Thursday, July 16, 2009

Thursday's Fast and Furious in Cyberland...

In the twinkling of an eye, it's another fast and furious romp through cyberspace with all of you in tow. Often I get so many items on the radar that need attention that expounding on them is always feasible in this format. Also, I've discerned that in this "Blink" society, offering to much info in long form doesn't meet the expectations of those who use this forum as an entertainment, information, enlightening or empowering source. However, some outings I digress and get a little long winded in providing more in depth insights or commentary. This forum doesn't it's hell of a best to meet or exceed your expectations as Arkansas' only daily updating portal for the LGBTQ community and beyond. Let's step off...

BLK Pride in the City: In a previous posting I cited that there seemed to be not one but sorta two Black Prides taking place in Central City. Yet, the two apparently don't have much in common, are distant cousins or something to that affect. The official Black Pride events from Little Black Pride have been circulating on this site and across various platforms. They include the July 24, Meet & Greet at La Quinta Medical Center Hotel, 901 Fair Park, a pair of " Swag" parties at 801 Markham and a FREE Luncheon, Saturday July 25 at THUC, 400 W. 13th street. To date I've not been able to confirm exactly what the agenda entails for the other pride event slated for this weekend at Club Good Times. Signage outside the venue hails a "beer special," and I would speculate probably one of those entirely too long shows that starts in the wee hours of the morn. Ultimately, in my opinion why the two instead of "one" great off the chain weekend uniting all people in celebration of Afro-American Culture and spirit? Brother and Sisters, I'm open for any and all combacks. No matter, it's all going down this weekend and next weekend for your pleasure. For more information: srogers@littlerockblackpride.com or 501-398-0307

COP on Facebook: O.K. this forum went ahead and done it again. The social networking mania seems to be the place to be so we jumped in with both feet. TA-DAH!, we are now doing Facebook as another means to outreach to a greater audience. Is Twitter far behind? Well, time will tell. After all, I've got to sleep at least two hours a day don't ya think. In the meantime, the "friends" have been falling into place and if you have an account let's go for the hook up. Yes, we are still knocking it down on Myspace and damn it right here at COP 24/7!




P-FLAG Rising: The Center for Artistic Revolution is spearheading a movement to facilitate the organizing of an area Parent & Friends of Lesbian and Gays group. Commonly known as P-FLAG, this group consist of those who are dealing with a plethora of issues surrounding SGL members of families or extended families. If you are interested in volunteering or know individuals in search of these services call them at 501.244.9690 or hit em up at ArtchangesU@yahoo.com. Tell em you heard it here...

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Doing The Alphabet Soup Monte in 09

Is it soup yet? It's the Alphabet Soup Monte where we deconstruct the LGBTQIA moniker in search of meaning. Sometimes I'm not sure exactly how we are mixing it up these days due to the fact that it seemst that more people are joining the fold as we try to find, define or refine who or how we address the broadness lavender culture.

Soup Mix-Mash:
What's in a Name?

At first I hadn't really noticed but the word "gay" has many more roses on the bloom in the form of additional elements that have expanded or perhaps exploded the term with a range of diverse inclusion. Traditionally, I've used the form, "GLBT," I've been so corrected with "LGBT," and I thought that this sufficiently encompassed everyone. I have further learned that the "G" word can be deemed offensive by some whom feel that it renders them invisible as the term has been fortified as describing "White" males. As I try to stay on the cutting edge, I had noticed that the term "SGL"( Same Gender Loving) has become the mark within the African American culture, which has had a mixed bag of identity concerns within gay culture. However, I've come to understand that the terminology goes further and deeper that I ever imagined. The letter "T" although delegated to Trans persons, now also has a dual Native American meaning of "Two Spirit." This term has been apart of the Native American culture for persons claiming to be of both sexes or genders. Among many tribes these people are teachers, healers or spiritual leaders seen in the highest esteem. To my surprise, I never heard this term used by a former love interest named, Indio, who was a Cherokee. Meanwhile, I've also discovered that the "Q" now has morphed into a A & B meaning as "Queer" and "Questioning" which embraces those with a more radical bent on their non binary existence, while subsequently, a questioning individual has not completely come to terms with their sexuality overall. Then there's "I" which denotes those of the "intersex" sect which I was totally intrigued by this condition in which the individual often has ambiguous genitalia or one whose sexual development doesn't match the sex assigned at birth. This is quite fascinating info and more can be understood at the Intersex Society of North America website. To round out the this soup lesson, we find the letter "A" which has a possible triple meaning. Are you ready? First up, Ally, a possible supportive heterosexual, secondly, Asexual, a person without sexual organs or in a non participative mode, and finally, Affectional Orientation, referring to variations of emotional and sexual attraction not limited to same sex relationships. Well, as you can see there's much more going on in the rainbow mix than you think. When we proclaim that diversity as a rallying call, we'd better really mean it.

Asian Study Takes Off: the research team conducting an empirical study examining attitudes, feelings, and experiences associated with being an Asian American who experiences attraction to members of the same sex has began seeking participants. Historically,researchers have neglected the lives of Asian American gay, lesbian, and bisexual persons, and very little research has looked specifically at attitudes, feelings, and experiences that sexual minority persons have based on their race and sexual orientation. We sincerely invite you to participate in this survey to help us learn more about the Asian American sexual minority persons in our communities! To be eligible for this study, you must be an Asian/Asian American who is at least 18 years old, has experienced same-sex attraction, and currently resides in the United States. The survey is anonymous, and takes about 30 minutes to complete. As an incentive to participate, all participants will be given the chance to entera raffle awarding $100 Amazon.com gift certificate to one randomly selected person.


For those interested in participating inthis study, click on the following hypertext link (or cut and paste it into your browser) http://d1599.psysurvey.com/


This will take you to the consent form and questionnaire. It's being presented by Dawn and Mi Ra Dawn M. Szymanski, Ph.D., University of Tennessee Mi Ra Sung, M. A, University of Tennessee.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

The Dollars and Sense Edition

Wow! This edition is all about dealing with you dear readers and that mysterious disposable income that most of the GLBTQ community is supposed to be able to wheel and deal without regard. I say NOT. Yes, there are individuals whom have done well for themselves, a few who have been excellent financial stewards, then those who are in the land of Grand Delusions and ultimately the majority of us who are making a living and keep on ticking, despite any economic downturns. It's all about the Benjamin's and who doesn't really know that. If not then you may need to read on in this Dollar and Sense outing.




The "T" Word: Ladies and Gentlemen, it's finally official or more official. I'm not sure exactly which, but the federal deficit has topped the 1 TRILLION DOLLAR mark. What!? I remember when I was much younger and that was only a few years back, that we spoke of "gazillion billion dollars." However, that thought process was never steeped in Economics 101 but now is an actual reality. The real kicker here, is that each of us, yes that's YOU and ME supposedly has a stake in this ball buster. According to the U.S. National Debt Clock, as of July14 my share, as well as, your share of the debt has reached a whopping $37,616.47! Holy Andrew Jackson! Only during his Presidency did this nation actually pay off it's national debt. Thusly, that shaky number was reached by dividing the number of U.S.citizens ( if only we knew who were really citizens and who's not?) of approximately 306,551,814 Million folks. Now, I know all this is a bit much to take, but steady yourself because you can actually find a "silver lining" in this matter by either investing for the future with Treasury Notes, Treasury Inflated Protected Securities, or my weapon of choice, Series Saving Bonds. No matter what you do, the new "IT" thing is all about saving as much as you can. As a disclaimer, I'm no financial whiz, however, it doesn't hurt to be an informed saver with the help of a qualified advisor such as my Edward Jones guru. In the meantime, you can actually make a "contribution" to the debt, via the Bureau of Public Debt, P.O. Box 2128, Parkersburg, WV, 26106. or hit the web for more info at: www.treasurydirect.gov Money makes the World go round!!!


QueerCents: I'm always musing on about this site and I can say that if you haven't had a chance to check it out, then you should. If not, I'm always sourcing materials from them to offer my readers another, "teachable moment." Here's another in a VLOG featuring finance vlogger, Clint, who makes it seem so simple to save, budget as well as, finding a quality of life on less.





Monday, July 13, 2009

Periscope Up Monday

It's the third Quarter of 2009 and I keep asking "my, my how time fly's" when you are burning the candle at both ends. Yes my readers, just when I did a down shift, the daily grind said "no way," it's a up shift that this machine needs. And away I went to the Big Chair for more updates, observations, spins, and just plain old stuff from the GLBTQ community and beyond. Here we go...


FED UP Update: Last week the FUQ group had a sorta meet and greet that I unfortunately wasn't able to attend. To date I'm still sorting through exactly what transpired before I post concerning the matter. However, as usual, one new subscriber alerted me that juxtaposed to those "positions" taken by the group regarding Mr. Jones allowing HIV/AIDS materials in his businesses, supposedly there's been a mindset change on this front. Allegedly Jones' has "OK'd" a ASO ( AIDS Service Organization) to begin some type of work at his establishment beginning this Friday. The source didn't exactly detail what ASO, exactly what "work" would be in place or which business would host this group. Stay tuned...

BarWatch: Out of all the material that I review to make the cut for this forum, news from the Bar Scene just keeps coming faster than a drag quick change. Even as the entertainment sector of the community continues to morph, I was broadsided at the news that you can hear echos at UBU. Echo's you say? Yes, apparently in the last few weeks, the tank has been empty as in "No, NaNa, Zero, Zilch, NO one coming through the door patrons. Say What? It's all about that "ebbing and flowing fickleness" of this community that I've been going on about in this forum. Of course, this slight perhaps defection might be temporary, yet in this "Blink" state of mind that exist, it takes everything you've got to keep em coming back, again and again. This can't more disconcerting with the upcoming Miss UBU scheduled for July 17. Hopefully, owners will be able to woo the dire hearts back into the fold, meanwhile I'll have to get back by soon as well! Good luck until then...

Crowns-R-US: In case you didn't realize, we are in the home stretch of Crowns-R-Us with those seeking the state title, Miss Gay Arkansas, set for August 14-16,2009, featuring Stephanie Richards, MGA 08 and Victoria Depaula, Miss Gay America 2009. Each hopeful has deemed this experience as their "quest, journey, campaign and all other manner of describing the ascent in their benefit announcement e-blast. Obviously, it seems that the DSRA clubhouse has been "ground zero" for the cash dashes with Zia D'Yor a few weeks back, upcoming Sasha, July 25 and Diamond Rose, Aug. 1. Each vying for the $2000.00 winner's or $1500.00 1st alternate prize pack from the pageant. Of course, those in pursuit of the titles are not the only one in a cash dash. The pageant itself has sponsorships available ranging from being a mere "friend" for $1 to Bronze for $50 all the way to Platinum for $750. With each level you get more access including being invited to the MGA gala. Sounds like a business plan to me. It's all going down at the BackStreet/Discovery complex and you can get "everything pageant" at the http://www.missgayarkansas.com/ website, including online table reservations and host hotel info.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Free Falling Friday

What a week it's been as the world continued to turn, churn and upchuck all around us. It's those daily doses of can life get more stranger or how many more bites from the "reality apple," can one take seems to become almost unbearable. However, no matter how weird, wacky or wondrous the news comes, our consumption is never ending and hopefully this forum will continue to fill your wet appetite for what's really going on in LGBTQ circles and beyond. This outing we are in a free fall...are your ready to take the dive with us. Let's go for it...

FED Up! 101: I've heard from a blessed few of you concerning my FED Up post in which I spoke about my own frustrations and "it's complicated" life situations that have personally stirred me. Let's face it, we all have them individually as well as collectively as life would have it so. Unfortunately, I was unable to attend the meet and greet that was scheduled by the FUQ group in Mac Arthur park earlier this week. It's obvious that there's one of me and many of you having events, meetings, soirees, benefit shows and mash up's that I just always can't put my face in the place. Yet, as time allows and distilled info comes my way, I make every attempt to put it out there for contemplation, more dialogue and certainly clarification. Therefore, I was puzzled that at least as of post time, I didn't see an update on their website on the results of the meeting or possible resolutions. Also, there's been a lack of chatter that I had anticipated or those all important opinions that get bounced around. So, where is all this going? I'll have to get back to you. We're still checking....

Whitney Rises: What can you say, you just can't keep a good diva down. No sireee, it's just not to be and the rewind, re-launch or re-what have you of Whitney Houston is just over the horizon. Even as the MJJ after burn continues to dominate the talk machinery, Houston's 7th studio album on Arista, "I Look to YOU", is slated to drop September 1 and COP:24/7 is dropping her first single, "I didn't know my own Strength." Ms. H. and her producers are coming out the gate in slow motion with Whitney balladeering her way back to the spotlight. It's reminiscence of her early work, "Run to you," or "I have nothing," but I don't feel the burn of those early show stopping numbers in this outing. Yes, I like it, plus the more I personally listen to it, it grows on me. Perhaps Whitney is giving off lowered expectations as a smoke screen then hits us from the blind side with what we've come to expect from this songstress. In the meantime, check it out, let me know what you think. I have no doubt that this one will be the next "crown" number if the boys can learn it in time. To keep our "swag" funky fresh, this widget will be added to our onpoint sidebar to show case our future choices.






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Thursday, July 09, 2009

COP In A Wide Angle

This forum was designed as a cyber space from everything from dialogue to delusion. Often the tasks seems large or overwhelming, but I'm continuing to learn that "this thing that I do," is reaching many of you in all corners of this state. From Witter in the Northwest to Star City to the south, CorneliusOnpoint has promoted itself as the "online connection" and we will forge ahead with more of what you are looking for. Including asking the "hard questions or calling it as we see it," in our efforts in "keeping it real," for the GLBTQ community and beyond. It gets hot in here some days, but sometimes that's what it takes to stay on point! We love you and thanks for your support.

Who's Minding the Store?: As the national debate heats up about America's health care patient, I'm still "vaclemped" at what appears to be the ongoing guessing game of local HIV/ AIDS administrators at ADH( Arkansas Department of Health) and AAF( Arkansas AIDS Foundation). I've seen numerous and I do mean countless e-blast, inquires, observations and personal stories concerning the rubrics cube of answers a possible client or even clients themselves receive when accessing services. The $50,000 question is simply, "if we can't get competence, how about some basic common sense?" There have been so many questions over the years, with many muddled, foggy, iffy, nebulous and downright confusing answers from those charged with getting it right or trying to make it right for end users. The latest situation involves whether Ryan White funds allow for client "transportation" to appointments and to my wonder as stated by local activist BC who said that "it was not known what was in the budget..." Say What? No one knows what dollars are in the operation budget for transporting needy clients, therefore, due to their unsure nature, clients get to spin the big wheel of service probability. In other words, you might get some transportation or you may not. Who knows? Well, let's start asking, "Who's Minding the Store!!" and here's who you can start with: Arkansas AIDS Foundation, mcannon@araidsfoundation.org and Arkansas Department of Health, mark.morehead@arkansas.gov tiyanika.keller@arkansas.gov and let them know your comments.
Health Care for All: If you are concerned about health care in America, and I can't imagine not one person who shouldn't be aware of what's really going on in the system because eventually you may have to access it some day. Listen up and take notice, the U. S. Congress is begining to dialouge and everyone's ear and voice is going to be needed in hopefuly finding the right mix. Enter, Sen. Blanche Lincoln with an editoral for your consideration. It's being reprinted here without editing. Don't forget it's all about health care for all...


Health care for All By Sen. Blanche Lincoln


Special to the Democrat-Gazette
Since I first came to public office, I have worked to provide access to stable, affordable and quality health care for all Arkansans. Now I believe that the majority of Congress is finally willing to act.
For the past 18 months, I have worked with my colleagues in the Senate Finance Committee to craft a responsible and meaningful health care reform proposal. As part of the process, I have continuously traveled our state and heard from thousands of Arkansans about how our country's health care crisis has taken a toll on their lives.
A Malvern small-business owner recently told me that he is giving up his 17-year-old business because he can no longer afford his rising health care insurance premiums. His wife and his daughter each has a pre-existing medical condition, and he feels pressure to find a new job that provides affordable, employer-sponsored coverage for his family.
A woman from Ward explained to me that she is not yet eligible for Medicare. After being laid off from her job and exhausting her COBRA benefits, she developed a serious medical condition that required the use of her entire life savings and pension. Faced with bankruptcy and disability, she expects to confront poverty in her old age after a lifetime of working.Similar stories of hardship and frustration are being played out for thousands more Arkansas working families under the current health care system.
Arkansans with health care coverage have seen their premiums rise more rapidly than their wages. According to the nonpartisan organization Families USA, annual premiums for family health coverage provided through work increased by almost 66 percent between 2000 and 2007. Yet Arkansas workers' median earnings increased by only 11.6 percent in the same period. In addition, employers of small and large businesses are often faced with the difficult choice between health care coverage and higher wages for their employees. All of these individuals fear that they may lose their health care coverage if we do not take action to rein in costs.
There also are few treatment options for the half-million uninsured Arkansans, whose number includes 66,000 children. Many resort to the most expensive care setting, their local emergency room. In many cases, a simple yet untreated condition spirals into a health crisis because timely and affordable primary care is not available to the uninsured. If we do not act, these costs will continue to be passed ononto taxpayers and those who are already insured. Right now, the average Arkansas family pays an extra $1,500 per year to cover costs for the uninsured.
Arkansans deserve better.
Health care reform must build upon what works and improve inefficiencies. Individuals should be able to choose from a range of quality health insurance plans. Options should include private plans as well as a quality, affordable public plan or non-profit plan that can accomplish the same goals as those of a public plan.
Coverage alone does not result in access. We must invest in our nation's health care infrastructure--its providers, technologies and facilities--especially in rural America where health care services and providers are fewer and farther between. We also must deliver health care more efficiently and create incentives that promote high-quality outcomes for patients instead of simply encouraging more provider visits and services.
Above all, we must bring stability to health care. Stable health care coverage will protect Arkansans during tough times and ensure that they do not lose insurance when they get sick. Stable costs will mean that Arkansans will not be subject to large premium increases each year that erode their paychecks. Stable quality of care will ensure that Arkansans have dependable treatment options so they can see a doctor of their choice when they need care.
As we work to reform health care, we must be responsible and pay for reform without adding to the deficit and increasing taxes on hard-working Arkansans.
Unfortunately, opponents of reform, who have no real plan for improving health care, are already using the tired arguments of the past. They say that Congress is trying to create "more government" or a "Washington takeover" of health care, which will raise your taxes, get between you and your doctor, and eliminate private insurance. It's a strategy that spreads misinformation and generates fear to preserve the status quo. Arkansans should not be misled by those who oppose real reform.
I am under no illusion that achieving meaningful health care reform will be an easy task. However, I am committed to reform because Arkansans must have certainty that if they get sick, they will have options to receive stable, affordable and high-quality health care.
Congress is on the verge of developing a health care policy that will work better for everyone and we cannot afford to let this opportunity slip away. Our health care crisis was not created overnight and it will not be fixed overnight. It will take all of us--individuals, employers, insurers and providers--to share in the responsibility and come together to make this possible. We know that government cannot do it alone. The key is to take what works and make it better for the next generation of Arkansans. We can no longer afford to sit back and do nothing.

Paid for by Friends of Blanche Lincoln

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

Queer Frontier & Windmills 2.0.

Here we are, mid-week in the midst of moving on and upwards from another a marker in our personal lives and histories. Overwhelmed as we all perhaps have been from the passing weeks' grief moments, ultimately life must go on. On we shall go with the latest updates, breaking news, commentaries, links, people and just plain ole stuff. Let's go for it...




Researchers from Oregon State University's Vaccine and Gene Therapy Institute (VGTI) Florida and the University of Montreal say they have discovered a potential way to eradicate HIV by suppressing viral replication and stopping the division of certain T-cells in the body, according to a study published on Sunday online in the journal Nature Medicine, the Treasure Coast reports (Copsey, Treasure Coast, 6/21). Lead researcher Rafick-Pierre S kaly, scientific director for VGTI Florida and a professor at the University of Montreal, and colleagues say that a new therapy that combines traditional antiretroviral treatment with what they call "intelligent targeted chemotherapy," might completely destroy "HIV reservoirs," where the virus hides inside immune system cells and cannot be reached by existing treatments.
Co-author Jean-Pierre Routy, associate professor of hematology at McGill University in Montreal, said that if a patient responds to traditional antiretroviral therapy, then they would be a good candidate for the new treatment, which could kill the remaining cells that keep the virus alive in the body. He said the patient could "remain virus-free for a long time or forever." A study will begin in September to test the validity of the findings (Minsky, Canwest/Calgary Herald, 6/21).

BarWatch: If you've been keeping count or not, entertainment venues and outlets are surfacing here, there and maybe over there. So let's try to sort some of this out, if we may. First up, I finally got a chance to get a closer look and further understanding about what's really going on in the former Factory nightspot now christened, Speakeasy Supper Club under the helm of former Easy Street manager, M. Henderson & partners. The construction is certainly ongoing and from my viewing is quite extensive and may cause a delay in the scheduled August 12 opening. So far, only the unfinished stage and "U" shaped bar are recognizable, with a proposed "VIP- loft area in the making and some other "areas" being mapped out for cabaret seating. Grand plans on paper yet as one who has worked with construction folk, not always feasible or practical. One item that I didn't see, that I thought should be lurking some where with this type of work, was construction dumpster for all the debris that currently taking up space and more to come. Henderson did allude to the fact that some materials had been recycled and other usables found life elsewhere. As I spoke with the trio partnership, they were filled with enthusiasm and optimism about the upcoming venture. According to a marketing piece, "Speakeasy Supper Club, has a concept for entertainment and cuisine that is simple and exciting. Two parts modern-Two parts nostalgia-one part kitsch- with a dash of really? Wow!.." I'm not sure about what "wow" they are speaking of but in my opinion this venture needs to go into warp drive if it plans on meeting that opening deadline. After all, the line up calls for a SpeakEasy Revue featuring female show girls, a male chorus, bartenders, servers, and (OMG) a Chef that needs to be in place before the doors open. I hope that they know that good help is hard to find and good golly to Keep! These brave souls are hammering and tinkering away daily in search of capturing a mature, income disposable, arty crowd. Well, I say, "good luck with that!" In other Barwatch news, I've learned the alleged moniker of that other venture going in at 610 Center Street. Are you ready? TA- DAH!...it's ( are you really ready?) SWAY. Say what? Oh come now, don't you know what a SWAY is? Well, nope. Therefore, I had to go to the streets of Little Rock dictionary for some clarity. Apparently, this is slang lingo for what I'm defining as "having it all together with a self confidence," not the protective automobile suspension device that came up when I Googled. I was told by one of my "Peeps in the Streets" that I should know because I, meaning little old me, has a "swag about myself." I guess you could relate it to what former President Bush sorta displayed in a "swagger" about himself and current President O's brotherly stride that exudes a certain demeanor or how he handles certain situations. Anyway, the club is slated to be a private nightclub and it's beverage license is being bounced at the Alcohol Beverage Control board. Please stay locked in, things are just getting interesting...

Tuesday, July 07, 2009

Mirror, Mirror... The Man, Me & You


J-DAY, has arrived as the news of Michael Jackson's death has spreaded to every corner of of every hemisphere, except perhaps North Korea, it's time to lay the idol to rest. It's been a long journey from that faithful day to the spirit inspired memorial production taking place in the Staples Center in Los Angeles. Hopefully, this "final curtain call," will facilitate some closure for some and peace for his immediate family and children. God's speed and thanks for the sharing your talents across the globe. It's no doubt that you will be truly missed....


This forum is always seeking items or content such as the one below as foundation pieces to "teachable moments." Every day I try to find at least some time in my busy day to enjoy a moment of inspiration as the turblence of the world goes on around me. I implore each and every one of you to find the time to reflect, mediatate, prayer or quiet time to allow yourself to appreciate the wonderfulness of yourself in the ongoing "6 degree" paradigm which we all share. Have Safe and Proud day!


The Echo Of Life By: Author Unknown


A man and his son were walking in the forest. Suddenly theboy trips and feeling a sharp pain he screams, "Ahhhhh." Surprised, he hears a voice coming from the mountain,"Ahhhhh!" Filled with curiosity, he screams: "Who are you?", but the only answer he receives is: "Who are you?" This makes him angry, so he screams: "You are a coward!",and the voice answers: "You are a coward!"

He looks at his father, asking, "Dad, what is going on?" "Son," the man replies, "pay attention!" Then he screams,"I admire you!" The voice answers: "I admire you!"

The father shouts, "You are wonderful!", and the voice answers: "You are wonderful!" The boy is surprised, but still can't understand what isgoing on. Then the father explains, "People call this 'ECHO', but truly it is 'LIFE!'

Life always gives you back what yougive out! Life is a mirror of your actions. If you wantmore love, give more love! If you want more kindness, givemore kindness!

If you want understanding and respect, giveunderstanding and respect!

If you want people to be patientand respectful to you, give patience and respect!

This rule of nature applies to every aspect of our lives."

Life always gives you back what you give out.

Your life is not a coincidence, but a mirror of your own doings.

Monday, July 06, 2009

FED UP 101

I'm fed up. Yup, I'm fed up with just being fed up. And the list is just getting longer by the day and it seems that I'm not alone. My Fed Up tirade consist of that far reaching Star Trek type radar of subjects, persons and or issues. So here's my list. I'm Fed Up with some of my neighbors whom don't share my view of keeping tidy surrounding's that doesn't include refuse, non-working cars and loose beer cans running about. I'm pretty Fed Up with the concept that I must pay sales taxes on a used car, my dog's grooming, personal property tax, income taxes, hamburger tax, and just about any taxes that exist. Although I realize that without doing so just would me more Fed up with missing essential services such as fire and police protection. While I'm being Fed Up, I guess I'm also put out with those whom obliviously and openly chirp on cell phones while shopping or "text manics" trying to drive as well. Then, there's employees who have more insipid reasons why they can't come to work, not to mention why they are not working when they do arrive late. Adding to my dismay, I can't leave out my creditors ability to change the rules of my credit cards at their greedy pleasure, sparring to get a doctors appointment when I want it, waiting in line at the U Scan because the customer before me seems clueless, the excessively loud rap music that jar the walls of my home even though we have a neighborhood "noise ordinance" and the Wall Street wizards whom created those slug mechanism that not many knew how they worked resulting in massive government bailouts. And damn it, I'm still Fed Up about loosing my best friend to AIDS and my inability to find a person to fill that void. Hell, I'm just FED Up with life itself, but when I think about it, isn't everybody? Yet, the only alternative is simply not living which I'm not ready to embrace, so does it really matter how fed up I am about anything. Especially, since the overall determination of my piece of mind is based on my own personal responsibility tied to choices that I ultimately decide. I may have a distaste for all the above, but we all have a list of items that cause us angst and discord. I'm fully aware that the playing field in life hasn't and most likely will never be the same for the masses. History has sound illustrations to that fact and our present day situation isn't faring well either. I'm not blinded to the inadequacies within our society or the systems that have allowed such disenfranchisement to co-exist, but the recent chatter from the Fed UP Queer group concerning their "position" in regards to local businessman Norman Jones caused me pause. For the record, I've known Jones for numerous years and let me be clear, we've not seen eye to eye on a variety of issues including some that were quite public. I feel comfortable with the stance that as mature adults, we can agree to disagree, and move on respectfully. I re-read this stated position again to refresh my senses and I respect their right to protest, opinions and civil discourse. However, it's the outcomes that I'm trying to assess as well as the broadness of their bullet points. They cite Jones' "monopoly" in this city. Well, that may be true now, but their were other owner/operators who were the only game in town long before Jones entered the market. Furthermore, their have been numerous individuals to coincide in this area, even as Jones operated then and now, offering the LGBTQ community choice. I personally remember all of them with their own questionable "sense and sensibilities" that often didn't please one faction or another, including myself. It's fact that each of those business people called the shots for their establishments irrespective of the communities needs or wants. They supported when they desired to do so and as they deemed appropriate. The "gay" business segment of this city has had a cautious approach in supporting the community. Basically because many of these entrepreneurs outside the nightlife venues have cited the lukewarm support they've received. On 4.27.07, this forum sponsored a free Networking Event for businesses which garnered marginal results. I was personally told by a local business person, "why should I attend to promote my business, when most gay people don't really support my business..." In retrospect, it wasn't protest that led to those bar closures, it was the art of doing business vs market forces. If Jones has been a survivor, it's due his adept business acumen, tenacious work ethic and his passion for success. Getting in business can be easy, but staying in businesses is the true test. Especially while attempting to provide a venue for a diverse group as the lavender set with its ever changing satisfaction level. Further in their outline, they use terms such as "exploitative" and denote the lack of access in Mr. Jones entities for HIV/AIDS literature, of which I had heard about before this eruption from a former outreach worker of Many Men, Many Voices. If my memory serves me correctly, then Coordinator J. Martin recounted to me that Jones referred to his tri-folds as "racist," due to the nature that this JCCSI sanctioned outreach focused distinctively to the Black MSM population. I found that observation remarkably narrow minded with hopes that perhaps NJ could be positioned for ongoing "teachable moments." Meanwhile, Jones is called out concerning, incidents of folks being singled out for their uniqueness or expression as detailed supposedly by a shirtless cub but not the PYT (pretty young thing) with a six pack. His lack of cash outlay for Act 1 and the operating of HWPA have these members "fed up" as well. In my opinion, are these random situations or discernable patterns that actually warrants attention? To what realistic standard is this corporate citizen vs other business citizens held accountable for their interaction within this community? Where's the responsibility or culpability zone for those who have "willingly" supported Jone's outlets over the years? Has it not been just easy to abdicate the collective consciouness? Apparently FUQ wants to make a point and it's going down for discussion in public view on Tuesday at 6 pm in Mac Arthur Park. I have to assume that anyone and everyone is invited, so let's let the chips fall where they may...stay tuned I'm sure I'll have some more to say about this one. In the meantime, don't forget that the floor is always open for your thoughts.

Friday, July 03, 2009

TGIF: A Firecracker Edition

It's a star spangled mash up this outing with a burst of news, commentary, links and breaking news in Central City and beyond. As other's make their way to lakes or invited to yet another cook out, I'm taking a fast dash in the Big Chair before a brief break in the action. COP:24/7 has been putting it all out there and more just for you. Do the 4th of July, but stay locked and loaded with CorneliusOnpoint!

Barth in the House: Actually that's Jay Barth looking to be in the Arkansas Senate as stated by his latest ccampaign e-blast which cited his candidacy being supported by the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund. According to Barth, "...I believe that the tremendous support for my campaign--evidenced in contributions and commitments to volunteer--shows confidence that I have the characteristics that we need in a State Senator at this time of great opportunity for Arkansas." His bid for the Senate seat appears to have broad based appeal from both the LGBTQ community and allies. During the Pride Picnic, Barth urged attendees to become motivated and get energized as volunteers in his organization. The Victory Fund, founded in 1991, is the only national organization dedicated to growing the number of openly LGBT elected officials at all levels of government. If you would like to donate you can do so at the campaign website: http://www.jaybarth.org/ or http://www.actblue.com/

Bar Watch: Holy Rainbows! Just how many entertainment outlets will take to entertain us? Well, it seems local entrepreneurs are not deterred with the economy or the ebbing/flowing patrons. I've mentioned the forthcoming addition to the Off Center mix, which will be sanctioned, PULSE. According to Norman Jones, this offering will feature a lounge/ dance/ show atmosphere adjacent to the live entertainment of the sister club. It will be a 21 and up private club venture with the "Eyes of Texas," Whitney Paige (picutred) slated as show director. Construction continues with an opening date still pending. On the heels of that update, Backstreet has sliced off another operating day, Saturdays. The multi-bar concept is now only open on Friday's from 9 until 5 a.m. In a previous post I openly speculated about the lack of people in the cavernous outlet versus days gone by and what affect that would have on the bottom line. Although my observations didn't make the difference but certainly the lack of dollars spoke volumes, as well as the continuing trend that this forum also has mentioned that such entities are seeking to downsize to either die out. Then comes the news of another "private club" outlet at 310 Center reportedly being helmed by former short term The Factory proprietor, Mr. Marcus. At this posting, it's all about the devil in the details when it comes to posting about these movements. However, I did notice a ABC (Alcohol Beverage Control) notice in the storefront window citing a licensing effort. On my visit, there were no signs of construction, which in opinion will have to be one those extensive and probably expensive "tear outs" to get it right. If Mr. M. want to compete for the minds and pockets of the lavender set, I expect that he will have to "bring some to get some," if this business is to be successful. Hey, Mr. M. I'm all ears if you want to update a brother. Meanwhile, the construction work continues on the "Michael & Company Project" in the defunct The Factory spot on Louisiana Street. To date there's no opening date, but there's an allegedly "speakeasy" theme, however as I researched for that all important ABC date, there doesn't appear to be one on the docket. Of course, there's lots of paperwork and busy work involved in getting through the gates of the "Arkansas Beverage Gods." With all this activity occurring, does this mean that Little Rock is trying to develop it's own version of Chicago's Loop, Dallas' Cedar Springs, or Houston's Montrose hubs? Can this city's community visualize such a move and then be capable of supporting these brave business movers and shakers? Will this type of "consumerism" be met with open arms or disdain? Only time will tell and this forum hopes to be the first to bring it to you! If you've got back talk, you can reach out and touch in our comment section.

Thursday, July 02, 2009

Talking Out Loud Thursday

Did you sense it? Do you remember that this "thing that I do" was upon our own milestone? Well, did ya? O.K. at least one of you sent me a nice "kudos" on the fact that this forum has, strike the band...TA DA! Surpassed the 500 post mark. That's right readers, this little exercise has over 500 postings encompassing about some 100,000 words, verbiage, tirades, commentaries, back talk, BS and our damnest attempts to educate, empower and enrichment the GLBTQ community and beyond. It's COP:24/7 in full affect, meanwhile taking no prisoners while we "stay on point" as we keep it real about what's really going on! After all, we are the only daily online portal for Arkansas' rainbow family and allies. And now after that shameless plugging, let's roll..


Capital Pride Re-Tool: It's no secret that this forum has no problem with asking the hard questions or musing about the internal workings of organizations with assumptions of serving the community at large. Therefore, I was somewhat bemused with an announcement from Little Rock Capital Pride concerning it's apparent "re-tooling," as it's searches for candidates for it's non-functioning board. Previously, I've posted concerns and observations about not only this group, but any of these community mash ups that proposes to be some type of working apparatus. Just to refresh your memory, this is the organization that promoted itself with putting together this year's Pride event, which subsequently was cancelled due to what they cited as "circumstances." To date, this outfit has sidestepped just exactly what those circumstances were, but from those former board members that I've spoken to whom stated that first problem was not sufficient cash flow for what was being possibly or remotely being planned. Despite a few funders, which netted a speculated $1000.00 or so dollars just wouldn't produce the event. Furthermore, I was told that there was lack of synergy among board members and most notably President Chagoya. Now, comes this posting on their website about elections for "seven" positions including the VP spot but which I hope includes the Presidency. In my opinion this group can't continue to operate in a leadership vacuum based on the "Three Faces of Eve" concept. If this group really intends to be a player for 2010 as well taken seriously, then I suggest that they re-vamp, re-tool and get busy doing it with a quickness. If not, then step aside and shuttered it's existence. It's just that simple. I'm reprinting that post, as I urge that only those qualified, committed and prepared individuals seek a position. In other words, if you are not up to the task, then don't pretend to be so. In the meantime, this forum will continue our efforts in promoting the momentum behind the successful Pride Picnic held June 21 in which we celebrated "unity in community," with a colorful mix of supporters as well as allies. As we set eyes on Pride 2010, it' not a "us" against "them" matter, but rather a "Yes We Can," approach that can and will make the difference.

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We are now accepting applications for those interested in joining the Board of Directors for Little Rock Capital Pride. We have 7 open position including that of Vice President. If you are interested in joining and helping out please understand the following:
1. Your term of service if for 2 years. Starting August 2009 ending July 2011.
2. You will be helping to plan the 2010 and 2011 Pride events in Little Rock.
3. This is as fun and as exciting as you make it.
4. You are in on the planning and can influence how pride will look for the next 2 years.
So if you want to join please send a resume or letter introducing yourself to:
Ari Chagoya, President.
The email needs to be sent by July 24th. Elections will be held the last Sunday in July with time and place to be announced.

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

RED, WHITE, BLUE and Rainbow U


On the heels of Pride comes more pride as we prepare to celebrate the long 4th of July weekend. It's that chest busting, head held high, attention saluting commemeration of this nations declaration of independence some 200 years ago. Even as those preparations are in full swing, there's still updates, breaking news, and at least one kitchen sink to report about in this forum. Therefore, prior to the sparklers and other fireworks, let's get firecracking!!!



Jackson A Go-Go: You can't say that you've not heard almost every little tidbit or tawdry fact, fiction or foolishness about the life and death of iconic entertainer Micheal Jackson. My condolences are with his entire family in this time of bereavement, however, this tribute funeral is rivaling that of President Lincoln which went on a 180 city, seven state, 1,654 mile trek before his internment in Illinois. It now appears that the final prep is being decided in L.A. to send MJ into the afterlife befitting of pop royalty. Meanwhile, MJ's big tent of complex deals, constructs, mash-ups and just plain on mayhem will continue even after the final good-bye. Especially from the talking media heads who are living and breathing every nuanced quip, dip or unscripted word about Jackson. Every so tipping through the glass house without seen as exploiting his legacy. It's all so surreal that you would think that Jackson was the head of state or something. Well, I guess he was the monarch of Neverland and personally I believe that this is where he should reign in burial, so that those inclined can make this there ultimate yearly, monthly or daily pilgrimage. At this time, It's all becoming just a bit much for myself and I'm ready and most likely many of you are ready to turn the page.


Movie Night Out: West Little Rock restaurant Lilly's Dim Sum, Then Some is hosting a movie night in support of local art house Market Street Cinema, July 5 at 4 pm. According to an e-blast the film "Performance" is supposedly being screened however, this film is not listed as currently running their, therefore, I'm assuming that perhaps organizers are leasing a theater for the presentation. I've seen several films at MSC and have always enjoyed my retreat into the darkness of a movie house. Also, Market Street offers adult beverages in the concession stand, sells tickets in advance and offers many quirky films that you just can't see in other theatres around town. It's a cash only house, but has one of those ATM machines in the lobby. In the meantime, if we can get a clarification, then it will be posted here or call the theatre at 501.312.8900 and tell em you heard it here!


BLK Pride & HIV: The second Annual Awareness Luncheon in conjunction with Black Pride Weekend will be held Saturday, July 25, 2009 at Theresa Hoover HMC, 4000 13th street, 11-3pm. There will be HIV testing and complimentary food and beverage. This is sponsored by IFBP (International Federation of Black Prides), Arkansas Department of Health, C.A.R., JCCSI, Theresa Hoover U.M.C. and an entity that's new to me, the Arkansas Black AIDS Foundation. For more info contact: Desmond at 501-529-1538 or Stanley at 501-398-0307 This forum will continue to highlight all activities from this "Open to all" event!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Taking it to the Streets...The Tuesday Edition


Even though this city celebrated Pride last week, these celebrations are actually spreaded over several months throughout the summer. I heard from many of you during the week that you've attended other larger events in Q-metropolitan areas that seem to impress your senses. I lived in San Francisco, witnessing the notable pride parade their, but I've never ever considered that event comparable to this city, As I've stated previously, this is not "their" and selling our selves short because we've seen it done bigger elsewhere isn't helping improve our offerings locally. Those cities such as NYC, ATL or even Dallas for that matter, have these determining factors that create those highly visible efforts. First: MONEY. The budgets for those cities are funded through various revenue sources including some city grants. In Philadelphia, local Pride events have received $10,000 for single day events and additional funding up to $10,000 for multi-day events. Can you imagine if the city of Little Rock had a "community festival funding program" equipped with such funding? How about the Mayor or Ward Representative attending? Meanwhile, in Fort Lauderdale, their festival was almost cancelled due to a $50,000 short fall for a "weekend" slate of activities, based on a budget topping over $100,000. In Columbus, budgeted items included $27,000 for staging, $20,000 for security and contracted services as well as $19,000 for catering for purchase after an admission fee. At this year's picnic co-sponsors COP:24/7 and CAR were generous in offering FREE food and beverages. Secondly, Sponsorships. Ranging from Local adult beverage vendors to AARP, each offering in-kind donations to on-site booths ran the gamut at the big events. Could this level of sponsorship be a reality for the capitol city? If not, why not? Thirdly, PEOPLE. Many of these festivals have "functioning" Board of Directors, some paid Executive Directors and distinctively committed individuals/volunteers who make these memorable events happen. For those who braved the heat and came in support, also who have send this forum "congrats," I again personally thank you and appreciate your support. However, If Little Rock wants more big city fare, then making your personal commitment starting TODAY is the challenge. Here are the building blocks of the blueprint to 2010 success. The question becomes: what can you contribute to show some pride? I promised that there would be ongoing perspectives on what it will take to give you more of what you are looking for in PRIDE 2010. Stay locked in, share your observations, participate with our widgets and get on board NOW!...

Monday, June 29, 2009

Omnibus Horizons, Part 2

The world continues to be engaged and enthralled with everything, "Michael." From this Special Commemorative Edition from TIME to his recordings both downloads and CD's being literally ripped from the shelves. Meanwhile, the speculation, musing, fuzzy math, tributes and Patriarch Joe Jackson leave us breathlessly amazed. Even though Jackson's This Is It, tour may not go off as planned, I feel certain that his passing will fill many hours in the next few months and perhaps years. Yet, even as this fallen superstar dominates the news cycles, their have been other notables that have also departed this life. Such as the life force of Farrah Fawcett whom publicly battled cancer, a son caught up in a drug sprial and her long time love connection of Ryan O'Neal. Her career ranged from her commercials, TV show Charlies Angel's, Pin up poster icon, her tour de force work in the Burning Bed and her bold foray of painting in the nude via a Playboy video, "All of Me," which I felt was interesting and quite creative for it's purpose. I watched it several times to get the full affect. Then there was the mini reality series, Chasing Farrah which was another eye opening jaunt with Fawcett allowing cameras to peek into her celeb everyday life and was bookmarked by the recent Farrah's Story which again thrust ed her ultimate crisis back into the public eye. As we bid adue to Ms. Fawcett, I believe that she was not only a American beauty on the exterior but displayed an inner beauty as well.
Quote of the Day:
Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go. T. S. Eliot


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Friday, June 26, 2009

Omnibus Horizons

As the heat of the day began to surged forth, people hurried about in their everyday race of existence, the news cycle buzzed with breaking news,updates and talking heads repeating the days news, when out of no where came the word that musical icon, Michael Jackson was dead at age 50. Was this another cruel hoax? A publicity stunt for his upcoming stellar comeback in London? Tweeters and Texters gone mad? Although somewhat surreal, it was true. The genius, the talented one, the self titled "King of Pop," was no more and it seems that the world would pause for reflection as well as mourning. I was working and my associates were in a frenzy as I tried to maintain control of the department. Out came the cell phones, the text messages, the IM's starting alerting and some even needed a "moment to collect," themselves. I later learned that at least 65,000 text messages a second were being sent upon the news of his death.
Unfortunately for myself, I understood the gravity of the news, but I still had a job to do and the responsibilities of it. Yet, I tried to handle the matter as I approach almost all crisis situations, with my calm, take charge demeanor and stiff upper lip attitude that has served me in time of unpleasantness. It was so strange that out of all the uncertainty and sketchy reports at that time, the level of importance placed upon it. Especially, since I personally was the only individual in the room, who had actually seen Jackson here in the Little Rock Christmas Parade in the early 70's. However, as I left work, I realized that it appeared that the entire world had transformed into "Jackson Land" as his music blared from radio stations, news coverage exploded and people seemed not to know anything else but MJ. Yes, he had world appeal, made significant contributions and impacted many elements of cultural shifts ranging from Black artist being featured on MTV to his statement" We are the World," on famine relief. Of his catalog, I like many had many favorites. However, I really favored many of his less popular songs such as Earth Song and Blood on the Dance Floor. When his mega hit, "Thriller" premiered, I saw it in the backroom of the then Discovery II with it's big screen TV. The room stopped as club goers stood in front of the TV as if it was a message was coming from an oracle. Jackson's Super Bowl extravaganza was front and center at then, Plumtastics Lounge as the boys pot lucked and watched the "gloved one" dance and dazzle. There's no doubt that Mr. Jackson's talent is legendary, but his soar through his existence was also often times marred with eccentricities, mis-guided circumstances and far flung strangeness that fueled the "magic" that groupies and close friends muse about. Ultimately, Michael is the child of Katherine and Jo who have lost not a famous person but rather their son. I would assume that at this time, even though their are many issues at play, it is a death in the family that they must publicly face and share. Thanks, Michael for sharing your love of music, the grit of the dance moves that has even prisoners in court yards doing the "Thriller," and the passionate lyrics that will forever ring across the planet and into the never lands of the cosmos. I bid you a final curtain call and farewell...

BAR WATCH: The 7th Street Corridor entertainment mix has been slated for a make-over and addition of a new offering according to businessman Norman Jones. Formerly known as Easy Street Piano Bar, the renamed OFF Center still features live music, early opening hours and open mic nights. Plans state that the main entrance to the music venue will be altered using a current storefront facade. Adding to the mix, PULSE will also come online in mid-July depending on construction. The new section will be a dance, clubby, show lounge mash up featuring performer, Whitney Paige as show director. Jones cited that he was attempting to answer market needs that another weekday choice should be available for those seeking such a venue. Additional information on cover charges, operation times and cast additions will soon be announced. There's some schedule tweaking happening at 610 Center, with new hours starting this week. Unfortunately, and I've mentioned it here, patronage is not supporting early opening hours thus they are being scaled back to 4 p.m. and closing at 11 p.m. weekdays and 12 p.m. on Friday's. Also, it seems that the "draft" beer recession brew has evaporated. Bartenders for several weeks have stated that the taps were in need of repairs or something to that affect. I guess finding a repair person must be a real chore these days. Meanwhile, for now you can still enjoy some value price beverages on the lounges popular Wednesday evenings and tasty munches as well.


Venue NEWS: I had many e-blast, heard much talk-talk, rumor, conjecture and everything else about the resurgence of "something" in the defunct Factory site. Finally, I've had some confirmation that indeed there are some plans including some actual construction of a soon to be operational and tentatively named, Martha's. Allegedly, the theme will be a " supper club" mix with a "puttin on the Ritz" atmosphere which will feature some live acts, and perhaps as I understand it, some type of staged show. I also gather that this launch stems from Easy Street's former MC, Michael Henderson, and prime supporter, "Martha," hence the club's moniker. I'm expecting to get some more details, including a possible peek at the new digs. Stay tuned....

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Tweet,Twitter and To do's

I had someone ask me the other day, "do you Twitter?" I think the look on my face said it all, but since you dear readers didn't get that priviledge to see my expression, just let me tell you that the "crown wasn't amused!" Twitter?" Do I look like I've got time to send any more words out into the cybersphere? Well, Do I? The T phenom is just about to get on my nerves, since I'm in overload in just keeping the content flowing in this forum and other platforms in which I participate. I know I have some readers, but how many and how often I'm still not exactly sure. I Know you are out there from Star City, Cabot, Maumelle, North Little Rock, and as far away as, get this, Kuwait! Somebody in the middle east hit me up in a google search for information. This forum is open ended as a community service and your voices are always welcomed. Check in with us and don't forget to stay locked in to COP:24/7 !!!!


Tweet, Twitter: Actually I had heard about Twitter, long before it caught fire and everyone else is now on board. As for myself, I spend a lot time in front of the one eyed beast known as my moniter and a blazing keyboard. Even though I can click through a post, I'm challenged with that "texting" stuff which has me scratching my head. For goodness sake, can't we just say "hello?" If you are on board with Twitting, then I'd love for any of you to convince me that I should join the frey. Do you really want to know what I'm doing, when I'm not doing what I do daily in this blog? If so, then let me know.

To Do's 911: CAR( Center for Artistic Revolution) has joined with the Future Builders, who have recently received a grant to test 200 Young folks (16-24) of color within the next few months. June 27th is National HIV Testing Day, testing at the CAR office's at the Presbyterian Church, 800 Scott Street, in downtown Little Rock. Members want to canvas the area neighborhoods within walking distance of the church to inform them of the testing effort. Future Builders will be doing all the testing and counseling, but volunteers are needed to help with the set up, cleaning, food, and entertainment. Reach out and touch for information or updates at 501.244.9690


GET TESTED, GET INFORMED, GET EDUCATED! NOW

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Reloaded Wednesday

In the afterglow of Pride 2009, comes the summer heatwave which has many people in search of a cool spot or their favorite icy refreshing beverage. Hopefully, most of you have recovered from the nightly activities and or events that filled the schedules of our local venues last week. With the "Unity through Community" festivities now passed on, it's time for reflection and assessment of what worked for 09 as well as starting the "vision" for Pride 2010. Many of you who attended the Sunday Picnic stated that you wished you had been involved, well there's no better time than now. Repeatedly, it was mentioned that COP:24/7 had thrown down the gauntlet with the statement of "putting our money where our mouth was," and we rallied to the cause. Therefore, here's the challenge Central City, events such as the Pride Picnic happened via committed individuals whom wouldn't allow any circumstances to shackle us. Stay locked into this forum for updates, gadgets, tools and stimulating dialogue as we create the our blueprint for Pride 2010. Now, let's get busy...

Obama in the Lavender Scope: Even after an affirmation of GLBT Pride Week, offering limited benefits to SGL federal employees, as well as, an impending next week White House invite of "gay leadership," to commemorate the Stonewall Riots, it appears that there's still some grumbling going on from within national LGBTQ circles. On the home front reactions vary from very interested to our norm of "clueless." My in-box has been a off the chain with articles, alerts, commentary, links and mash up about what President O has done or not done for gays. According to an article from Politico, written by J. Gerstein and Ben Smith, they state that, "In fact, Obama’s promise to offer ancillary employee benefits — such as long-term-care insurance and the right to use sick leave to care for domestic partners — while still denying more valuable benefits, such as health insurance and retirement funds, may have further agitated gay and lesbian activists who were already fuming over other perceived snubs. Obama said he also favors extending health and retirement benefits to same-sex partners of federal employees but that such a move is currently prohibited by the Defense of Marriage Act, or DOMA, which passed in 1996." The murmuring has extended to big time gay contributors holding their purses and reportedly again from that article citing, "gay leaders have been in a slow burn through much of the spring, distressed about the Obama administration’s failure to press for immediate repeal of the military’s don’t ask, don’t tell policy prohibiting openly gay men and women from serving. Some also chafed at the White House’s refusal to suspend forced discharges of gay military personnel." From my prospective, he's only been on the job for approximately 6 months and do gays really expect their to be some total sea change done with the entire land teetering in crisis this or that. I fully understand that these issues need a hearing, progressive action but nothing is done overnight except FEDEX. Staying vigilant is certainly the order of the day, but brow beating the prez might be ineffective. Oh Boy!, Mr. Obama said he wanted to be President to all the people and you know sometimes you have to be careful for what you ask for. Got thought? Then go to the comment icon and put it on the table!


Bar Watch: Even as I making my way through Pride 09 last week, I was privy to some other interesting tidbits that made the cut this week. It seems that the long rumored re-launch of yet another entertainment venue in the old Factory site is actually in the works. During the foggy and unsubstantiated verbiage of those connected including former front guy of Easy Street, Michael Henderson, I've learned that the new place is tentatively named, Martha's. Who's Martha you ask and what's really going on... well, you'll have to check us out this FRIDAY for the entire scoop! Speaking of openings, it's a green light for another addition to the 7th Street Corridor entertainment mix coming in July. Work is underway, the theme has been chosen, a name is in place and a new show director has been hired. Wanna know who? It's all going down this Friday here in a special edition. Spread the word...

Stonewall Meet-up: Stonewall Democrats will not hold a regular meeting this month and was cancelled in lieu of participating in the Little Rock Pride Picnic. In a E-blast from the organizations President Joe.L.," the picnic was a tremendous success and I want to personally thank all of the great Stonewall folks that volunteered, participated and showed up for the event. The theme of the day was "Unity through Community" and I was very proud of all of the groups that came together, put differences aside, and pulled the community together for a fun day of celebrating our Pride. We look forward to seeing everyone at our next meeting on Thursday, July 23rd!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Footnotes in Pride: 2.0



The reviews are coming through and we would love to hear from all of you, no matter where you attended or didn't attend any of Pride 2009. Planning for 2010 begins TODAY and it starts with you, you and you too! If you've got pictures, video, shout out's, comments or observations share it with us in the comment sections. The above montage is a small collective of Pride week and will be updated with additional content from submissions. We will keep doing what we do best, "keeping it real" and Staying on Point! Look for more from COP:24/7 in 09. Your support is tremendously appreciated! Let's Rock Together...