've been sowing your oats or plan to do so, don't forget to Get Yourself Tested. The local chapter of PP are offering testing with prices ranging from $6.00 for Syphilis to $55 for Herpes. Make your M-F appointment at 501.801.0001 It's a small price to pay for your sexual health. Think about it.

Where's The Party: The 4th Annual Anniversary party for the north shores Sidetracks stepped off 4.4.09. First of all, I had to think has this place been here that long and the answer was, yeah. It's been four years and counting since the former Maggie Mae's morphed into Sidetracks, as an extended mature alternative. Affectionately, Sidetracks also has been referred to as the "wrinkle room," "bone yard," "bear den," old folks home," and "the Has-Been Exit." Yet, despite it all, the owners have stayed committed to offering an outlet as a community gathering spot for all. From my observations, it doesn't matter what age, life choice, ethnicity or preferences. As long as you've bring some respect, you'll get some. I've attended past parties, usually with with great anticipation as well as expectations. The venue was semi-busy with regulars and visitors, featuring some additional decorations accompanying the already busy decor of the bar. But to my surprise and perhaps a few others something was seriously missing. Where's the party? In the past this event has been a bit more celebratory complete with interesting buffet choices, erotic sheet cakes and merry making. Now, I know that we are in an economic downturn and perhaps there's some logical explanation, but this affair was about as exciting as a "rained out well digging." What's going on here? As an hospitality expert, I know that that putting on an event is time consuming, needs some Benjamin's to make it happen and a "HQIC" ( Head Queer in Charge). All this seemed to be sorta missing last evening, resulting in celebrating this milestone with non other than a (OMG) warm Champagne fountain! I don't know exactly what's happened or why, except that party force of "JD" has ceased and those special touches that set a ST event apart is noticeable. Attitudes aside and you can't have a den of rainbow hens and not have attitudes, the party is still suppose to go on! I pondered a few questions to see if I could sort some of it out. Is morale down? Well, not exactly. Has keeping the momentum become ho-hum in a everyday aspect? Perhaps. Customer service? Well, good help can be hard to find. O.K. Sidetracks, congrats on sticking it out for 4 years. It takes a lot to stay in business, meanwhile serving the finicky GLBTQ community that often doesn't share their appreciation. For the record, this forum has made an concerted effort to showcase all area venues and "keep it real" about what's really going on in these outlets. I've often stated that, "if we don't support them, perhaps they may not be around to support us."

Up Periscope!: A Monday Edition

It's back! Monday of another week in 2009. This year is really moving along at a smart clip and the news cycle is teeming with topics galore. I shouldn't have any problem with giving you more of what you've been looking for and more! So, let's not tarry... here we go!

Going to the Chapel: I got a e-blast fresh from Iowa activist heralding their Supreme Court victory concerning gay marriage or for the politically correct sect, "marriage equality," in the heartland. I was ever so amused with the gleefulness of that GLBTQ community, especially the slogan,"Corn fed and ready to Wed!" However, I'm sure that it ain't over because those anti-gay marriage forces are not going to take this sitting down in no body's corn field. According to the Internet buzz and hard traditional news outlets, this ruling has struck a nerve that is reverberating across the Midwest stating that most Iowans favored a "civil unions" instead of marriage rights, however a University of Iowa Hawkeye poll cited that 58.7 percent of those polled under 30 support gay marriage and three forths support some form of recognition of gay relationships. I was somewhat surprised (and "why", I must admit) when those opposed to the ruling rolled out the dogma that has been used here in the Natural State, pointing out that Iowa may become a "gay mecca for mariage." Sounds familiar doesn't it? Meanwhile, here in Arkansas, Rep. Bryan King's anti DPR measure, HB2176 continues to lurk in the shadows despite being shutdown in committee earlier in the sessions. Yet, the determined legislator re-introduced this effort last Friday and I've been trying to track it's status. The session is coming to a close this Thursday and I hope that this measure will finally be buried as well. We will keep you posted.

The Bouncing O: President Obama's World Tour continues in his 75th day as Leader of the Free World. The wall to wall coverage has been overwhelming to say the least. I've said it before and I'll say it again, perhaps there should just be a Presidential TV channel that covers nothing but whatever the president is doing 24/7 for those who just can't get enough of Presidential stuff. It seems that Mr. & Mrs. O are analyzed at every turn on almost any nuance or movement that they make. What's she's wearing? Did he really mean that we are not a Christian nation? Was their a hidden message in that hug she did? Why didn't he say this or that about XYZ? Golly, how can you actually conduct anything with folks tripping over themselves to dissect all verbiage or slight of hand move. It's got to be a tough gig, when the spotlight is almost everywhere except the nearest toilet. So far, I believe that President Obama has stood and delivered exactly what the world was waiting for from the next U.S. administration. He has outreached and put our allies on notices that the fractured practices of the last head of state have been assessed and a new mission set in motion. Bravo, Obama! Stay strong because this party is just getting started.

Where's the Party: The 4th Anniversary of Sidetracks was held Saturday night and my face was in the place. In our next post, I'll give you the who, what, why and what not. Stay tuned, you will not want to miss this one...

Friday City Lights

The first Friday step off to a April Weekend is at hand and I'm ready. It's been a steady week with culling news items, sifting through e-mails, researching, updating, and tapping things out for a final cut. Boy this is work and how! If you think it's not, then you are seriously mistaken my friends. Yet, I keep at it and stay in the Big Chair bringing you that latest info for your consumption and contemplation. It's COP:24/7, bringing it to you, front and center....

Diversity Eureka: It's back, the Spring Diversity in Eureka this weekend in the NWA hamlet of the DPR. It's the usual mash up of sipping and shopping events which plays host to a variety of individuals from the Mid-South. I've attended this event in the past and found it a modest good time for a weekend. I had expectations of a "circuit party" atmosphere but for my taste got a lot less. There are various activities covering much ground, ranging from political displays such as the mass "kiss off," in the Basin park, gallery strolling and of course partying. From my vantage point, despite the diverse mix of folks, as I scanned the landscape, I noticed the lack of people of color. What's up with that? If you want to have a quick getaway and see a few new faces then check it out. For the most part, everyone is quite accommodating and welcoming all over town. I had no problems whatsoever dropping into shops that were not in the downtown area. Speaking of downtown Eureka, it's all about the parking or should I say the shortage of it. Their is a Limo service available with a $5.00 one way charge. It's practical and could save you from a DUI. If you do, send us you observations, pictures, videos or shout outs.

Slaves to Fashion: I'm a fashion maven at heart and always ready for the next opportunity to discover that next fashion find. However, even though I understand that to each his own, I'm perplexed at the the "low ride, baggy underwear" trend that at times is in just poor taste or simply sloppy. Yeah I know that hip hop has birthed numerous fashion waves, but I've seen many versions of this look and I still just cant' get with it. Also to my surprise, I've noticed that among some gay youth this craze has also become a statement. So I thought that I would try this get up, to see just how does this work. First off, I couldn't get use to my pants hanging from under my ass. You see, when my pants are this low, I'm usually getting undressed, going to the toilet or about to get busy. I tried to tighten my belt more to see if they would stay, but I found myself grabbing and holding them in place. During this exercise I kept thinking, how is someone suppose to walk like this without worrying about everything. I moved things around, got a different belt, adjusted and to my disgust, I came to the conclusion that this is just about the most silliest way to wear pants. As my partner looked on in the most puzzled way and I looked in the mirror, I kept wondering, WHY? What's the purpose? What does this mean? And why is this so popular with the younger set. Unfortunately, I didn't take any pictures of me in this attire, even though they would have been pretty funny, I rather not have that seen publicly. O.K. urban fashionista, if you really want to make this statement, then be about it, but I think I'll stay with the classic "me" that works just fine, thank you. In the meantime, pull up your pants people!

Everything is Everything: The Thursday Edition

"Everything is Everything", is a catchy phrase that a national radio show host uses when describing he's feeling about a variety of subjects. That feeling can go in many directions and as most of you know this forum is all about updates, commentary, your voices, observations and links to the most current information. Hey, it's no waiting in Aisle 1...step right up!

It ain't over, till it's over: Just as I predicted, Rep. Bryan King and crew just won't take "No" for an answer. He's re-introducing his HB2176, attempting to thwarted Eureka Springs' Domestic Partner Registry. He and his cadre of supporters have trumped up their logic as to why this non-official recognition for couples should not be allowed using the state's Marriage Amendment as a base. Therefore, the battle cry has gone out for individuals to contact their Representatives, committee members and King himself. The matter goes pops up again 4.2.09 and will be heard as this posting appears. We will keep you updated.

Rodeo in the Rock 09: After some miscommunication and snafus, the DSRA has announced that the host hotel, La Quinta Inn & Suites (617 S. Broadway) has extended it's deadline to April 8 for discounted reservations. According to Lou Rushing, this extension was needed to accommodate those who may have previously incurred inaccurate information. In a 3.16.09 e-blast sent by Rodeo Director, D. Scott which ed thanked supporters, but revealed that the effort was still facing a $3,000.00 shortfall. Yet organizers were hopeful that the funds would be acquired before the kick off, April, 17. My cowboy hat's off to these diligent workers, because I simply don't know how they continue to pull these events off with such slim margins. I thought that having this event bi-annually was too make this event more financially manageable consequently creating a more sustainable rodeo. However, I can't say much since this forum missed the deadline for Ad sponsorship but we've been supportive in other fundraising streams. I've seen some brochures from other ventures from around the country and I have been bold over at the tremendous ad base or supporters that these festival and rodeos acquire, especially the national outlets such as Comcast. Hey here's an idea, contact Comcast and ask them for some in-kind support or maybe the rodeo could be on one of those Public Access channels? I realize that it takes "people" power to get advertisers and coordinate all that goes in to it. But it seems that with every event or anything that's done, it's like pulling teeth to get folks to participate or get motivated. Gosh, wouldn't it be great if so many volunteers showed up that there were not enough work for them to do. Oh well, let's get back to the stone cold reality of the situation and just get it done. For more info hit the DSRA website( we've got a link) and of course stay locked in to COP:24/7.

Talking Out Loud: There may be a economic downturn or whatever, but it seems that there's still some lavender dollars to go around. I got an tip that former front man for Easy Street, M. Henderson is floating conversation that he will return to the nightlife with a new venture named, "Speak Easy" in the old The Factory space vacated a while back. Now, I have not spoken with Mr. H personally, this time, but I will press him on this next outing. The problem with posting these smoke signals, is the fact that for some reason, individuals don't want to be on the record with me about what they are saying. So,they "talk out loud" but when ask for confirmation with verification, then the cat gets their tongues. In other venue news, Club Good Times is doing a make over with a patio access from the club itself. I watched as some of the work has been taking place with a most likely completion date set to debut for their Black Pride week activities later this year. I've mentioned that the nightspot continues to thrive with it's upgrades in air conditioning and additional security. Yet I still continue to hear about impromptu violence and disturbances from patrons and passing motorist upon closing. In the Capitol View area, there are still plans for the "STAR" club in the old Italian Couple space. Can this city do a few more places where you keep seeing the same faces talking about the same things? I don't know. But, as more details come forth, I will bring it to you here first. If you get the inside skinny before I do, feel free to share it. I'm all ears...

April Fools and More...

My partner and myself we did it. Yes, that Earth hour last weekend (3.28.09) mash up last weekend that had us running around the house trying to make sure we were complying with turning off electrical stuff and things. I was moving by the plan, including making the exception to viewing CNN while we were plunged in to darkness. I kept thinking as we both moved to candle light, we're glad that we are making a statement with the rest of the world, but is this really working? Well, the reports announced that many across this planet participated and I'm sure glad that we made the effort to be apart of helping making a statement about conserving energy own this spinning top called Earth. In the meantime, I thought it would be good for another round of interesting writing from my online connection, Queercents. How about me saving some brain cells? Anyway, here's a great article from writer, Amy entitled, The 5 R's of Basic Frugality. Read it and think about it. If you've got words, then share them with us via our comment section. I'd love to hear from you!

Everyone’s heard of the three R’s in relation to the environment - reduce, reuse, and recycle. I actually think they are missing two other R’s that are very important to not only the environment by also your pocketbook.
It should be Reduce, Reuse, Recycle, Repair, and Restore. Have you heard someone say, or said to yourself, ”They don’t make them like they used to.” Well, here is your answer to holding on to those well-made items and saving some money in the process.
Reduce – First start out by going through your stuff getting rid of the clutter that you don’t or won’t use. However, don’t throw it out, give it away to friends or family, take to a church yard sale, post it for free online or a few dollars on Craigslist. Then, make sure you make a conscious effort to limit what you bring new into the house.
In our home, my partner loves to collect hats, but we have agreed on a rule that when one is brought into the house, one must go. This allows us to keep the ones we truly like and use, we have quality over quantity.
Recycle – This picks up where reducing leaves off, trying to get more stuff to other people who need it than to the landfill. This would include finding places to give away or sell your items.
I think the hardest items to recycle are electronics. At Earth911 I am able to recycle those digital cameras and cell phones to possible further their life. Then for the oddball item like prescription glasses, packing peanuts or shoes - The goodhuman has a list.
Reuse – It all comes down to extending the life of an item, whether it is used longer for the same thing or used longer in different ways. One way is wearing clothes a little longer to cut down on the number of loads of laundry. Washing out a bread sack and using it to put a lunch in for work. May be even washing out that same sandwich bag, letting it dry and using that again for the next weeks worth of lunches so you don’t have to buy a lunch bag.
Reusing an item can be creative as well- coffee grounds could be used to clean pots and pans, use as mulch in your garden and a way to repel ants, or dye fabric with them.
Repair – Instead of going out to look for a coffee table brand new at the store, try some creative ways of repairing a broken one or personalizing an older, stained coffee table. Who cares what friends say, you have just saved yourself money and added more character to your home.
Restore – When you are saving money, you want the best for as little as possible. Since you shop at yard sales and flea markets to find those antique gems that are made well, you are going to bring home some stuff that doesn’t look as good as it should.
We saved a much-needed dresser from the garbage truck; even though it had seen better days it was well crafted and a solid investment. We brought it home, sanded it down, painted it and put on some simple drawer knobs. Viola! Like new again and people who see it would never know where we got it unless we told them. Plus I have the added pride of knowing that I saved money and that the project was done with my own two hands.
The 5 R’s of basic frugality, once mastered put you on a solid foundation for frugal living. Saving money doesn’t mean you have to be chintzy, but with patient, creative and holding onto something with quality, you keep your money.
If you would like further information about other frugal living ideas, Green Panda Treehouse hosts a catalog of ideas from other frugal thinkers over at the 167th Festival of Frugality.